JEWISH COMMUNITY

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November 1, 2024

30 Tishri 5785

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A MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI


My favorite line in Parashat Noah is Chapter 7, verse 16. Noah has built the ark as God commanded. Then, the rains start, and Noah, his family, and all the animals, two-by-two as the songs says, enter the big boat. The Torah then reports: “וַיִּסְגֹּ֥ר יְהֹוָ֖ה בַּֽעֲדֽוֹ׃“, “And God shut him in”.


What?! God actually closed the door of the ark. But why? Noah built the ark. He got the gopher wood, he mixed the tar and pitch, and he put it all together. Why does God feel compelled to close the door?


I have previously written that it was God as parent, lovingly checking to make sure all is okay, and gently closing the door. 


But I now think it is about more than that. On Kol Nidre, I posed the question of how we, as Jews, could navigate a world in which antisemitism is so present. While the scourge needs to be addressed head-on, i.e. we need to confront it directly, there are other things to be done.


Our tradition has provided a system that is designed to strengthen us while, at the same time, it helps us to improve the world around us. Many have learned that a Mitzvah is a good deed. While Mitzvahs certainly include good deeds, the Mitzvah system itself includes much more.  We all know some very basic Mitzvahs. Visiting the Sick, taking care of those less fortunate, welcoming guests, or consoling mourners, are all mitzvahs. Other, perhaps more obscure, mitzvahs are not destroying, common courtesy, preventing harm, and bringing peace in the home.


When performing a mitzvah, we should do it expediently, and not wait for someone else to do it. Another significant part of the mitzvah system is that if at all feasible, we should perform the mitzvah ourselves. Because we are looking for personal growth, it is best not to hire, appoint, or delegate someone else to perform the mitzvah.


When God closes the door to the ark, God is demonstrating the need to perform mitzvahs by ourselves. God could have commanded Noah to close the door. God could have sent any angel to close the door. As God did last week, God could have just spoken the words: “let the door close” and closed the door. Instead, God shows up and closes physically closes the door with the Godly hand. 


 It is a powerful lesson. We are all created in God’s image. We all have the divine spark within us. We can all close the door or perform any mitzvah that needs to be done.


Regarding Mitzvahs, with Election Day on Tuesday and early voting having begun, it is a mitzvah to vote. My friend and colleague, Rabbi Ari Lucas expressed it as follows:


You won’t find (the mitzvah of voting) in the Torah, but when one thinks about the long history of Jewish political power (or lack thereof) in the many lands in which we’ve lived, it’s hard not to feel equal measures of gratitude and obligation to participate in the democratic process. Every time I go to vote, I recite two blessings:

1.     בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה ה’ אֱלֹקינוּ מֶֽלֶךְ הָעוֹלָם שעשני בן/בת חורין—Praised are You, Adonai our God, ruler of the universe, Who has made me a free person.

2.     בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה ה׳ חוֹנֵן הַדָּֽעַת—Praised are You, Adonai, Who bestows knowledge.


These two blessings are an expression of my appreciation of the blessing of freedom and my fervent desire that God grant me wisdom to make a good choice in the voting booth. Maybe this ritual will be meaningful to you as well.


Here is a prayer for voting by Lev Meirowitz Nelson:

May it be Your will, at this season of our election, to guide us towards peace.


By voting, we commit to being full members of society, to accepting our individual responsibility for the good of the whole. May we place over ourselves officials in all our gates…who will judge the people with righteousness (Deuteronomy 16:18), and may we all merit to be counted among those who work faithfully for the public good.


Last, but not least. (At least to your Rabbi). I am having an arthroscopy performed tomorrow morning to repair a nasty meniscus tear in one of my knees. Not wanting to impact this past summer season, I put off this procedure until now. Thank God, this is not major surgery, and I should be back on my feet relatively quickly. If you need anything in the short term, I will always be available by text, email, or phone.


Shabbat Shalom – Rabbi Michael S. Jay



Candle Lighting Time

(Southern Ocean County)

Shabbat Eve

Friday. November 1, 2024

5:36 PM

Rosh Chodesh Cheshvan 2024

2 November 2024  


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SHABBAT


TORAH READING

Parashat Noach

Genesis 6:9-11:32; Numbers 28:9-15

Noach (“Noah”) begins as God decides to destroy mankind with a flood. At God’s command, the righteous Noah builds an ark, where Noah, his family, and select animals survive the flood. Noah’s children bear children, and several generations develop. God confounds the speech of people building the Tower of Babel.

