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ellie krug

writer, lawyer, human

Human Inspiration Works, LLC

The Ripple 

  Vol 10 No.9 September 2025

Inspired by the words and deeds of Robert F. Kennedy, Sr.   

Dealing with Present Circumstances


Dear Friends:


Much has happened in the world since you last heard from me, and so part of this month’s Ripple will be somber, and another part, upbeat. 


For the somber, we’re not even two weeks past the horror of the Annunciation church/school shooting in Minneapolis and the violence inflicted on innocent humans. There really are no words…my heart goes out to those affected by this senseless act! It was just so horrific and vile!


And of course, the gender identity of the shooter has been used to vilify all transgender people. As a result, there’s tremendous fear within my community about what the Trump administration/his acolytes may be planning—the rumors have been everything from rounding up trans people into detention camps to taking away our Second Amendment rights. Clearly, something is going to occur. The question is simply what that may be.


I have been doing my best to remain calm and steady given present circumstances, but it’s been darn difficult. I’m both a worrier and a planner, and the situation has fed into my many neuroses. It is not in my nature to simply sit back and wait. But I have no choice and as they say, we shall see.


On a more positive note, we had a wonderful book launch party on August 21st with nearly eighty people in attendance at the American Legion(!) in Chanhassen, MN. My brother Mark gave a phenomenal introduction (thank you Bro!) and my best friend, Thap (who looms large in the new book), travelled from Colorado to help me celebrate. Plus, we sold a lot of books! My thanks to all who attended! It meant the world to me!


Since then, I’ve traveled to Steamboat Springs CO (Thap’s home), where I did a book signing at Off the Beaten Path Bookstore. And last week, with the incredible help of Bart Carithers, owner of Next Page Books in the NewBo neighborhood of Cedar Rapids, and with moderation by Lyz Lenz (a national bestselling Cedar Rapids author), I did a reading to ninety attendees—and sold some more books! (Thank you Bart and Lyz!)


So far, Being Ellen enjoys five-star ratings on Amazon and Goodreads. Hopefully, I’ll be able to schedule more readings/book signings in the near future. Stay tuned! (And you can find the book here or order it from your local bookstore.)


Lastly, you will see that I’ve partly gone back to the old Ripple format. The new version lacked graphics and my ability to post images, and I considered it too boring. That was just unacceptable!


In these difficult times on so many fronts, please know that I care about you. We have to be there for each other—feel free to reach out to me if you need an ear or a shoulder. God knows, the federal government won’t be there for us!


ellie

This Month's Thoughts

Thought No. 1: The Being Ellen book events seemed to give others a bit of hope that the vast majority of people simply want to live and let live. Clearly, the collective fate of trans folks hinges on enough people knowing someone who is transgender—if you know someone from a group targeted by the government, it’s far more difficult to sit idly by and do nothing to help that group. Toward that end, I again ask that you help me to get into places (churches, nonprofits, businesses) where I can talk about how trans folks are no different than anyone else. I just simply cannot do this without the help of others!


Thought No. 2: I had planned to only serve one term on my local school board, meaning that come December 2026, right after I turned 70, I would be done with school board and free to spend my time as I wanted. However, in light of the current political situation, I cannot in good conscience simply walk away. Thus, I will seek reelection in 2026; stay tuned for more on that!


Thought No. 3: Notwithstanding everything, I continue to believe that 98 percent of all humans have good, empathetic hearts. It’s just that when we fear those who are “other,” or if we fear becoming “other” ourselves, we do unkind—even evil—things. We have to always work to eliminate fear.


Thought No. 4: I’ll be back in Massachusetts later this month to reconnect with old friends and visit Provincetown on Cape Cod. My last visit to Ptown was in 2013 after I published my first book, so it seems fitting that I return now. My hope is to go back every year from here on out; I so miss the ocean!


Thought No. 5: My daughter recently gave me a primer on using Instagram to aid with ramping up my social media presence. Please follow me on Instagram at @elliejkrug and on Bluesky @elliekrug.bksy.social. Thanks!


Last Thought: I hate losing the summer! The above picture is of Jack on the deck trying to squeeze out the last of a beautiful summer afternoon. 

