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Jeff is always saying the phrase "you are more than a baseball player" as he works with guys to try to help them find their identity. We want to try to share stories from players who are showing that their value in their community goes way beyond the field.
I have always loved being active; playing sports, conditioning, and seeking out new physical challenges. Activity is such a natural part of my life that I never truly realized how much I took it for granted, until I began volunteering at River City Inclusive Gym, as a coach for individuals with special needs.
The gym provides a space for people of all ages with mental or physical disabilities to participate in physical activities and sports that they might not otherwise have access to. Volunteering there opened my eyes to a different side to the world of sports. A side where joy, determination, and connection matter more than competition.
One day, I was paired with a young boy, who when we first met, gave me a shy “hello” and stayed mostly quiet as we moved through the different stations. That changed when we reached the basketball hoop. I asked if he wanted to play a simple shooting game—just to see who could make more baskets. His eyes lit up, and for the first time, he really began to open up and talk. He was much more engaged and would always make sure he was keeping the right score. From then on, every time I saw him, I would come up with a new game for us to play. Over time, his confidence grew. He started coming into the gym with a bigger smile, talking more, laughing more, and playing with more energy.
In the fifth session that I was coaching him, he surprised me by telling me, “I’m moving to Florida. This is my last day at the gym. I don't think I’m ever going to see you again, and it makes me sad.” Needless to say, I was also sad to hear that he was leaving. However, it was a bittersweet moment for me because while he was leaving, I knew he had developed a newfound sense of confidence, competitiveness and a love for being active. Knowing that I played a small part in helping him discover this was one of the most rewarding experiences I have ever had.
That young man’s journey at River City Inclusive Gym reminded me of the value of resiliency, being open to instruction, and consistency. When I first decided to volunteer at RCIG, I felt good knowing that I would be helping those with special needs explore sports. I did not know that I would develop a brief friendship, and use sports to help a young man gain confidence and find a passion.
Moments like this are what make volunteering so meaningful. The lessons I have learned at River City Inclusive Gym are ones I’ll carry with me for the rest of my life.
Chuck Gunn
Saint Christopher's School 2027
Richmond VA
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