Mother/Grandma Wisdom

Love That Listens.

May 1, 2026

The Purple Lemonade Stand Story

Several years ago, a man in New York City had a coworker who was heartbroken after a breakup. As she shared her story, he had an unusual thought:

“Maybe she should talk to my grandmother.”

His grandmother, Eileen, lived across the country in Seattle. The coworker had never met her, yet she called anyway.

The next day she came back to work with a spring in her step. Something about that conversation lifted her spirit.



"A grandmother is a little bit parent, a little bit teacher, and a little bit best friend."

— Unknown

So the grandson did something creative. He set up a small lemonade stand in New York City with a laptop on top. On the screen was his grandmother.

People walking by could sit down and talk to her.

That little table became known as The Grandma Stand.

For six years, Grandma Eileen listened to thousands of strangers. People shared heartbreak, confusion, fear, hope, forgiveness struggles, and life decisions.

She didn’t offer lectures. She offered something much more powerful.

She listened.

After she passed away at 102 years old, the idea was revived. Today a group of grandmothers set up purple lemonade stands in parks and city streets offering free life wisdom and listening.

Imagine that.

In a world of constant noise, what people line up for is not advice.

They line up for a grandmother who will listen.

And that leads us to something deeply spiritual.

The Spiritual Power of Grandma Wisdom

There is a kind of wisdom that comes from living long enough to discover what truly matters.

Grandmothers have lived through wars, family struggles, raising children, losing loved ones, making mistakes, forgiving themselves, and starting again.



"If nothing is going well, call your grandmother."

— Italian Proverb

Somewhere along the road, they discover what many spiritual teachers say:

"Most of what we worry about… doesn’t matter nearly as much as we think."

What matters most is:

• Love
• Connection
• Compassion
• Forgiveness
• Listening
• Being present

Grandma wisdom is gentle wisdom.

It does not shout.
It does not judge.
It sits beside you and says:

“Tell me what’s going on.”

And sometimes that is the most healing thing anyone can hear.

"Grandmothers always have time to talk and make you feel special." 

— Catehrine Pulsifer

The Ministry of Listening.

There is another sacred ministry. The Ministry of Listening.

Not fixed.

Not corrected.

Not analyzed.

Just heard.

Many spiritual teachers remind us that compassion begins with listening.

When someone truly listens to us, something within us relaxes. Our nervous system settles. Our heart opens.

Often people find their own answers when someone simply listens long enough.

Most Grandmothers have mastered this art.

They don’t rush you.

They don’t interrupt.

They lean forward and say:

Oh, honey, tell me more. This sounds really hard.”

That is spiritual care.

"All that I am, or hope to be, I owe to my angel mother." 

— Abraham Lincoln

The Origins of Mother’s Day: 

This brings us to the deeper meaning behind Mother’s Day.

Many people think Mother’s Day started as a greeting card holiday. But its origins were deeply spiritual and deeply rooted in compassion.

The modern Mother’s Day movement was started by Anna Jarvis in the early 1900s to honor her mother, Ann Reeves Jarvis. Ann Reeves Jarvis was not famous in the traditional sense. But she did something extraordinary.

During the 1800s, she organized Mother’s Day Work Clubs that helped improve sanitation and healthcare for families in Appalachia.

These groups of mothers taught hygiene, cared for sick soldiers during the Civil War, and worked to reconcile communities divided by conflict.

After the war, she organized Mother’s Friendship Day events that brought former enemies together for healing.

Think about that. Mothers gathering people who had fought each other and helping them reconcile. That is grandmother wisdom at work.

Years after her mother died, Anna Jarvis wanted the world to honor that spirit of love and service. She campaigned tirelessly until Mother’s Day became a national holiday in 1914.

The intention was simple: To honor the nurturing love that mothers bring to the world.

But it was never just about biology. It was about a spirit of compassionate care. The kind of love that nurtures life.



"A mother’s love is the fuel that enables a normal human being to do the impossible." 

— Marion C. Garretty

The Mothering Spirit

In spiritual teachings, the mothering spirit exists in everyone.

It is the energy that:

• comforts
• encourages
• protects
• nurtures
• believes in us
• listens

It is the part of us that says:

“You belong here.”

Grandma wisdom is the elder expression of that same nurturing spirit.

It is mothering that has matured through decades of living.

It carries patience.

Perspective.

Humor.

And the ability to say with compassion:

“This too shall pass.”



Three Lessons from Grandma Wisdom

1. Listening Is Healing.

When people sat at the Grandma Stand, they often came with heavy hearts. Many simply needed someone to hear their story. Listening creates healing space. The spiritual practice here is simple: Listen to understand, not to respond. Certainly not to fix, advise, preach, or counsel.

2. Perspective Changes Everything.

Grandmothers know something younger generations are still learning. Life unfolds in seasons. What feels devastating today may be a blessing tomorrow. What seems permanent today may change next year. Grandmothers remind us to breathe, step back, and remember: This moment is not the whole story.

3. Love Matters Most.

When you ask older people about their greatest regrets, rarely do they say:
“I wish I had worked more.” 
Instead, they say:

“I wish I had loved more.”

“I wish I had spent more time with family.”

“I wish I had forgiven sooner.”

Grandma wisdom brings us back to what matters most.

"To describe my mother would be to write about a hurricane in its perfect power." 

— Maya Angelou

A Spiritual Practice for This Week

Imagine if every one of us created a small Grandma Stand moment in our lives this week.

Not a literal stand — although that might be fun — but a moment where we offer someone the gift of presence.

Five minutes of listening.

Five minutes of compassion.

Five minutes where someone feels seen.

You might be surprised how powerful that can be. Sometimes spiritual practice looks like meditation. Sometimes it looks like prayer.

And sometimes, it looks like sitting beside someone and saying:

“Tell me what’s on your heart.”

So Happy “Mother’s Day” regardless of your gender. Become the kind of person who offers that same nurturing love and presence to others. And, be sure to include yourself. 

The spirit behind Mother’s Day and the spirit behind Grandma Wisdom are really the same.

We become… Someone who helps others remember they are loved, including ourselves. 

Highest of love, growing in wisdom and practice. I AM. Here’s to all the listeners, love angels, aunties, sincere friends, and healers among us and beyond.  

Martha Creek

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