JEWISH COMMUNITY CENTER OF
LONG BEACH ISLAND
E-LETTER


October 7, 2022
12 Tishrei 5783

A SUKKOT MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI
What an extraordinary and interesting Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur it was. Many, many thanks to all of you who joined us and made the holidays very special. Look for a Brachas from the Beach with a message about this year’s services.

The holiday of Sukkot is fast approaching. Perhaps the most visible symbol of Sukkot is the Sukkah, the temporary structure that the JCC and most congregations build to commemorate the holiday, and that many of us also place in our yards.
 
This year we are building the Sukkah on Sunday, October 9, 2022. It is a mitzvah to build the Sukkah and we will definitely need help.
 
There are many reasons for building, and dwelling in, a Sukkah. The Torah specifically tells us to “live in Sukkahs for 7 days…in order that future generations will know that [God] made the Israelite people live in Sukkahs when [God] brought them out of the land of Egypt…”
 
What is the purpose of dwelling in the Sukkah? Let’s take a look at a few commentators. The first suggestion is from Isaac Aboab a 14th century Talmudic scholar living in Spain. He said:
 
The commandment to dwell in the Sukkah is intended to teach us that a person must not put his/her trust in the size or strength or salutary conveniences of his/her house, even though it is filled with the best of everything; nor should he/she rely on the help of any person, even if that person is the lord of the land. But let him/her put trust in God whose word called the universe into being, for God alone is mighty and faithful, and God does not retract what God promises. (Menorat Ha-Maor 3.6.1)
 
Rashbam (Samuel Ben Maier, 12th century France) taught that the Sukkah was about humility. He said in his commentary to Leviticus 23:43 the following:
 
Do not say in your heart, “My own power and the might of my own hand have won this wealth for me” (Deuteronomy 8:17); you should remember that it is the Lord your God who gives you strength to make progress. Therefore, the people leave [their] houses, which are full of everything good, at the season of the ingathering, and dwell in booths, as a reminder of those who had no possessions in the wilderness and no houses in which to live. For this reason, the Holy One established the Feast of the Tabernacles…..[so] that the people should not be (too) proud of their well-furnished houses.
 
Rashi (10th century France) said that the walls of each Sukkah are actually God’s “cloud of glory”, i.e. The cloud that led the Israelites through the desert. Thus, even though the walls may seem fragile, they are capable of providing protection.
 
As a harvest holiday, residing in the Sukkah helps us to commune with the natural environment around us. I have also learned that the 7 days of dwelling in the Sukkah may help us to shift from our “near-death” experience on Yom Kippur to our reintroduction back into the world.
 
While the Sukkah experience is unique and fun, it is not always comfortable. In fact we find ourselves living outside and subject to the weather just as it is usually beginning to turn crisp and windy. Sitting in our temporary home at night, our senses are heightened to our surroundings. We hear the wind, we hear the sounds of nature. We smell the musty scent of leaves that have fallen on the ground.
 
And while we are tuned in to the beauty of our surroundings, there is also a sense of how small we are when compared to the world of nature around us. Sitting in the Sukkah we become aware of the beauty and wonder of the world that God has created, while at the same time being cognizant of the fragility of life.
 
Join us for Sukkot services on Monday, October 10th and Tuesday, October 11th, Services start at 10:00 AM…..Services feature waiving the lulav and luncheon in the sukkah. JOIN US!!!!!!
 
Sit, sense, imagine, and be wrapped in the loving embrace of our sacred traditions.
 
Shabbat Shalom and Moadim L’Simcha – Rabbi Michael S. Jay
 
THE JCC WILL HAVE A WATER STATION AGAIN THIS YEAR IN FRONT OF OUR BUILDING. JOIN US IN ENCOURAGING THE RUNNERS AS THEY HONOR THE ISRAELI OLYMPIC ATHLETES MURDERED IN MUNICH IN 1972. CALL THE OFFICE TO LET US KNOW YOU WILL BE PARTICIPATING.

FOLLOWING THE WATER STATION WE WILL BE PUTTING UP THE SUKKAH.
WE WILL NEED YOUR HELP!!!!!