Here is Parshah:

Genesis

Numbers


HAFTORAH

Isaiah 66:1-24

Here is the Haftorah


WEEKDAY SERVICES


Sunday - Thursday

Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV


Monday- Friday

Shacharit Service

8:15 AM


Sunday at 9:00 AM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

SHACHARIT

NOVEMBER SERVICE SCHEDULE


Friday evenings

7:30 PM

ZOOM ONLY


Saturday Mornings

9:00 AM

November 2, 9 & 30

ZOOM ONLY


November 16 & 23

IN PERSON

AND ON ZOOM


In spite of the sadness on the anniversary of the attack on Israel on the holiday, the JCC was still filled with the joy of parading around with our Torahs Thursday evening. It was especially sweet as Rabbi Jay carried the Torah with the new cover (see above) dedicated to Captain Ariel Reich who fell in defense of Eretz Yisrael.


SIMCHAT TORAH JEOPARDY & CREATION: O MY GOODNESS

Stu Lehrer, Ritual Chair


THE SHAMIR

For those of us who were fortunate to attend Erev Simchat Torah services, our illustrious Rabbi Jay led Jewish Jeopardy – The Final Jeopardy statement was:

MIDRASH SAYS THAT A TINY CREATURE HELPED TO HEW THE STONES IN THE BUILDING OF THE FIRST TEMP

The answer is: WHAT IS A WORM OR IN HEBREW: THE SHAMIR ?


In the Gemora [Talmud], the Shamir is a worm that had the power to cut through stone – King Solomon is said to have used it in the building of The First Temple in Jerusalem in place of cutting tools – It was inappropriate to use tools that could cause bloodshed, so the wise monarch employed the Shamir


THE CREATION: DAY BY DAY

Last Shabat, we began reading of the Torah from the very beginning: Beresheet. We all know that HaShem created the world in six days and on the seventh day, the Almighty rested [Shabat]. We might be familiar with the verses that follow what the Lord formed each day that say: “…And God saw that this was good, and there was evening and morning on Day One…”  And so on…


BUT – there is an exception and it’s Day Two – It does not conclude with the “…And God saw that this was good….” - It just continues with and there was evening and morning on Day XXX….” – The question is why does it do this


We always hear that there is never just one explanation toward anything Jewish – So here are just a few possible interpretations:

  • Perhaps God did not actively create anything on Day Two – Yes, God made the expanse or firmament but it seems that could just be a separation of what was created on Day One rather than an unique creative event.
  • Humankind was not the focus> If God did actively create on Day Two, the Lord may have spent creative time on the heavens, so that this would have been the only day where earth was not the primary creative focus.  
  • Or it’s just that God didn’t finish creating everything originally scheduled for Day Two so what happened on Day Two was merely ok, and not good.

SUNDAY, November 3

Pickleball (see times below)


PJP Travel Series

Jewish Ethiopia

1:00 PM

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TUESDAY, November 5

Pickleball (See times below)

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WEDNESDAY, November 6

Canasta & Mah Jongg

12:30 PM


Singles, Widows and Widowers Meeting

at the JCC at 3:00 PM

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THURSDAY, November 7

Pickleball (See times below)


Torah Study with Rabbi Jay

11:00 AM


Davening & Duchaning Class

with Stu

7:45 PM After 7:30 Minyan


Rabbi Jack Riemer and Rabbi Elie Spitz, “Duet on Psalms: Drawing New Meaning from Ancient Words”

8:30 PM

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FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 8

Studying the Prophets

following morning minyan


PICKLEBALL SCHEDULE


Sunday, November 3

PJP Travel Series

Jewish Ethiopia

1:00 PM


Wednesday, November 6

Singles, Widows and Widowers Meeting

at the JCC at 3:00 PM



Thursday, November 7

Davening & Duchaning Class

with Stu

After evening Minyan



Thursday, November 7

Rabbi Jack Riemer and Rabbi Elie Spitz, “Duet on Psalms: Drawing New Meaning from Ancient Words”

8:30 PM


Thursday, November 14

PJP Israel Series

“Between Arabic and Hebrew: Mizrahi Culture in Israel”

 8:30 PM


Friday, November 15

WAX Brunch at Jersey Girls

11:00 AM


Sunday, November 17

Barnegat Light Museum Lecture

2:00 PM


Wednesday, November 20

WAX Book Club

4:00 PM


Thursday, November 21

PJP John Kendrick Series

Danny Kay

8:30 PM

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CLICK HERE FOR THURSDAY DAVENING CLASS
CLICK HERE FOR THURSDAY PJP PROGRAM DUET ON PSALMS
CLICK HERE FOR  FRIDAY PROPHETS CLASS 


Is the Shema really a prayer?  What’s with all that moving?  Why are there differences in the services?  Do we really practice ‘priestly blessings?’

