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THE FORUM
April 2026 | Issue 1
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In this month's Forum:
Read a message from our Director of Membership, Meredith Plummer, meet new member Rebecca N., celebrate unsung hero Kris S., learn about Pastoral Care at MVUUF, find out about upcoming events and opportunities (including Social Justice initiatives), and discover how you can be part of it all!
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| A Message from... Meredith Plummer | |
Hello Beloved,
When I was a religious educator, part of my job was to tell stories. Over the years, I grew to understand just what an honor that was. Stories are powerful. They not only help us understand new or ephemeral concepts, but they can shape our perceptions of others, ourselves, and the world.
I wonder, what are the stories that make up your life? Are there stories you often remember, re-read, or refer to when you are struggling? Do you have a favorite story you like to share with children or loved ones? What about the stories you have written – the ones you tell yourself about your life, the people in it, and yourself? I wonder, are all your stories serving you and your best interests? Are all your stories leading you towards love?
About a year ago, I pieced together a story I wrote about myself long ago, during my childhood. And, in doing so, I realized it was no longer serving me or leading me towards love. That story goes like this, “My wants and needs are a burden to those around me. To place a burden on someone is an unkindness. To be kind to those around me, I should not share my wants and needs. I will be self-sufficient in all things.”
Have you ever told yourself this story? Many of us do, including people living with chronic illness, our neurodiverse friends and family, and other people on the margins of dominant culture. Of course, because no one can be self-sufficient at all things, this story inevitably leaves the teller blaming themselves for their inability to be perfect. “But I’m trying so hard!” they think.
Over the years, whenever I have gleamed snippets of this story within myself, I have done my best to course-correct. But, no amount of self-admonishment, learning about liberation, talking to myself like I’d talk to a friend, or simply pushing through my discomfort made the story go away. So, I changed tactics, and it seems to be working!
What did I do? I rewrote that old story, replacing it with a new story - a story that leads to love. That new story goes like this, “My wants and needs make me human. By sharing my wants and needs with those around me, they can share their love with me. Sharing love back and forth is how we build community. Community is how we survive.”
Stories are powerful. And, as Uncle Ben from Spiderman says, “With great power comes great responsibility.” I wonder, what stories in your life do you need to rewrite? And, what are the stories we tell about MVUUF that could use a rewrite? How might our rewritten stories, lead us toward love?
In faith,
- Meredith
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As we welcome new members at MVUUF, we ask them to answer a few questions so we may get to know them better. These questions are meant to be fun and playful, subverting assumptions and bias.
Please Welcome Rebecca N.
What animal would you be?
A chihuahua, of course.
Where would you most like to go?
For vacation on Earth, Antarctica. For vacation off Earth, the Moon. To live, Denmark.
What's the most adventurous thing you'll admit to doing?
Crashing the installation of an archbishop.
What Carebear, Little Pony, or Superhero would you be?
A cross between Rocket (from Guardians of the Galaxy) and Dr. Strange.
Rebecca is an avid Dog person. Here are some more pictures of her pups.
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Unitarian Universalist congregations are seeded, cultivated, and harvested by all who give. We are honored to celebrate those who give of their time, talent, and energy to this community and its mission.
Please Celebrate Kris S.
Kris S., and her husband, Steve, first started coming to MVUUF in the fall of 2017. "Steve and I signed up for what we thought was an Intro to UU class," she shares, "We’d talked about checking MVUUF out for years, but couldn’t break out of our leisurely morning routine. The Intro class finally gave us the encouragement we needed. It turned out it wasn’t an intro course…but we were welcomed anyway!"
And, as it turns out, our welcoming nature is one of the things Kris enjoys most about MVUUF: "I love that all of us are welcome, quirks and all - belonging to a community of people who are compassionate, caring, striving to be their best, and accepted as they are."
Over the the past 8 years, Kris has fulfilled many volunteer positions at MVUUF. Most notably, she filled in as Acting Administrator for nine months, when our administrator at the time, Jennie F., had to go on medical leave. In that role, Kris managed the administrator's email, created the Order of Service, added events to the website calendar, and curated the weekly eBlast. These days, Kris still acts as a copy editor for the eBlast, and Presentation Producer for the weekly service. When asked "What's a volunteer position you have really enjoyed?" Kris answered "The Production Team has been a fun experience. The time commitment isn’t overwhelming and it’s a good way to stay regularly involved."
