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JEWISH COMMUNITY
CENTER OF
LONG BEACH ISLAND
E-LETTER
November 22, 2024
21 Cheshvan 5785
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A Prayer for the Thanksgiving Feast
From Talking to God by Rabbi Naomi Levy
For the laughter of children,
For my own life breath,
For the abundance of food on this table,
For the ones who prepared this sumptuous feast,
For the roof over our heads,
The clothes on our backs,
For our health,
And our wealth of blessings,
For this opportunity to celebrate with family and friends,
For the freedom to pray these words
Without fear,
In any language
In any faith,
In this great country,
Whose landscape is as vast and beautiful as her inhabitants.
Thank You, God, for giving us all these. Amen
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A TORAH MESSAGE
FROM THE RABBI
This week’s Torah portion is about what happens after the death of our matriarch, Sarah. Though it is about her death, the portion starts with the phrase, “The Life of Sarah”. If the Torah portion is all about what happens after her death, why would it start with the phrase: “The Life of Sarah?”
There are many possible responses to this question, but I think that the simplest answer is also the most useful.
It starts with “The life of Sarah” because, when someone passes, we should not focus on the death of that person. Instead, it is best for us to focus on that person’s life. We want to conjure up memories of what our loved one did while alive. We want to remember the funny things that happened and the good things that happened. We want to remember the jokes, and the laughs, the songs, and the dancing. We want to remember the vibrancy and the intimacy.
The memories bring our loved ones near to us. So near, that we believe we can touch, see, hear, and smell the one we’ve physically lost. When we remember a person, a loved one, a life, it creates a smile in our very soul.
The answer is clear. Yes, Sarah died. But remembering her life, all 100 years, and 20 years, and 7 years of it, is what we need to do to help us to live our best lives.
Death is a moment in time. The memories of the life lived fill a universe.
Shabbat Shalom – Rabbi Michael S. Jay
| | Join the Pickleball Group for Minyan at the JCC at 9 AM this Sunday. Enjoy Bagels. Lox, Cream Cheese, Coffee amd Tea. Play, Learn to Play or just enjoy schmoozing. Hope to see you there!!!!! | | |
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Candle Lighting Time
(Southern Ocean County)
Shabbat Eve
Friday. November 22, 2024
PM
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Friday, November 22, 2024
7:30 PM
ON ZOOM ONLY
Here is
your invitation from
Rabbi Jay to join Services
on Zoom
FRIDAY NIGHT
Saturday, November 23, 2024
9:00 AM
IN PERSON AND
ON ZOOM
Here is
your invitation from
Rabbi Jay to join
Zoom services
SHABBAT
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TORAH READING
Parashat Chayei Sara
Genesis 23:1-25:18
The portion opens as Sarah dies and Abraham buys the Cave of Machpelah to bury her. Abraham sends his servant to find a wife for Isaac. The servant meets Rebecca at a well, and Rebecca returns with the servant to marry Isaac.
Here is Parshah
HAFTORAH
I Kings 1:1-31
This week's haftorah describes an aging King David, echoing this week's Torah reading, which mentions that "Abraham was was old, advanced in days.
Here is the Haftorah
WEEKDAY SERVICES
NO SERVICES THANKSGIVING DAY
Sunday - Thursday
Ma'ariv Service
7:30 PM
Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to
join Zoom services:
MA'ARIV
Monday- Friday
Shacharit Service
8:15 AM
Sunday at 9:00 AM
Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to
join Zoom services:
SHACHARIT
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Brunch at Jersey Girls, Beach Haven last Friday.
A special story evolved at brunch. To hear the story I'm calling "When Saba met Zippi" CLICK HERE
A very informative Sunday afternoon was spent at the Barnegat Museum Lighthouse. Thanks to the talk by curator Reilly Sharp and docent Mark Lipman we know so much more of the history of the North End of our Island. Special kudos to Joyce Levine and Judith Lipman for the beautiful and delicious fruit and cheese platter they created and to Noralyn Carroll for putting this program together.
