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JEWISH COMMUNITY
CENTER OF
LONG BEACH ISLAND
E-LETTER
November 1, 2024
30 Tishri 5785
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A MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI
My favorite line in Parashat Noah is Chapter 7, verse 16. Noah has built the ark as God commanded. Then, the rains start, and Noah, his family, and all the animals, two-by-two as the songs says, enter the big boat. The Torah then reports: “וַיִּסְגֹּ֥ר יְהֹוָ֖ה בַּֽעֲדֽוֹ׃“, “And God shut him in”.
What?! God actually closed the door of the ark. But why? Noah built the ark. He got the gopher wood, he mixed the tar and pitch, and he put it all together. Why does God feel compelled to close the door?
I have previously written that it was God as parent, lovingly checking to make sure all is okay, and gently closing the door.
But I now think it is about more than that. On Kol Nidre, I posed the question of how we, as Jews, could navigate a world in which antisemitism is so present. While the scourge needs to be addressed head-on, i.e. we need to confront it directly, there are other things to be done.
Our tradition has provided a system that is designed to strengthen us while, at the same time, it helps us to improve the world around us. Many have learned that a Mitzvah is a good deed. While Mitzvahs certainly include good deeds, the Mitzvah system itself includes much more. We all know some very basic Mitzvahs. Visiting the Sick, taking care of those less fortunate, welcoming guests, or consoling mourners, are all mitzvahs. Other, perhaps more obscure, mitzvahs are not destroying, common courtesy, preventing harm, and bringing peace in the home.
When performing a mitzvah, we should do it expediently, and not wait for someone else to do it. Another significant part of the mitzvah system is that if at all feasible, we should perform the mitzvah ourselves. Because we are looking for personal growth, it is best not to hire, appoint, or delegate someone else to perform the mitzvah.
When God closes the door to the ark, God is demonstrating the need to perform mitzvahs by ourselves. God could have commanded Noah to close the door. God could have sent any angel to close the door. As God did last week, God could have just spoken the words: “let the door close” and closed the door. Instead, God shows up and closes physically closes the door with the Godly hand.
It is a powerful lesson. We are all created in God’s image. We all have the divine spark within us. We can all close the door or perform any mitzvah that needs to be done.
Regarding Mitzvahs, with Election Day on Tuesday and early voting having begun, it is a mitzvah to vote. My friend and colleague, Rabbi Ari Lucas expressed it as follows:
You won’t find (the mitzvah of voting) in the Torah, but when one thinks about the long history of Jewish political power (or lack thereof) in the many lands in which we’ve lived, it’s hard not to feel equal measures of gratitude and obligation to participate in the democratic process. Every time I go to vote, I recite two blessings:
1. בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה ה’ אֱלֹקינוּ מֶֽלֶךְ הָעוֹלָם שעשני בן/בת חורין—Praised are You, Adonai our God, ruler of the universe, Who has made me a free person.
2. בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה ה׳ חוֹנֵן הַדָּֽעַת—Praised are You, Adonai, Who bestows knowledge.
These two blessings are an expression of my appreciation of the blessing of freedom and my fervent desire that God grant me wisdom to make a good choice in the voting booth. Maybe this ritual will be meaningful to you as well.
Here is a prayer for voting by Lev Meirowitz Nelson:
May it be Your will, at this season of our election, to guide us towards peace.
By voting, we commit to being full members of society, to accepting our individual responsibility for the good of the whole. May we place over ourselves officials in all our gates…who will judge the people with righteousness (Deuteronomy 16:18), and may we all merit to be counted among those who work faithfully for the public good.
Last, but not least. (At least to your Rabbi). I am having an arthroscopy performed tomorrow morning to repair a nasty meniscus tear in one of my knees. Not wanting to impact this past summer season, I put off this procedure until now. Thank God, this is not major surgery, and I should be back on my feet relatively quickly. If you need anything in the short term, I will always be available by text, email, or phone.
Shabbat Shalom – Rabbi Michael S. Jay
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Candle Lighting Time
(Southern Ocean County)
Shabbat Eve
Friday. November 1, 2024
5:36 PM
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Rosh Chodesh Cheshvan 2024
2 November 2024
JOIN US FOR
SERVICES
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Friday, November 1, 2024
7:30 PM
ON ZOOM ONLY
Here is
your invitation from
Rabbi Jay to join Services
on Zoom
FRIDAY NIGHT
Saturday, November 2, 2024
9:00 AM
ON ZOOM ONLY
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your invitation from
Rabbi Jay to join
Zoom services
SHABBAT
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TORAH READING
Parashat Noach
Genesis 6:9-11:32; Numbers 28:9-15
Noach (“Noah”) begins as God decides to destroy mankind with a flood. At God’s command, the righteous Noah builds an ark, where Noah, his family, and select animals survive the flood. Noah’s children bear children, and several generations develop. God confounds the speech of people building the Tower of Babel.