When not working her magic behind the scenes, Kris shares she enjoys "reading, playing my flute, making greeting cards, working on word or logic or jigsaw puzzles, playing in the New Horizons band, or taking UD Osher Lifelong Learning Institute courses. I really enjoy learning new things." A wonderful example of our shared values!
Thank you Kris, for all you give to MVUUF!
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| This quarter (April - June), half of our plate collection will go to support the Miami Valley Immigration Coalition (MVIC) and their Immigration, Accompaniment Program, which supports local migrant families - mainly asylum seekers. Most donations collected by MVIC go toward attorney fees, as asylum cases are five times more likely to be successful with legal representation. Some funds provide a short period of rent or commissary support after a family member is detained. MVUUF has been a long-time partner of MVIC, providing both funds and resources. | | | |
Worship & CYRE Schedule
(CYRE = Children and Youth Religious Education)
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Sunday, April 5, 2026
Rev. Kellie Kelly &
Ian Hogan
UU Easter: Discovering Salvation Outside of the Tomb
Children's Programming (Egg Hunt!)
& Youth Group
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Sunday, April 19, 2026
Rev. Kellie Kelly
Children's Programming
No Youth Group
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Sunday, April 12, 2026
Rachel Feltner
Children's Programming
& Youth Group
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Sunday, April 26, 2026
Rev. Kellie Kelly &
Somaya Bernard, DRE
Worship for All Ages:
Dirt Communion
No Children's Programming
or Youth Group
| | | Missed a service? You can view past services on our website! Just click the button to your right. | | | | | | |
Visitors & Friends - Join our next Membership Class!
Starting Point: Membership Class is a class for anyone who is curious about Unitarian Universalism, MVUUF, or what it means to be a member. The next Starting Point class is scheduled for Saturday, April 11th from 2:30 to 5:00 PM in the chapel. The deadline to RSVP is Friday, April 10th. Snacks and childcare will be provided. Email Director of Membership, Meredith, to RSVP.
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Order your MVUUF Side with Love T-Shirts Today!
Just fill out the T-shirt request form to the right (one form per shirt), and then pay what you can for your shirt. This means, if you cannot pay, that's okay! Type $0 in that part of the form. And, if you can pay more than the cost of the shirt ($24.00), hooray! You've just help off-set the cost of other T-shirts. Additional instructions can be found in the order form. Questions (after you see the form)? Contact CQ at cqofdayton@gmail.com. This anti-capitalist project is a collaboration between Social Justice and Membership.
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Gather with Other Ohio UUs this April!
The UU statewide social justice organization for Ohio is UUJO, UU Justice Ohio. The UUJO Spring Assembly is a great opportunity to connect with UU's from around the state. We, Ohio UUs, are very fortunate that the keynote speaker this year is the Executive Director of the national UUs for Social Justice (UUSJ), Pablo DeJesus. He'll be speaking on "Faithful Defiance in Times of Democratic Trial." Workshop topics will include immigration, trauma and resilience, coalition/network building, and statehouse advocacy.
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This year's Spring Assembly is scheduled for Saturday, April 25th from 9 am to 5:00 pm at First UU Columbus, 93 W. Weisheimer Rd, 43214. Register by following the link below. There is $65 registration fee (includes lunch and snacks) but scholarships are available. Contact Rev. Dr. Alice Diebel at diebelalice@gmail.com for scholarship information.
If you are interested in carpooling, contact Lynn B. at abufflg@gmail.com and she will try to match up drivers and riders - let her know if you will drive your vehicle, ride with another person, or either.
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Stay In-the-Know with Google Groups
With The Forum returning, and the eBlast refocusing on weekly happenings, it is possible some last-minute events may not make it into either publication. However, you can still stay up-to-date by joining MVUUF's google groups. Just click on the Google Groups that interest you and request to join. Our admin will review pending requests weekly.
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MVUUF is a busy community - from weekly and monthly offerings, to one-off events and seasonal workshops, there is something for everyone. See below for an overview of this month's calendar; click the title of each offering for more information, or click on the button below for our full calendar. | | | |
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Scripture Study
Sundays @ 8:45 AM on Zoom
Explore sacred texts from the world’s religions. Click title above for more information and zoom link.