Thank you to Rabbi Jay for leading a facinating WAX discussion of the book "The Little Liar" by Mitch Albom. Here is the video of the program.
Kol Hakavod to the WAX for their wonderful programming and events.
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The JCC section at Crescent Memorial Park is available for sales. Please contact Bonni Rubin-Sugarman at 609-417-7148.
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SUNDAY, November 24
Pickleball (see times below)
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TUESDAY, November 26
Pickleball (See times below)
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WEDNESDAY, November 27
Canasta & Mah Jongg
12:30 PM
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THURSDAY, November 28
ALL EVENTS CANCELLED
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FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 29
NO Studying the Prophets
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Friday , December 6
Shabbat Dinner
6:30 PM
Sponsored by Harold Farin
in honor of his 90th Birthday
Sunday, December 8
PJP Travel Program
Jewish Yemen
1:00 PM
Thursday, December 12
PJP Israel Program
Political Dynamics of the Israeli-Palestinian Conflict
8:30 PM
Wednesday, December 18
WAX Book Club
4:00 PM
Thursday, December 19
PJP John Kendrick Series
Joan Rivers
8:30 PM
Friday, December 20
WAX Brunch at Kubels
11:30 AM
Thursday, December 31
New Year’s Eve Party at the JCC
8:30 PM
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Pickleball for members only
Tuesdays, Thursdays, Sundays
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MAH JONGG & CANASTA
WEDNESDAYS
12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM
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JCC WOMEN’S AUXILIARY: BOOK GROUP DISCUSSION
WEDNESDAYS AT 4:00 PM
NEXT BOOK REVIEW MEETING
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NEXT BOOK REVIEW MEETING
Wednesday, December 18th at 4:00 pm
Discussion Leader: TBA
Sacred Trash: The Lost and Found World of the Cairo Geniza
By: Adina Hoffman and Peter Cole
One May day in 1896, at a dining-room table in Cambridge, England, a meeting took place
between a Romanian-born maverick Jewish intellectual and twin learned Presbyterian
Scotswomen, who had assembled to inspect several pieces of rag paper and parchment. It was the unlikely start to what would prove a remarkable, continent-hopping, century-crossing saga, and one that in many ways has revolutionized our sense of what it means to lead a Jewish life.
In Sacred Trash, MacArthur-winning poet and translator Peter Cole and acclaimed essayist Adina Hoffman tell the story of the retrieval from an Egyptian genizah, or repository for worn-out texts, of the most vital cache of Jewish manuscripts ever discovered. This tale of buried scholarly treasure weaves together unforgettable portraits of Solomon Schechter and the other heroes of this drama with explorations of the medieval documents themselves—letters and poems, wills and marriage contracts, Bibles, money orders, fiery dissenting tracts, fashion-conscious trousseaux lists, prescriptions, petitions, and mysterious magical charms. Presenting a panoramic view of nine hundred years of vibrant Mediterranean Judaism, Hoffman and Cole bring modern readers into the heart of this little-known trove, whose contents have rightly been dubbed “the Living Sea Scrolls.” Part biography and part meditation on the supreme value the Jewish people has long placed on the written word, Sacred Trash is above all a gripping tale of adventure and redemption.
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PJP PROGRAMS
As part of the PJP consortium the JCC is privy to many outstanding programs.
Travel around the world to Jewish neighborhoods...Study the ever complex dynamics of Eretz Yisrael...Enjoy stories of famous Jewish commedians,,,,
Zoom link will be published prior to each program....
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We are very excited to add to the WAX Gift Shop items from local merchants and artisans. Stop in to look and buy one (or more) of these beautiful pieces for your home, as a gift or just for yourself. Here is a sample of some of our new products. The gift shop is open during office hours M-F 10 - 2.
