Moving on Without Your Spouse: The Importance
of a Household Manual
One of the perks of being an estate planning attorney is that you really get to know your clients. Sure, we can craft all the necessary legal documents to help them protect everyone they love and everything they own. We can even open their eyes to the importance of organizing stuff now versus later — even if it is a simple manual for every day, run-of-the-mill household stuff. But to do that, you have to build genuine relationships first.
One of those relationships we have had for many years is with a couple named John and Debbie.
During one of our first meetings with them, the three of us talked back-and-forth about all sorts of things. Much of it was just random, friendly conversation. But it helped me really get to know them. They told me about the day John proposed: they had been at a drive-in movie theater watching a scary movie earlier in the evening, and after eating dinner, John confidently said something to the effect of, “I got the feeling as you clutched my arm over and over again during that scary movie that you need me around. And the truth is, I need you around, too. Wanna get married?” They would be inseparable ever after and raised a beautiful family with four kids and six grandkids. At the time of our meeting they lived in Denton, TX.They had moved from Nebraska to Denton to be closer to their children and grandchildren.
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