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Women's Group
Sundays @ 10:00 AM on Zoom
This small group ministry for women explores a different spiritual concept each month. Click the title above for more information and zoom link.
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Week 1 (April 5 - April 11) | |
CYRE Easter Egg Hunt
Sunday, April 5th @ 1 PM in the RE Wing
Hip Hop, Hooray, Easter is on its way! We hope you will join us, in person, Sunday, April 5th for an egg-stra special Sunday. Festivities include an egg-citing Easter Egg hunt for our children and youth (to take place during the service).
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Food & Fellowship: Easter Party
Sunday, April 5th @ 2 PM in the Sanctuary
Following the egg-citing Easter Egg Hunt, and what's sure to be an egg-celent Easter service, we'll all gather 'round for Food & Fellowship. Please bring your Easter best so we can all stuff ourselves silly! Click on the title above for additional Food & Fellowship dates.
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CUUPS' Full Moon Ritual
Sunday, April 5th @ 6:30 PM in the Chapel
Join our pagan group, Chalice of the Willow (CUUPS), as they hold their monthly Full Moon Ritual, followed by a potluck. Click on the title above for more information.
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Production Team Meeting
Tuesday, April 7th @ 7:30 PM on Zoom
Join our production team online at 7:30 PM as they do the important work of making our services accessible both on site and off. Click the title above for more information and zoom link.
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Smart Choices Lunch
Thursday, April 9th @ 11:30 AM at MCL Cafeteria
Join this wonderful group of ladies today to celebrate all life has to offer! Click on the title above for more information.
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Social Justice Committee Meeting
Thursday, April 9th @ 6:00 PM on Zoom
Interested in "being the change you want to see in the world?" Join our Social Justice Committee today to get involved. Click the title above for more information and zoom link.
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UU History Redux
Saturday, April 11th @ 10:00 AM on Zoom
Are you a history geek? Story lover? Want to learn the history of Unitarian Universalism? Or, revisit UU history through an anti-racist and anti-oppression lens? Join Rev. Kellie and Director of Membership, Meredith, for this six-part series which utilizes Ron Cordes’ film series, "Long Strange Trip." No prep-work, no homework, no RSVP required. Just join us when you can! Click on the title above for more information and zoom link.
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Starting Point: Membership Class
Saturday, April 11th @ 2:30 PM in the Chapel
New to UU or MVUUF? Join us to share your Spiritual Journey, explore the covenantal nature of Unitarian Universalism, learn a bit about our history, and discover what it means to be a member. Snacks will be provided, and childcare can be arranged upon request. RSVP preferred. Please RSVP to our Director of Membership, Meredith Plummer, by emailing them at membership@mvuuf.org.
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Week 2 (April 12 - April 18) | |
CUUPS Discussion Group
Sunday, April 12th @ 2:30 PM in the Chapel
Join our pagan group—Chalice of the Willow—today, after the service, in the chapel, for their monthly discussion. Click on the title for more inforatmion.
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Membership Committee Meeting
Sunday, April 12th @ 2:30 PM in the Conference Room
Interested in tending to the life of the congregation? Nurturing new and established members alike? Join our Membership committee for their meeting today! Click on the title for more information.
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The Woodlands: UUA Trans / Non-Binary Gathering
Sunday, April 12th @ 4 PM on Zoom
(Registration Required)
A place to be held, celebrated, and nourished. For trans, non-binary, gender non-conforming, gender expansive, intersex people, and the cis-people who love them. Click the title above for more information and registration link.
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Music Committee Meeting
Tuesday, April 14th @ 7:00 PM on Zoom
Join our Music Committee for their meeting today! No music experience is required– just a love of music. Click the title above for more information and zoom link.
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Board Meeting
Saturday, April 18th @ 1 PM on Zoom
The Board of MVUUF does the work of governance, so we all may do the work of church. All are welcome to attend and observe their meetings. Click the title above for more information and zoom link.
