St. Mary's

News & Notes

Volume 4

Issue 47

November 12, 2026




25th Sunday

after

Pentecost




Welcome You Are Home!

Message from Your Rector


Put some oil in my lamp; keep it burning!


The parable of the ten bridesmaids is often read as a warning about the end times, but at its heart, it is a lesson on the nature of faith. Faith is not a one-time decision or a garment we put on only for a Sunday service; it is the oil in our lamps—the interior life we cultivate in the quiet, hidden moments of our daily existence.


The bridesmaids who were unprepared were not necessarily lacking in desire; they all waited for the Bridegroom. Their failure was not a lack of intention, but a lack of preparation. They assumed that the grace and readiness of others could sustain them in the moment of crisis. Yet, there are parts of our spiritual life that are deeply personal. No one can pray for us, repent for us, or love for us. We must each tend to our own flame, ensuring that our relationship with God is rooted in a personal, lived experience of His presence.


To keep your lamp burning in the midst of a busy and distracting world, consider these practical ways to cultivate your spiritual oil:

1. Create a sanctuary of silence. Set aside ten minutes a day for stillness. In a world of constant noise, the oil of peace is gathered in the quiet where we can actually hear the whisper of the Spirit.

2. Practice the "liturgy of the ordinary." Find God in the mundane—while washing dishes, commuting, or walking. By offering these small moments to Him, you turn your daily routine into a continuous act of preparation.

3. Cultivate a habit of examination. At the end of each day, ask where you saw God and where you missed Him. This prevents spiritual complacency and ensures your lamp is trimmed and ready for tomorrow.

4. Invest in small, consistent acts of charity. Faith without works is like a lamp without oil. Serving a neighbor or offering a word of encouragement is how we keep the fire of Christ's love alive in our own hearts.


We do not wait for the Bridegroom in fear, but in expectant hope. By tending to our interior lives today, we ensure that when the call finally comes, we can step forward with joy, our lights shining bright.


With every blessing in Christ,


Fr. Jim+

Your 2026 Vestry

. Committee Chairs

Senior Warden - Mike Avadikian

Junior Warden - Greg Gude

Christian Formation - Liz Mitchell

Church Growth - Rick Jelesky

Communications - Susie Cort

Church Life - Norma Barendse

Inreach - Karen Zummo

Outreach - Zach Smith

Finance - Doug Dunkelberger



Vestry Meetings are held the fourth Sunday of each month immediately after the 10:00 service. Please advise the Rector if you have an item for the agenda.

Healing has always been a very important ministry of the church. Fr. Jim will be giving healing prayers and anointing on an individual basis immediately after the 7:45 Service continuing until 9:10 each Sunday morning. 

No appointment is necessary.


Come, get healing prayers from any of your infirmities of body, mind, soul or spirit.


Serving Teams

To All Serving Team Members: Just a reminder...if you cannot serve on your designated time, please go into Realm and decline your serving role. It is still your responsibility to find someone to serve in your place. Please have your substitute make an adjustment in Realm with the new server's name. Please be kind to others and give them enough time to adjust their schedules. Also, please remember to notify admin@stmdc.com so that we can correctly adjust the bulletins. Thank you for your assistance in making this procedure run smoothly.

Upcoming Services/Events

at

St. Mary's


 Sunday Services November 15, 2026


*7:45 a.m.* Mass Rite II No Music

*7:45 a.m. *Sunday School ages 4 & up

*7:45 a.m. * Children's Sunday School (Downstairs Freeman Hall)

*7:40-9:10* Healing Prayers in Sanctuary

*8:30 a.m.* Coffee Hour

*9:00 a.m.- 9:45 a.m.* Adult Education (Conference Room)

*10:00 a.m.* Mass Rite II Eucharist with Music

*11:30 a.m.* Coffee Hour



Additional Services/Events/Meetings of Interest


November 18th 6:00 a.m. *Wednesday* Bell Choir-Tanno Hall

November 19th 6:30 a.m. * Thursday * Men's Eucharist/Breakfast (Freeman Hall)

November 19th 7:30 a.m. * Thursday * Bible Study  (Freeman Hall)

November 19th 10:00 a.m. * Thursday * Bible Study & Eucharist

November 20th 9:00 a.m.-Noon * Friday * Rachel’s Guild-Tanno Hall, Quilting

November 20th 1:00 p.m.-4:00 p.m. * Friday * Handmad’ns—Freeman Hall-Knitting

ONE SERVICE November 22nd @ 9:00 a.m. ONE SERVICE


Come Pray With Us

The Collect for

the 25th Sunday after Pentecost


Blessed Lord, who caused all holy Scriptures to be written for our learning: Grant us so to hear them, read, mark, learn, and inwardly digest them, that we may embrace and ever hold fast the blessed hope of everlasting life, which you have given us in our Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.


