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JEWISH COMMUNITY
CENTER OF
LONG BEACH ISLAND
E-LETTER
October 17, 2025
25 Tishri 5785
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A MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI
In Parashat Bereshit, the Torah tells us that God created humans in God’s image. It is hard to tell exactly what this means. Did God want us to be “God Like”? Did God seek for us to be like the angels? We are not divine, but we are created in the “image” of the divine. Certainly, we are taught that we each have the spark of divinity within us.
But why does this matter? My thought is that God wanted humans to be of the earth, to tend to it and to care for it and its inhabitants, both fauna and flora. But God also wanted humans to have a strong divine self. To have divinity means that we are more than mere animals. God places Adam in the Garden of Eden, a sort of heaven on earth. Deferring to Adam, God watches as he names all the animals. God is seeking to have humans be more divine than human.
All is going well for Adam, and his helpmate, Eve (Chava in Hebrew). It seems as if their divine selves are in control and that their human selves are taking a back seat. But enter the snake and the decision by the first humans to eat the fruit of the tree of knowledge of good and bad. After this gastronomic disaster, God becomes angry and punishes Adam and Eve. Women will suffer in pregnancy and be subjugated to men. Men will work hard just to eke out a living, and humans will no longer be immortal (For dust you are, and to dust you will return).
By the punishment, God now relegates humans to be more human than divine. It is a sad decision. I think this is where the story is taking us. Initially, God has big plans for his human creations. They will bring divinity to the earth and use their divine selves to care for others and the earth. Eden will be heaven-on-earth and all will be near perfect. In God’s anger, God determines that humanity does not deserve the idyllic world that God had planned. Divinity would be suppressed and humans, and everything else on earth, would suffer.
It sounds pretty bleak, but I think that God was looking for a way to strengthen the divine within each of us. Through hard work, humans would create a strong foundation for their divine selves. But work alone would enable humans to grow their divine selves.
Enter the Torah.
I think that when God met Abraham and decided to make a great nation of him and his descendants, God had a new plan. If humanity had lost its divine piece when Adam and Eve were kicked out of Eden, then, through Torah, the Jewish people would, once again, strengthen and highlight the divine self. The divinity within humans had been pushed back. The purpose of the Torah is to help push the divine forward.
My dear readers, one mission of the Jewish people is to search for the divine within each of us and to push it forward. If enough of us are successful in performing this task, we might be able to make the world more like the Garden of Eden. One way to do this? Study Torah with us on Thursday’s at 11:00 am. Here is the link:
LINK
Meeting ID: 882 5055 3113
Passcode: 759004
Study with us, push your divine self forward with us, and work together toward making a better world. In the words of my grandmother: “It couldn’t hurt.”
Shabbat Shalom – Rabbi Michael S. Jay
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Candle Lighting Time
(Southern Ocean County)
Shabbat Eve
Friday, October 17, 2025
5:56 PM
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JOIN US
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SHABBAT
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Friday
October 17, 2024
7:30 PM
IN PERSON AND
ON ZOOM
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FRIDAY NIGHT
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Saturday
October 18, 2025
9:00 AM
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SATURDAY MORNING
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TORAH READING
Parashat Bereshit
Genesis 1:1-6:8
Bereishit (“In the Beginning”), the first parashah in the annual Torah reading cycle, begins with God’s creation of the world. The first people, Adam and Eve, eat from the Tree of Knowledge and are banished from the Garden of Eden. Their elder son, Cain, kills their younger son, Abel, and Cain is destined to a life of wandering.
HERE IS THE PORTION
HAFTORAH
Isaiah 42:5-43:10
The haftorah of this week's reading opens with a statement by "the Almighty G‑d, who created the heavens and stretched them out, who laid out the earth and made grow from it." This echoes the Torah portion's recounting of the creation of the world in six days.
Here is the Haftorah
WEEKDAY SERVICES
Monday - Thursday
Ma'ariv Service
7:30 PM
Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to
join Zoom services:
MA'ARIV
Monday - Friday
Shacharit Service
8:15 AM
Sunday at 9:00 AM
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join Zoom services:
SHACHARIT
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It seems to always rains during Sukkot. This year the Island weathered a storm during the holiday. We had to take down the Succah and move services for Shmini Atzeret and Simchat Torah to Zoom only. Of all years to not dance with Torahs and celebrate the return home of the hostages. Yasher Koah to Rabbi Jay for conducting a service with inspiring videos and songs for Simchat Torah.