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Week 3 (April 19 - April 25) | |
Sharing Stories Book Group
Wednesday, April 22nd @ 10:30 AM on Zoom
Join the discussion! Our Sharing Stories Book Group meets over zoom the fourth Wednesday of every month to discuss a different book. This month's book: Paper Girl: a Memoir of Home and Family in a Fractured America by Beth Macy. Click on the title above for more information and zoom link.
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Spring Assembly: Unitarian Universalist Justice Ohio
Saturday, April 25th @ 9 AM at First UU Columbus, OH
(Registration and Fee Required. Scholarships Available)
Unitarian Universalist Justice Ohio's (UUJO) Spring Assembly is coming! The Executive Director of UUs for Social Justice in DC, Pablo DeJesus, will be speaking on “Faithful Defiance in Times of Democratic Trial.” Pablo's speech will be followed by a catered lunch and workshops. Click on the title above for more information and registration link.
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Adult Game Night
Saturday, April 25th @ 7:00 PM
in the Conference Room
What a better way to relax and build community than to play some games together! All are welcome. Click on the title above for more information.
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Week 4 (April 26 - May 2) | |
Fiber Arts Group
Sunday, April 26th @ 2:30 PM in the Chapel
Do you weave, sew, crochet, knit, felt, do needlework or macrame? Are you just starting to learn? If so, this group is for you! Please bring your own project to work on. Click on the title above for more information.
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CUUPS' Full Moon Ritual
Sunday, April 26th @ 6:30 PM in the Chapel
Join our pagan group, Chalice of the Willow (CUUPS), as they hold their monthly Full Moon Ritual, followed by a potluck. Click on the title above for more information.
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UU History Redux
Saturday, May 2 @ 10:00 AM on Zoom
Are you a history geek? Story lover? Want to learn the history of Unitarian Universalism? Or, revisit UU history through an anti-racist and anti-oppression lens? Join Rev. Kellie and Director of Membership, Meredith, for this six-part series which utilizes Ron Cordes’ film series, "Long Strange Trip." No prep-work, no homework, no RSVP required. Just join us when you can! Click on the title above for more information and zoom link.
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Dear MVUUF Friends,
Below is a list of upcoming local events and advocacy actions to take, as we continue in the spirit of the UUA’s Side with Love to “lament the cruelty on display…rejoice in the rising…to action, resistance and the power of community” and that “even in the storm, we carry something precious: a fire we refuse to let go out.” Learn more by clicking on the links attached to each offering.
In the coming months..
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Climate Justice: Earth Week/Day this month the national UUSJ (UU's for Social Justice) will have climate justice updates, advocacy, and virtual events. Sign up for their emails or just view their web page.
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Last day to register to vote or change your voting address, April 6, Election Day is May 5, early voting starts April 7. Check your voting registration and address here.
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“Dayton Regional Sustainability Luncheon,” Tuesday, April 14, 11:30 am – 1:00 pm, Sinclair Community College, Building 12, Room 172. $30 before April 4, then $35. Lunch & parking included. Details and registration on EventBrite.
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Greene County & Friends Sixth Annual Anti-Racism Conference, Saturday, April 18, 9:00 am – 12:30 pm, Sinclair Community College, building 11, 3rd floor. Keynote speaker is the amazing Michael Carter. Registration and more details can be found here.
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UUJO Spring Assembly, Sat. April 25, 10 am to 5:00 pm, First UU Columbus, 93 W. Weisheimer Rd, 43214. See elsewhere in this newsletter, or the website, for details and registration link.
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“Pride Rocks,” Family friendly suicide prevention festival. MVUUF has a booth! May 16, 2026, 11 am to 4 pm. Levitt Pavilion, 134 S. Main St., Dayton 45402. Learn more about Pride Rocks on NCCJ's Website. Then, sign up to volunteer at MVUUF’s booth through SignUp Genius.
For ways to be in solidarity with Haitians in Springfield and local immigrants: visit MVIC Linktree.
Additional events are added to the Social Justice Linktree all the time. Check back often, or find other events of interest at Gem City Action's website, District 10 Indivisible for All Facebook Page, and Dayton-Miami Valley Activist Events Facebook Group.
Lynn B., Chair
MVUUF Social Justice Committee
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Miami Valley Unitarian Universalist Fellowship
515 E. Third St. Dayton, OH 45402
(937) 436 - 3628 | MVUUF.org
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