One Service November 22nd

With 1 Advent being November 29th, we will be changing our One Service for the Fifth Sunday to November 22nd. This will allow us to recognize all four weeks of Advent without interruption. Mark your Calendar for  ONE SERVICE November 2nd @ 9:00.

Thursday's are Prayer Time


Prayer is always encouraged throughout your day, in times of thanksgiving, in time of crisis and in time of discernment. Any time of day is appropriate for prayer. No matter what your life involves... Pray!

We offer many additional ways that can assist you with your prayer life other than traditional services:


8:00 a.m. on FaceBook Live (recorded to see later)

Fr. Jim leads Morning Prayer

Page 75 in the Book of Common Prayer


10:00 a.m. Bible Study @ St. Mary's - Freeman Hall


7:00 p.m. on FaceBook Live (recorded to see later)

Fr. Jim leads Compline

Page 127 in the Book of Common Prayer


Please join us and enrich your prayer life!!

Come Learn With Us

Thursday Morning

Bible Study

We will continue to study

John's Gospel

Chapters 14 and 15


Please come & join us!!


Name Tags Needed?


If you are new to St. Mary's or if you have lost or misplaced you name tag, please contact Linda Hadley at: linda@hadleyx2.com as she will be placing an order soon. Please check the board inside of Freeman Hall to see if you have a name tag there before you put in your order. We ask that everyone have and wear a name tag so that our visitors can get to know our long time members too!!

Come Grow With Us

Cox's Corner


Cox Elementary is always in need of protein/nutrition bars. Many of the children arrive at school without breakfast so the protein/nutrition bars are all they have until lunch period. Our congregation has always supported this mission and we appreciate anything you can do for these children.

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Cooler weather is on the way!! Many of Cox Elementary students are in need of warm clothing. Hooded sweatshirts in ALL SIZES are needed. Please consider a sweatshirt contribution. "Hint" ... If ordering from Amazon, consider ordering in bulk. Your orders can be shipped or delivered to Mike Menard's home: 17147 Sweetwater Road, Dade City, FL 33523. Thank you for your continued support.

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Thank you for participating in the Cox Elementary sweatshirt and protein/nutrition bar drives. Please remember Cox Elementary throughout the year as they are in constant need of cool weather clothing and protein/nutrition bars. Think of these needy children when you see these items on Special where you shop.  


Your support is a blessing.

Mike Menard & Zach Smith

St. Mary's Outreach

St. Mary's is hosting a friendsgiving on Thanksgiving Day, November 26th. There will be a service at 2 p.m. followed by a meal in Freeman Hall. 

Daughters will be providing desserts. Desserts will be set up on the table with the blue tablecloth. Please drop off the day before or the day of and have the dessert labeled "Friendsgiving Dessert - DOK." If your dessert doesn't require refrigeration, please ensure it is wrapped up well and placed directly on the table. Please put in refrigerator if needed. The tablecloth will be cleaned and I'll ensure plates, napkins and cutlery are on the table as well. Day of assistance is welcome; however it is understandable that most, if not all, already have plans that day.

Please use the link below to sign-up:

St. Mary's Episcopal Church: St. Mary’s Friendsgiving

Thank you. Grace and Peace,

Laura


Daughters of the King - 4th Quarter Project

Blessing Bags for Seniors


This quarter, the Daughters of the king at St. Mary’s will be preparing Blessing Bags for Seniors as a way to share kindness, encouragement, and a little extra love with members of our local senior community.

For many seniors, even the simplest necessities and small acts of kindness can make a meaningful difference. Our goal is to fill these bags with thoughtful items that will be comfort, brighten someone’s day, and remind each recipient that they are valued, remembered, and loved.

But this project is about more than simply delivering a bag of goodies! Our Daughters will personally visit with the seniors, hand-deliver the blessing bags, spend time sharing fellowship, and offer prayers and words of encouragement. We hope to bring not only practical items but also companionship, comfort, and the reassurance that someone cares.

We need your help to make this project a success!

We are asking our St. Mary’s church family to prayerfully consider purchasing items from the Amazon Wish List: DOK - Blessing Bags for Seniors or by making a monetary donation. Every contribution, no matter the amount, will help us fill these blessing bags. Together, our small gifts can become a much larger blessing in the lives of others.

As Christians, we are called to serve one another and share God’s love through our actions. This is a wonderful opportunity to put that love into practice.

Thank you for helping the Daughters of the King make a difference, one blessing bag and one personal connection at a time!

“Truly I tell you, just as you did it to one of the least of these…you did it to me.” ~ Matthew 25:40

Thank you. Grace & Peace,

Laura Weeks

President

DOK ~ Martha Chapter

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  Please do not use the Handicap parking spaces in the front parking lot on Sunday morning or during Church activities unless you have a blue handicap parking permit or a real need for using such a space.      

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