 

Please join the JCC’s newest 2-part course:

DAVENING & DUCHANING 101

 

DAVENING

Take a trek through the Sidur & Chumash with our varied prayers & writings learning the eclectic customs, traditions, & laws that have been carried on from generation to generation with twists & variations from the Ashkenazic & Sephardic venues

 

Stu W Lehrer will be our tour guide traveling through the pages of our own Sidur Sim Shalom & Etz Hayim Chumash sharing insights toward the aspects of davening over time

The interesting itinerary will fascinate participants even raise some eyebrows with what will be interpreted as unusual, intriguing, and even amusing enlightenment – Discussions will be a key element to the format

 

DUCHANING

From the time of Aaron, the first High Priest, chosen among his many duties, to bless the Children of Israel, Birchat HaKohanim or Duchaning has been a poignant service engaging till today

 

Stu, a Kohain himself, will share the history and process of this rite that is performed on Sukote, Pesakh, and Shavuote

 

DAVENING & DUCHANING 101 will be conducted on Zoom only on Thursday Nights following Ma’ariv which begins at 7:30 PM

Each class will last about 30 minutes of 6 sessions each:

October 31 – November 7 – 14 – 21 – December 5 – 12 & it’s free!


Please join us for Minyan followed by our newest Adult Ed course at

Zoom Meeting ID:  835 5920 8295 – Passcode 437 484

CLICK HERE TO JOIN THE CLASS

JCC WOMEN’S AUXILIARY: BOOK GROUP DISCUSSION

 WEDNESDAYS AT 4:00 PM

NEXT BOOK REVIEW MEETING


NEXT BOOK REVIEW MEETING


Wednesday, November 20th at 4:00 pm

Discussion Leader: TBA

The Little Liar

By: Mitch Albom

Eleven-year-old Nico Krispis has never told a lie. His schoolmate, Fannie, loves him because of it. Nico’s older brother Sebastian resents him for both these facts.When their young lives are torn apart during the war, it will take them decades to find each other again. Nico’s innocence and goodness is used against his tightly knit community when a German officer barters Nico’s reputation for honesty into a promise to save his loved ones. When Nico realizes the consequences of the betrayal, he can never tell the truth again. He will spend the rest of this life changing names, people he loves most. Albom’s extraordinary storytelling is at its powerful best in his first novel to confront the destruction that lying can wreak both on the world stage as well as on the individual lives that get caught up in it. As The Stranger in the Lifeboat spoke to belief, The Little Liar speaks to hope, in a breathless page-turner that will break your heart open and fill it with the power of the human spirit and the goodness that lies within us all. Narrated by the voice of Truth itself, The Little Liar is a timeless story about the power of love to ultimately redeem us, no matter how deeply we blame ourselves for our mistakes.

PJP PROGRAMS


As part of the PJP consortium the JCC is privy to many outstanding programs.



Travel around the world to Jewish neighborhoods...Study the ever complex dynamics of Eretz Yisrael...Enjoy stories of famous Jewish commedians,,,,


Zoom link will be published prior to each program....

Thursday, November 7 @ 8:30 PM
Rabbi Jack Riemer and Rabbi Elie Spitz, “Duet on Psalms: Drawing New Meaning from Ancient Words”
Psalms are our people’s songs, an ancient playlist that still strikes a chord in our hearts. From lamentation to celebration, the Psalms speak to us from generation to generation. Rabbis Elie Spitz and Jack Riemer take us into a deeper exploration of the Psalms, going beyond the surface meaning of the words with new, thoughtful interpretations, taking a fresh look at these ancient texts and the relevance they can hold for us today. It is a testament to their lasting power that the Psalms continue to provide readers with solace, challenge, inspiration, and more. Duets on Psalms will inspire you to revisit these ancient texts and see them with fresh eyes because, in the end, it’s not what the psalmist intended that matters but the meaning you gain from each psalm as you make its words your own.
Rabbi Jack Riemer, a well-known author and speaker, has conducted many workshops and seminars to help people learn about the inspiring tradition of ethical wills and to prepare their own. As head of the National Rabbinic Network, a support system for rabbis across all denominational lines, he gives sermon seminars to rabbis throughout the United States. He is editor of The World of the High Holy Days (Bernie Books) and Wrestling with the Angel (Schocken), coeditor of So That Your Values Live On: Ethical Wills and How to Prepare Them, and contributed to May God Remember: Memory and Memorializing in Judaism—Yizkor (both Jewish Lights).
Rabbi Elie Spitz served as the Rabbi of Congregation B'nai Israel in Tustin, CA from 1988 to 2021. He has served as a member of the Rabbinical Assembly Committee of Law and Standards (1994-2004; 2008-2016) and as a Global Justice Fellow for the American Jewish World Service (2016-2017). A graduate of The Jewish Theological Seminary and Boston University School of Law, Rabbi Spitz is the author of four books and many articles dealing with spirituality and Jewish law. He has taught the philosophy of Jewish law at the American Jewish University and taught at the Wilkinson College, Religious Studies Department at Chapman University.