Here is Parshah:
Genesis
Numbers
HAFTORAH
Isaiah 66:1-24
Here is the Haftorah
WEEKDAY SERVICES
Sunday - Thursday
Ma'ariv Service
7:30 PM
Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to
join Zoom services:
MA'ARIV
Monday- Friday
Shacharit Service
8:15 AM
Sunday at 9:00 AM
Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to
join Zoom services:
SHACHARIT
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NOVEMBER SERVICE SCHEDULE
Friday evenings
7:30 PM
ZOOM ONLY
Saturday Mornings
9:00 AM
November 2, 9 & 30
ZOOM ONLY
November 16 & 23
IN PERSON
AND ON ZOOM
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In spite of the sadness on the anniversary of the attack on Israel on the holiday, the JCC was still filled with the joy of parading around with our Torahs Thursday evening. It was especially sweet as Rabbi Jay carried the Torah with the new cover (see above) dedicated to Captain Ariel Reich who fell in defense of Eretz Yisrael. | |
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SIMCHAT TORAH JEOPARDY & CREATION: O MY GOODNESS
Stu Lehrer, Ritual Chair
THE SHAMIR
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For those of us who were fortunate to attend Erev Simchat Torah services, our illustrious Rabbi Jay led Jewish Jeopardy – The Final Jeopardy statement was:
MIDRASH SAYS THAT A TINY CREATURE HELPED TO HEW THE STONES IN THE BUILDING OF THE FIRST TEMP
The answer is: WHAT IS A WORM OR IN HEBREW: THE SHAMIR ?
In the Gemora [Talmud], the Shamir is a worm that had the power to cut through stone – King Solomon is said to have used it in the building of The First Temple in Jerusalem in place of cutting tools – It was inappropriate to use tools that could cause bloodshed, so the wise monarch employed the Shamir
THE CREATION: DAY BY DAY
Last Shabat, we began reading of the Torah from the very beginning: Beresheet. We all know that HaShem created the world in six days and on the seventh day, the Almighty rested [Shabat]. We might be familiar with the verses that follow what the Lord formed each day that say: “…And God saw that this was good, and there was evening and morning on Day One…” And so on…
BUT – there is an exception and it’s Day Two – It does not conclude with the “…And God saw that this was good….” - It just continues with and there was evening and morning on Day XXX….” – The question is why does it do this
We always hear that there is never just one explanation toward anything Jewish – So here are just a few possible interpretations:
- Perhaps God did not actively create anything on Day Two – Yes, God made the expanse or firmament but it seems that could just be a separation of what was created on Day One rather than an unique creative event.
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Humankind was not the focus> If God did actively create on Day Two, the Lord may have spent creative time on the heavens, so that this would have been the only day where earth was not the primary creative focus.
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Or it’s just that God didn’t finish creating everything originally scheduled for Day Two so what happened on Day Two was merely ok, and not good.
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SUNDAY, November 3
Pickleball (see times below)
PJP Travel Series
Jewish Ethiopia
1:00 PM
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TUESDAY, November 5
Pickleball (See times below)
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WEDNESDAY, November 6
Canasta & Mah Jongg
12:30 PM
Singles, Widows and Widowers Meeting
at the JCC at 3:00 PM
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THURSDAY, November 7
Pickleball (See times below)
Torah Study with Rabbi Jay
11:00 AM
Davening & Duchaning Class
with Stu
7:45 PM After 7:30 Minyan
Rabbi Jack Riemer and Rabbi Elie Spitz, “Duet on Psalms: Drawing New Meaning from Ancient Words”
8:30 PM
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FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 8
Studying the Prophets
following morning minyan
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Sunday, November 3
PJP Travel Series
Jewish Ethiopia
1:00 PM
Wednesday, November 6
Singles, Widows and Widowers Meeting
at the JCC at 3:00 PM
Thursday, November 7
Davening & Duchaning Class
with Stu
After evening Minyan
Thursday, November 7
Rabbi Jack Riemer and Rabbi Elie Spitz, “Duet on Psalms: Drawing New Meaning from Ancient Words”
8:30 PM
Thursday, November 14
PJP Israel Series
“Between Arabic and Hebrew: Mizrahi Culture in Israel”
8:30 PM
Friday, November 15
WAX Brunch at Jersey Girls
11:00 AM
Sunday, November 17
Barnegat Light Museum Lecture
2:00 PM
Wednesday, November 20
WAX Book Club
4:00 PM
Thursday, November 21
PJP John Kendrick Series
Danny Kay
8:30 PM
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Is the Shema really a prayer? What’s with all that moving? Why are there differences in the services? Do we really practice ‘priestly blessings?’