Candle Lighting time
Friday evening
October 7, 2022
6:11 PM
(So. Ocean County)

JOIN US FOR
SERVICES
Friday night
October 7, 2022
6:00 PM
IN PERSON
AND ON ZOOM

Here is 
your invitation from 
Rabbi Jay to join
Zoom services

Saturday Morning
October 1, 2022
9:00 AM
IN PERSON AND
ON ZOOM

Here is
your invitation from 
Rabbi Jay to join
Zoom services

Torah Reading
Parashat Ha’Azinu
Deuteronomy 32:1-32:52
Here is the Reading

In Ha’azinu (“Listen”) , Moses recites a poem praising God and criticizing the sins of the Israelites. He describes the misfortunes that the Israelites will face and the damage God will ultimately wreak on their oppressors. The portion ends as God commands Moses to ascend Mount Nebo, where he is to die. 

Haftorah
II Samuel 22:1-51
Here is the Haftorah
Saturday evening
October 1, 2022
7:30 PM

Havdallah
7:30
ZOOM ONLY

Here is 
your invitation from 
Rabbi Jay to
join Zoom services:

Here is 
your invitation from 
Rabbi Jay to
join Zoom services:

Sunday - Thursday
Ma'ariv Service
7:30 PM
Here is 
your invitation from 
Rabbi Jay to
join Zoom services:

Monday- Friday
Shacharit Service
8:15 AM
Sunday at 9:00 AM

Here is 
your invitation from 
Rabbi Jay to
join Zoom services:
DINNER IN THE SUKKAH

Mark your calendars for Monday night, October 17 for a fleishig dinner in the Sukkah (there will be seating inside as well). Reservations are required. Please contact the office or respond to this email.
ROSH HASHANAH AND YOM KIPPUR AT THE JCC OF LBI

A Yasher Koah to Rabbi Michael Jay and Cantor Sara Geller for leading us through a beautiful High Holiday Service. The challenge of engaging both the Roomers and Zoomers is a daunting one. Added this year was the weather and whether it would be safe for folks to try to get down to the JCC with the flooding of the boulevard and side streets (why did high tide have to be when services began on Kol Nidre?). We hope everyone was able to find their way to thoughtful prayer on these holy of holy days and for everyone to have heard the sound of the Shofar this yom tov.

Many thanks go to the High Holiday Committee and the JCC Staff for their hard work and their attention to the many details required to create a meaningful service for everyone.


SUKKOT SCHEDULE
CANDLE LIGHTING (SOUTHERN OCEAN COUNTY)
Sunday October 9 - Erev Sukkot 6:08 PM
Monday, October 10 - Sukkot I 7:37 PM

SUKKOT SERVICES

Sunday, October 9 - Erev Sukkot 7:30 PM
Monday, October 10 - Sukkot I - 10:00 AM
Tuesday, October 11 - Sukkot II - 10:00 AM

All services are IN PERSON and on ZOOM

LUNCHEON IN THE SUKKAH ON MONDAY AND TUESDAY
THIS WEEK'S ACTIVITIES

WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 12
10:00 AM
Rabbi Alan Lew Class
Getting Ready for the Holidays Together - Sukkot

12:30 AM - 4 PM
Canasta & Mah Jongg

Next Rabbi Jonathan Sacks Class
October 19

Next Torah Study Class
October 20

ACTIVITIES

October 9
18 Mile Run

October 13
WAX Membership Brunch

October 19
Boscov"s
Friends Helping Friends

2022 RAFFLE WINNERS

1st Place
Renee Ward
2nd Place
Carol & Norman Barham
3rd Place
Herb Botwinick

Thank you to all who participated in this fund raiser and to Diane Hoffman, our creative and dedicated Chairperson

HERE IS THE FORM FOR YOU TO PRINT, FILL OUT
AND SEND IN WITH YOUR CHECK
OR

YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT THE INFORMATION ON LINE FOR YOUR PAVER AND MAKE YOUR PAYMENT AS WELL
The JCC will once again be participating in the PNJ Consortium. An exciting 8-part series is being made available to our congregation.
You need not register.
The Zoom link wil be sent out to everyone prior to the event.
NEXT PROGRAM NOVEMBER 10TH