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We are very excited to add to the WAX Gift Shop items from local merchants and artisans. Stop in to look and buy one (or more) of these beautiful pieces for your home, as a gift or just for yourself. Here is a sample of some of our new products. The gift shop is open during office hours M-F 10 - 2.

Eileen Jacobs, Potter

Seacrest Designs

Lavina Haven Soy Candles and

Essential Oil Soaps

Mezzuzahs

Resin Bowls and Candlesticks by Seacrest Designs

CONGREGATION NEWS


The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:


Ronald Dalin

Ellen Rosen Field

Ralph Konwiser

Joseph Rosenthal

Joseph Gross

Eric M. Kahn

Fanny Margent

Joseph Isador Sladkus

Lorraine Baratt

Molly Fingerman

Judy Abend

Francis August

Herbert Davis

Jane Hochberger

Ruth Maginsky

Denise Moss*

Will Roth

Albert Stuhl

Max Weinstein

Sylvia Greene

Alex Moss

Rabbi Samuel Nunberg*

Shirley Rogers

Rose Rosenbaum

Paul Tanenbaum

Morris Balbresky

Kesselman Charles

Abraham Heller

Doris Pashman

Samuel Chairnoff

Stephen Harvey Greenberg

Rose Kotler

Eva Miller



We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral, going up to the grave of the departed, Yizkor remembrance day and other occasions on which the memory of the dead is recalled. You are also welcome to share with the minyan some special memories of your loved one.

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CLICK HERE FOR MORNING SERVICE
Cake

Greg Silvershein

November 3rd

Dale Hartman

November 4th

Dana Ranani

November 4th

Stacey Vreeland

November 6th

Peter Smith

November 7th


Jules & Sandy Slotnick

November 2

Steven & Dale Tebeleff

November 2

38th Anniversary

Howard & Ruth Miller

November 3

39th Anniversary

Kenneth & Jill Yudman

November 3

17th Anniversary

Steven & Dale Hartman

November 8

43rd Anniversary

John & Sharon Spina

November 8

38th Anniversary


RABBI JAY

having minor surgery

Refuah Shlemah

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CARING COMMITTEE

  This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.

Please contact Chairperson,

Debby Schweighardt

if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.

973-634-5349 

YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.


Go to jccoflbi.org - Giving/Pay

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES


PAVERS

Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building

8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"


SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:

PAVER FORM

Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.

Purchase a personalized paving stone

in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.


Please contact Diane Hoffman

with your order or with any questions:

dihoff1@aol.com



PRAYER BOOKS

There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.

See Order form here: Prayer Book



TRIBUTES

SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF

See order form here: TRIBUTES



TREE OF LIFE

Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE

Bronze Leaf $90

Silver Leaf $126

Gold :Leaf $180



ENDOWMENT FUND


Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.


Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.


A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.

 

Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 



ANSWER: DON, ELAINE AND SONDI PRIPSTEIN



YAHRZEIT PLAQUES

Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 

Here is the order form: 

YAHRZEIT



KOL HAKAVOD


Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD


2024 MEMBERSHIP FORMS


Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.

Here is form for renewal:

RENEW NOW


And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:

JOIN NOW



JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
 

JCC LEADERSHIP



OFFICERS

President- Phil Rosenzweig

1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman

2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman

3RD Vice President- Jon Geier

Treasurer- Stu Cofsky

Secretary- Cliff Denker

Immediate Past President -Michael Babst


BOARD MEMBERS

Howard Babbitt 

Diane Buskirk

Lorna Klein

Paul Levine

Ken Podos


Sondi Pripstein

Terri Robinovitz

Bonni Rubin-Sugarman

Rose Valentine

Ken Yudman


WOMEN'S AUXILIARY

President - Diane Buskirk

Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll

Co-Vice President - Jill Denker

Treasurer - Suzy Geier

Secretary - Joanne Babbitt

Immediate Past President - Irene Babst

Representative to the Board - Sondi Pripstein


Rabbi Michael S. Jay, Spiritual Leader


JCC INFORMATION


THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT

2411 Long Beach Boulevard

(24th Street)

Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550

email: jccoflbi@gmail.com

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  

  

THE OFFICE IS OPEN

MONDAY - FRIDAY

FROM 10 - 2




 Staff:

 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager

  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member

 Diane Parzych, Staff Member

Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager



LATEST

BULLETIN:

BULLETIN


PRAYER BOOK:

Prayer Book

 

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE


PAVERS:

PAVER FORM 


TREE OF LIFE

TREE

  

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES


KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD


TRIBUTES:

TRIBUTES 



CONTACT INFORMATION:

  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

mjayrab@gmail.com


Phil Rosenzweig, President

prosenzweig@sanddlawyers.com 


 

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 

rvalen1963@aol.com 

Graphics by

Irene Babst