Please join the JCC’s newest 2-part course:
DAVENING & DUCHANING 101
DAVENING
Take a trek through the Sidur & Chumash with our varied prayers & writings learning the eclectic customs, traditions, & laws that have been carried on from generation to generation with twists & variations from the Ashkenazic & Sephardic venues
Stu W Lehrer will be our tour guide traveling through the pages of our own Sidur Sim Shalom & Etz Hayim Chumash sharing insights toward the aspects of davening over time
The interesting itinerary will fascinate participants even raise some eyebrows with what will be interpreted as unusual, intriguing, and even amusing enlightenment – Discussions will be a key element to the format
DUCHANING
From the time of Aaron, the first High Priest, chosen among his many duties, to bless the Children of Israel, Birchat HaKohanim or Duchaning has been a poignant service engaging till today
Stu, a Kohain himself, will share the history and process of this rite that is performed on Sukote, Pesakh, and Shavuote
DAVENING & DUCHANING 101 will be conducted on Zoom only on Thursday Nights following Ma’ariv which begins at 7:30 PM
Each class will last about 30 minutes of 6 sessions each:
October 31 – November 7 – 14 – 21 – December 5 – 12 & it’s free!
Please join us for Minyan followed by our newest Adult Ed course at
Zoom Meeting ID: 835 5920 8295 – Passcode 437 484
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JCC WOMEN’S AUXILIARY: BOOK GROUP DISCUSSION
WEDNESDAYS AT 4:00 PM
NEXT BOOK REVIEW MEETING
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NEXT BOOK REVIEW MEETING
Wednesday, November 20th at 4:00 pm
Discussion Leader: TBA
The Little Liar
By: Mitch Albom
Eleven-year-old Nico Krispis has never told a lie. His schoolmate, Fannie, loves him because of it. Nico’s older brother Sebastian resents him for both these facts.When their young lives are torn apart during the war, it will take them decades to find each other again. Nico’s innocence and goodness is used against his tightly knit community when a German officer barters Nico’s reputation for honesty into a promise to save his loved ones. When Nico realizes the consequences of the betrayal, he can never tell the truth again. He will spend the rest of this life changing names, people he loves most. Albom’s extraordinary storytelling is at its powerful best in his first novel to confront the destruction that lying can wreak both on the world stage as well as on the individual lives that get caught up in it. As The Stranger in the Lifeboat spoke to belief, The Little Liar speaks to hope, in a breathless page-turner that will break your heart open and fill it with the power of the human spirit and the goodness that lies within us all. Narrated by the voice of Truth itself, The Little Liar is a timeless story about the power of love to ultimately redeem us, no matter how deeply we blame ourselves for our mistakes.
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PJP PROGRAMS
As part of the PJP consortium the JCC is privy to many outstanding programs.
Travel around the world to Jewish neighborhoods...Study the ever complex dynamics of Eretz Yisrael...Enjoy stories of famous Jewish commedians,,,,
Zoom link will be published prior to each program....
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Thursday, November 7 @ 8:30 PM
Rabbi Jack Riemer and Rabbi Elie Spitz, “Duet on Psalms: Drawing New Meaning from Ancient Words”
Psalms are our people’s songs, an ancient playlist that still strikes a chord in our hearts. From lamentation to celebration, the Psalms speak to us from generation to generation. Rabbis Elie Spitz and Jack Riemer take us into a deeper exploration of the Psalms, going beyond the surface meaning of the words with new, thoughtful interpretations, taking a fresh look at these ancient texts and the relevance they can hold for us today. It is a testament to their lasting power that the Psalms continue to provide readers with solace, challenge, inspiration, and more. Duets on Psalms will inspire you to revisit these ancient texts and see them with fresh eyes because, in the end, it’s not what the psalmist intended that matters but the meaning you gain from each psalm as you make its words your own.
Rabbi Jack Riemer, a well-known author and speaker, has conducted many workshops and seminars to help people learn about the inspiring tradition of ethical wills and to prepare their own. As head of the National Rabbinic Network, a support system for rabbis across all denominational lines, he gives sermon seminars to rabbis throughout the United States. He is editor of The World of the High Holy Days (Bernie Books) and Wrestling with the Angel (Schocken), coeditor of So That Your Values Live On: Ethical Wills and How to Prepare Them, and contributed to May God Remember: Memory and Memorializing in Judaism—Yizkor (both Jewish Lights).