Sixty Second Roundups

 
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Compassion

We begin with a 7-Eleven clerk who intervened when a domestic violence victim accompanied by her abuser gave a hand signal for help—see story here (and learn about the hand signal!). Then there’s this incredible video/story of a pup saving its owner who fell through ice. Another video has a man doing his best to save a pup from a waterfall. We also have Army football player Larry Pickett, Jr. and his father who rescued a car accident victim just before the victim’s car exploded in a fireball (read the full story; it will make you very proud of a young man!). More compassion by a Grand Rapids MI cop, along with this story of a MN fast food worker being gifted a car. Lastly, see this timeless legislative testimony by the father of a transgender girl—which Missouri lawmakers promptly ignored to ultimately pass a law banning gender affirming care in that state.  

 
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Mission

See this delightful Canadian reminder about inclusivity—I shared it several years ago, but certainly, we again desperately need the reminder now. There’s also this profile in courage with Dr. Gregory N. Washington, president of George Mason University, refusing to apologize to Trump/his DOJ for the university’s commitment to DEI. See too how AB Hernandez and her mother remain brave (AB is a trans California volleyball player who courageously continues to play despite teams refusing to compete against her team)—why in world can’t we just leave AB alone? Also, in preparation for my Cedar Rapids book reading, a local TV station interviewed me; click here for the clip. And please remember that I have a weekly radio/podcast show, “The Illegal Trans Woman,” that you can download wherever you get your podcasts—please tell others about this advocacy-focused show! 

 
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Pain

We have plenty of pain out there, so there’s no need for me to pile on. However, I do need to mention trans journalist Erin Reed’s report about how the creator of the transgender flag is fleeing the country due to persecution fears. (Read here.) And—of course—Texas just banned transgender people from utilizing restrooms and locker rooms that align with their gender identity, joining 19 other states with similar bans. Finally, see this story about Idaho’s version of the 988-emergency help line refusing to speak to kids/youth who don’t have parental consent to talk to 988—many of those young humans are LGBTQ+ and need help because of parental intolerance. This is a harbinger for similar bans in other states, leaving queer kids with no one to talk to/increasing their suicidality. 

 
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Relief

Someday, I will do an entire newsletter filled just with Relief, but for now, you’ll have to settle for this video of a pup who simply won’t cooperate when Mom has a time crunch. With fall around the corner, see Stella and her love for leaf piles! There’s also this magic of serenading a tiger, along with the mystery of an orange shark. I also can’t forget these very unhappy huskies. And grab some tissues as you experience “Mr. Richard” singing “Don’t Stop Believin’” by Journey. (It’s so true: we can’t stop believing—in the goodness of humans, in our ability to overcome, in the promise that America still holds for all!)

 
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Support/

Allyship

Here is a powerful firsthand account of being taught about the “Bystander Effect”—which prevents many from being a real-time ally to someone in need. In the wake of the horrible Annunciation shooting, here’s a brave HuffPost piece by the mother of a trans child. And too, longtime Ripple reader Mickey sent along this video of Jacinta Allen, premier of the Australian state, Victoria, speaking out to support trans kids/youth accessing gender affirming care. Also, this video of Kodi Lee (blind and on the autism spectrum) performing always brings me to tears. And wow, in a grand act of allyship, see this phenomenal Goodreads review of Being Ellen by Ripple friend Carolyn—wow!


Lastly, several of you have recently donated to Human Ripple Works, Inc., the nonprofit which makes it possible for me to do more work for organizations that lack budgets for training (like talking to Gender and Sexuality Alliances at various schools across the country). Thank you for that! If you’d like to support this work, please click here on the HRW website. Thanks!

Finally....

The Ripple is a work in progress, so please, I welcome your suggestions and comments! Please share this newsletter with others, too!


Please consider reading my book, Getting to Ellen: A Memoir about Love, Honesty and Gender Change; if possible, order it through your local bookstore. And, if your book club reads my book, I'm happy to come for the discussion via Zoom!


Thank you for helping to make the world a better place! I'm at your side, cheering you on, I promise! Please have compassion for yourself and for others.


ellie

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