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Lavina Haven Soy Candles and
Essential Oil Soaps
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The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:
Helene Geier
Martin Samwick
Naomi Greenberg
Alex Hirsch
Elaine Ives-Cameron
Susan Ossanna
David Plotkin
Joseph Sherman
Max Silver
Manuel Smith*
Rhea Britz*
Gladys Krechovitz*
Abraham Lazar
Evelyn B. Sholin
Paul Starr
Jerome Szanger*
Harold Eiser
Mildred Greenwald*
Ernst Halpern
Yetta Houzman
Isadore Isaac Levy
Glen Medvin*
Claire Seavey
Irving Shapiro
Eli Starr, MD
Sophia Ehrlich
Nisson Ben-Avraham
Ida Koupf
Gail Merson
Julius Rosenthal
Laurence Sherman
Sidney Miller
Dave Rothenberg
We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. recalled. You are also welcome to share with the minyan some special memories of your loved one.
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Renee Van Naarden
November 23
Dale Morgenstern
November 25
Judy Nelson
November 25
Howard Cohen
November 26
Michelle Ehrich
November 26
Robert Finkel
November 26
Adam Meyers
November 26
Eleanore Elephant
November 27
Joshua Braun
November 28
Rachel Freiberg Leventhal
November 28
Sondi Pripstein
November 28
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Steven & Arlene Silverman
November 23
39th Anniversary
David & Sharon Hendler
November 25
40th Anniversary
Martin & Norma Hochman
November 25
65th Anniversary
Gerald Faich & Bonni Rubin-Sugarman
November 28
11th Anniversary
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MAZEL TOV
DON PRIPSTEIN
on the
birth of his great grandson
Wesley Thomas Manchin
son of Lindsay Thomas & Christian oManchin
grandson of Elaine Pripstein Thomas
LYNN & BARRY SHERMAN
on the birth of their grandson
Harris Lewis Sherman
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SHARE YOUR NEWS
AND PICTURES
CONTACT:
rvalen1963@aol.com
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CARING COMMITTEE
This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.
LYPlease contact Chairperson,
Debby Schweighardt
if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.
973-634-5349
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YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.
Go to jccoflbi.org - Giving/Pay
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GIVING OPPORTUNITIES
PAVERS
Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building
8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"
SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:
PAVER FORM
Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.
Purchase a personalized paving stone
in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.
Please contact Diane Hoffman
with your order or with any questions:
dihoff1@aol.com
PRAYER BOOKS
There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.
See Order form here: Prayer Book
TRIBUTES
SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF
See order form here: TRIBUTES
TREE OF LIFE
Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE
Bronze Leaf $90
Silver Leaf $126
Gold :Leaf $180
ENDOWMENT FUND
Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.
Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.
A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.
Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly.
YAHRZEIT PLAQUES
Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary.
Here is the order form:
YAHRZEIT
KOL HAKAVOD
Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD
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2024 MEMBERSHIP FORMS
Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.
Here is form for renewal:
RENEW NOW
And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:
JOIN NOW
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JCC FUNDS
Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.
ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.
GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.
KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.
RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.
ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
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JCC LEADERSHIP
OFFICERS
President- Phil Rosenzweig
1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman
2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman
3RD Vice President- Jon Geier
Treasurer- Stu Cofsky
Secretary- Cliff Denker
Immediate Past President -Michael Babst
BOARD MEMBERS
Howard Babbitt
Diane Buskirk
Lorna Klein
Paul Levine
Ken Podos
Sondi Pripstein
Terri Robinovitz
Bonni Rubin-Sugarman
Rose Valentine
Ken Yudman
WOMEN'S AUXILIARY
President - Diane Buskirk
Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll
Co-Vice President - Jill Denker
Treasurer - Suzy Geier
Secretary - Joanne Babbitt
Immediate Past President - Irene Babst
Representative to the Board - Sondi Pripstein
Rabbi Michael S. Jay, Spiritual Leader
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