But, we missed celebrating the holiday as a community in person. We will be having a "Simchat Torah Sheni (II)" at services next Shabbat, October 24. Join us as we dance with our Torahs with joy and gratitude.
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WHY I LOVE TO DAVEN HALLEL
Dedication to my Mishpachah b’Ahavah
from Stu Lehrer
The great American writer Thomas Wolfe once wrote the astounding line “….you can’t go back home….” – Yet when I am paraded with the awesome honor and privilege to lead the Hallel prayer, I feel I can not only go back home but to former Shuls that left an indelible mark with their ruach and davening.
The opening sections have melodies that are generally familiar to all and yet they take me back to my childhood synagogue which in essence was our second home: Beth Joseph Center of Rochester NY. In the middle of Hallel is a stanza that begins with “Kol Ree’nah” which we in Junior Congregation would literally shout in its refrain with quite loud ruach!
Then over the years Eve and I learned other tunes to the familiar verses not just from the other Shuls we belonged to across the nation, but far more special from our nieces and nephews as what they learned at their Yeshivote. This also included the accepted and proper way to ‘shake the lulav’ in the two parts of the Hallel which then Hallel became an inspiring and moving service
Finally, and most poignantly, there is the solemn and extraordinary verse that is Min ha’metzar, kah’rah’tee yah, ah’nah.nee vah’mer’chav yah – translated: In distress I called to HaShem, who answered by setting me free. This was my Mother’s, z”l, favorite posuk and liturgical song. Because of this, it was quite meaningful to all of us. At our Pesach Seder, when we got to this point in the service: as most of our family have been in choirs and musicals: we actually sang Min Ha’Metzar slowly in sweet multi-harmony. Thus, when I have the honor to daven Hallel and I get to this profound moment in Hallel, I truly “go back home” and hear us. But especially, I hear my Mom.
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SUNDAY, October 19
Pickleball
10 AM - 1 PM
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TUESDAY, October 21
Pickleball
10 AM - 1 PM
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WEDNESDAY, October 22
Canasta & Mah Jongg
12:30 - 4 PM
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THURSDAY, October 23
Torah Study
11 AM
Pickleball
10 AM - 1 PM
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FRIDAY, October 24
Studying the Prophets
following morning minyan
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Wednesday, October 22
Boscov's Friends Helping Friends
Sunday, October 26
John Kendrick's Broadway Series
South Pacific
8:30 PM
Monday, October 27
Drawing with Joyce Smith
10:30 AM
Adult Education: Davening 101
7:45 PM
Friday, October 31
Shabbat Dinner
6:30 PM
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November 3/November 10
Adult Education: Davening 101
7:45 PM
Sunday, November 9
Everything You Want to Know About the Surflight Theatre
with Steve Steiner
11:00 AM
Monday, November 10
Drawing with Joyce Smith
10:30 AM
Thursday, November 13
Ethical Wills
with Rabbi Jay
7:45 PM
WAX Brunch
Friday, November 14
LBI Table
11:00 PM
Wedmesday, November 19
WAX Book Review
4:00 PM
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MAH JONGG & CANASTA
WEDNESDAYS
12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM
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PICKLEBALL
Sundays and Thursdays
10 - 1
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The PJP program planned for this Sunday, October 19 "has been cancelled. The Jewish Museum, NY – “Afterlives: Recovering the Lost Stories of Looted Art” will be rescheduled for 2026.
If you missed the excellent program on the show "Oklahoma" which is part of the John Kendrick Broadway Series, here is the link and password:
CLICK HERE IS THE LINK Password #a0hJajF
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RAFFLE WINNERS
1st Prize - Ellen Bernstein $4,557.00
2nd Prize - Herb Botwinick $2,278.50
3rd Prize - Carol Koransky $759.50
MAZEL TOV!!!!
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WAX BOOK DISCUSSION
The third Wednesday of each Month
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Wednesday, November 19th at 4:00 pm
Discussion Leader: TBA
ON ZOOM
Beyond the Rivers of Babylon: My Journey of Optimism and Resilience
in a Turbulent Century
By Joseph Samuels and Julie Fax
Growing up on his family’s cattle farm in western Iceland, young Orri has gained an appreciation for the beauty Rowing upon the Tigris River to enjoy a summer campfire on the tiny islands that emerged every summer, teenaged Joseph Samuels never could have imagined that these waters would soon become his only hope for freedom. At the age of 19, he was forced to leave his family behind as he smuggled out of Iraq in the secret hold of a Basra riverboat to escape the violent and repressive anti-Semitism that, over the next few years, would spell the end of the twomillennium old Iraqi Jewish community. Beyond the Rivers of Babylon follows Joe’s remarkable journey, from his colorful childhood in the Old Jewish Quarter of Baghdad, to his life-altering service in the Israeli Navy, to starting a family and building a real estate empire in Montreal and Los Angeles. Blessed with a landscape of a home that is no more, and in the process imparts the lessons of a life lived to its fullest. remarkably vivid memory and a keen ability to look inward, Joe paints a sensoryJoe paints a sensory landscape of a home that is no more, and in the process imparts the lessons of a life lived to the fullest.