CONGREGATION NEWS
The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening

Morris Freeman
Betty Pacharz
Fanny Troum*
Henry Gaulton
Henry Melin
Betty Bosswick
Rose Britz*
Abraham Greenspan
Ruth Srager
Al Aronson
Beulah Grubar*
Dora Kaplan
Alfred Krechovitz*
Bea Mendlow*
Lena Greenwald*
Elaine Hirsch*
Mildred Berman
Selma Blacker
Daniel Glass
Helen Karp
Ethel Tarlow
Bertrand Berman
Saul Celnik
Doris Farin*
Lynn Kamler Levi*
Pauline Sherman

 *Memorial plaque will be lit this week.

In this Zoom era, we have been able to have a daily minyan at 8:15 AM and at 7:30 PM and on Shabbat. We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral, going up to the grave of the departed, Yizkor remembrance day and other occasions on which the memory of the dead is recalled. You are also welcome to share with the minyan some special memories of your loved one.
Mark Rosen
October 9
Jeffrey Carson
October 11
Lori Steigerwald
October 12
Joe Fleischer
October 13
Carl Greenberg
October 13
Jacqueline Printz
October 13
 
Phillip & Debra Belena
October 9
23rd Anniversary
Mark & Eileen Rosen
October 11
7th Anniversary
Ken & Sue Fuirst
October 13
32nd Anniversary
Richard & Phyllis Dittrich
October 14
38th Anniversary

MAZEL TOV
IRENE & MICHAEL BABST
on the marriage of their daughter
Amanda Fisher to Chris Hibbard
September 24, 2022
Raleigh, NC
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CONTACT: 

CARING COMMITTEE
  This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.
Please contact Chairperson,
Debby Schweighardt
if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help. 973-634-5349 

YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.

Go to jccoflbi.org - community - forms

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES

PAVERS
Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building
8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"

SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:
Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.
Purchase a personalized paving stone
in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.

Please contact Diane Hoffman
with your order or with any questions:


PRAYER BOOKS
There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.
See Order form here: Prayer Book


TRIBUTES
SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF
See order form here: TRIBUTES


TREE OF LIFE
Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE
Bronze Leaf $90
Silver Leaf $126
Gold :Leaf $180


ENDOWMENT FUND

Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.

Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.

A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.
 
Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 


YAHRZEIT PLAQUES
Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 
Here is the order form: 


KOL HAKAVOD

Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD

2022 MEMBERSHIP FORMS

Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.
Here is form for renewal:

And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:

To pay on line
Click on PAY ON LINE
Fill in your information and then
go to Donation Details - then
Other and type in 2022 Membership

JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
JCC LEADERSHIP

OFFICERS
President- Phil Rosenzweig
1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman
2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman
3RD Vice President- Rose Valentine
Treasurer- Ira Morgenthal
Secretary- Cliff Denker
Immediate Past President -Michael Babst

BOARD MEMBERS
Howard Babbitt 
Diane Buskirk
Mitch Frumkin

Jon Geier
Paul Levine
Donald Pripstein
Terri Robinovitz
David Shatz
Rob Van Naarden

WOMEN'S AUXILIARY

President - Diane Buskirk
Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll
Co-Vice President - Jill Denker
Treasurer - Suzy Geier
Secretary - Joanne Babbitt
Immediate Past President - Irene Babst
JCC INFORMATION

THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT
2411 Long Beach Boulevard
(24th Street)
Spray Beach, NJ 08008
Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550
web site: www.jccoflbi.org  
  
THE OFFICE IS OPEN
MONDAY - FRIDAY
CLOSED THURSDAY
FROM 10 - 2

 Staff:
 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager
  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member
 Diane Parzych, Staff Member
Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager


LATEST
BULLETIN:

PRAYER BOOK:
 
WEB SITE:

PAVERS:

TREE OF LIFE
  
YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

TRIBUTES:


CONTACT INFORMATION:
  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

Phil Rosenzweig, President

 
E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 
rvalen1963@aol.com 
Graphics by
Irene Babst