Rabbi Elie Spitz served as the Rabbi of Congregation B'nai Israel in Tustin, CA from 1988 to 2021. He has served as a member of the Rabbinical Assembly Committee of Law and Standards (1994-2004; 2008-2016) and as a Global Justice Fellow for the American Jewish World Service (2016-2017). A graduate of The Jewish Theological Seminary and Boston University School of Law, Rabbi Spitz is the author of four books and many articles dealing with spirituality and Jewish law. He has taught the philosophy of Jewish law at the American Jewish University and taught at the Wilkinson College, Religious Studies Department at Chapman University.
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We are very excited to add to the WAX Gift Shop items from local merchants and artisans. Stop in to look and buy one (or more) of these beautiful pieces for your home, as a gift or just for yourself. Here is a sample of some of our new products. The gift shop is open during office hours M-F 10 - 2.
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Lavina Haven Soy Candles and
Essential Oil Soaps
| Resin Bowls and Candlesticks by Seacrest Designs | |
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The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:
Ronald Dalin
Ellen Rosen Field
Ralph Konwiser
Joseph Rosenthal
Joseph Gross
Eric M. Kahn
Fanny Margent
Joseph Isador Sladkus
Lorraine Baratt
Molly Fingerman
Judy Abend
Francis August
Herbert Davis
Jane Hochberger
Ruth Maginsky
Denise Moss*
Will Roth
Albert Stuhl
Max Weinstein
Sylvia Greene
Alex Moss
Rabbi Samuel Nunberg*
Shirley Rogers
Rose Rosenbaum
Paul Tanenbaum
Morris Balbresky
Kesselman Charles
Abraham Heller
Doris Pashman
Samuel Chairnoff
Stephen Harvey Greenberg
Rose Kotler
Eva Miller
We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral, going up to the grave of the departed, Yizkor remembrance day and other occasions on which the memory of the dead is recalled. You are also welcome to share with the minyan some special memories of your loved one.
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Greg Silvershein
November 3rd
Dale Hartman
November 4th
Dana Ranani
November 4th
Stacey Vreeland
November 6th
Peter Smith
November 7th
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Jules & Sandy Slotnick
November 2
Steven & Dale Tebeleff
November 2
38th Anniversary
Howard & Ruth Miller
November 3
39th Anniversary
Kenneth & Jill Yudman
November 3
17th Anniversary
Steven & Dale Hartman
November 8
43rd Anniversary
John & Sharon Spina
November 8
38th Anniversary
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RABBI JAY
having minor surgery
Refuah Shlemah
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AND PICTURES
CONTACT:
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CARING COMMITTEE
This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.
Please contact Chairperson,
Debby Schweighardt
if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.
973-634-5349
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YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.
Go to jccoflbi.org - Giving/Pay
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GIVING OPPORTUNITIES
PAVERS
Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building
8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"
SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:
PAVER FORM
Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.
Purchase a personalized paving stone
in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.
Please contact Diane Hoffman
with your order or with any questions:
dihoff1@aol.com
PRAYER BOOKS
There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.
See Order form here: Prayer Book
TRIBUTES
SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF
See order form here: TRIBUTES
TREE OF LIFE
Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE
Bronze Leaf $90
Silver Leaf $126
Gold :Leaf $180
ENDOWMENT FUND
Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.
Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.
A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.
Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly.
ANSWER: DON, ELAINE AND SONDI PRIPSTEIN
YAHRZEIT PLAQUES
Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary.
Here is the order form:
YAHRZEIT
KOL HAKAVOD
Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD
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2024 MEMBERSHIP FORMS
Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.
Here is form for renewal:
RENEW NOW
And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:
JOIN NOW
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JCC FUNDS
Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.
ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.
GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.
KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.
RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.
ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
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JCC LEADERSHIP
OFFICERS
President- Phil Rosenzweig
1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman
2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman
3RD Vice President- Jon Geier
Treasurer- Stu Cofsky
Secretary- Cliff Denker
Immediate Past President -Michael Babst
BOARD MEMBERS
Howard Babbitt
Diane Buskirk
Lorna Klein
Paul Levine
Ken Podos
Sondi Pripstein
Terri Robinovitz
Bonni Rubin-Sugarman
Rose Valentine
Ken Yudman
WOMEN'S AUXILIARY
President - Diane Buskirk
Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll
Co-Vice President - Jill Denker
Treasurer - Suzy Geier
Secretary - Joanne Babbitt
Immediate Past President - Irene Babst
Representative to the Board - Sondi Pripstein
Rabbi Michael S. Jay, Spiritual Leader
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