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The JCC section at Crescent Memorial Park is available for sales. Please contact Bonni Rubin-Sugarman at 609-417-7148.
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We are very excited to add to the WAX Gift Shop items from local merchants and artisans. Stop in to look and buy one (or more) of these beautiful pieces for your home, as a gift or just for yourself.
The gift shop is open during office hours M-F 10 - 2.
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CALL PAUL LEVINE WITH ANY QUESTIONS
484-802-0586
SEE ORDER FORM BELOW
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The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:
Olly Alexander*
Andrew Gates
Sheldon Shapiro
Samuel Finkel
Irving Kern
Yetta Miller
Clara P. Kahn
Harold Leon Levy*
Robert Williams
Florence Brounstein
Thelma Butler
Goldie Gorelick*
Millicent Iris
Goldie Perlman*
Morris Saden
Ronald Dalin
Ellen Rosen Field
Ralph Konwiser
Joseph Rosenthal
Joseph Gross
Eric M. Kahn
Fanny Margent
Joseph Isador Sladkus
We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral.
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CARING COMMITTEE
This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.
Please contact Chairperson,
Debby Schweighardt
if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.
973-634-5349
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Joan Stern
October 18
Steven Swissman
October 18
Dana Newborn
October 20
Diane Tucker
October 21
Samuel Halperin
October 22
Carol Hartman
October 22
Alan Turtz
October 22
Ann Beckerman
October 23
Patricia Aresty
October 24
Jonathan Fingerhut
October 24
Leonard Small
October 24
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Arthur & Ninette Steinberg
October 19
45th Anniversary
Stephen & Barbara Pyles
October 20
35th Anniversary
Steven & Eileen Powitz
October 22
59th Anniversary
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AND PICTURES
CONTACT:
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PHYLLIS SISENWINE
healing after knee surgery
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MAZEL TOV TO
ANN NEWMAN
on the birth of her granddaugher
Jacqueline (Jackie) Shay Van Oostendorp
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YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.
Go to jccoflbi.org - Giving/Pay
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GIVING OPPORTUNITIES
PAVERS
Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building
8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"
SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:
PAVER FORM
Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.
Purchase a personalized paving stone
in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.
Please contact Diane Hoffman
with your order or with any questions:
dihoff1@aol.com
PRAYER BOOKS
There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.
See Order form here: Prayer Book
TRIBUTES
SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF
See order form here: TRIBUTES
TREE OF LIFE
Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE
Bronze Leaf $90
Silver Leaf $126
Gold :Leaf $180
ENDOWMENT FUND
Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.
Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.
A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.
Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly.
YAHRZEIT PLAQUES
Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary.
Here is the order form:
YAHRZEIT
KOL HAKAVOD
Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD
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2025 MEMBERSHIP FORMS
Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.
Here is form for renewal:
RENEW NOW
And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:
JOIN NOW
BE A PART OF THE WOMEN'S AUXILLARY
2025 DUES FORM HERE
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JCC FUNDS
Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.
ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.
GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.
KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.
RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.
ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
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JCC LEADERSHIP
OFFICERS
President- Phil Rosenzweig
1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman
2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman
3RD Vice President- Jon Geier
Treasurer- Stu Cofsky
Secretary- Cliff Denker
Immediate Past President -Michael Babst
BOARD MEMBERS
Howard Babbitt
Diane Buskirk
Lorna Klein
Ken Podos
Sondi Pripstein
Terri Robinovitz
David Shatz
Bonni Rubin-Sugarman
Rose Valentine
Ken Yudman
WOMEN'S AUXILIARY
President - Diane Buskirk
Treasurer - Suzy Geier
Secretary - Joanne Babbitt
Lorna Klein
Joyce Levine
Representative to the Board - Sondi Pripstein
Immediate Past President - Irene Babst
Rabbi Michael S. Jay, Spiritual Leader
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