JEWISH COMMUNITY

CENTER OF

LONG BEACH ISLAND

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October 17, 2025

25 Tishri 5785





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Note: Torah Study on Thursday is at 11:00 AM

A MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI


In Parashat Bereshit, the Torah tells us that God created humans in God’s image. It is hard to tell exactly what this means. Did God want us to be “God Like”? Did God seek for us to be like the angels? We are not divine, but we are created in the “image” of the divine. Certainly, we are taught that we each have the spark of divinity within us.


But why does this matter? My thought is that God wanted humans to be of the earth, to tend to it and to care for it and its inhabitants, both fauna and flora. But God also wanted humans to have a strong divine self. To have divinity means that we are more than mere animals. God places Adam in the Garden of Eden, a sort of heaven on earth. Deferring to Adam, God watches as he names all the animals. God is seeking to have humans be more divine than human.


All is going well for Adam, and his helpmate, Eve (Chava in Hebrew). It seems as if their divine selves are in control and that their human selves are taking a back seat. But enter the snake and the decision by the first humans to eat the fruit of the tree of knowledge of good and bad. After this gastronomic disaster, God becomes angry and punishes Adam and Eve. Women will suffer in pregnancy and be subjugated to men. Men will work hard just to eke out a living, and humans will no longer be immortal (For dust you are, and to dust you will return).


By the punishment, God now relegates humans to be more human than divine. It is a sad decision. I think this is where the story is taking us. Initially, God has big plans for his human creations. They will bring divinity to the earth and use their divine selves to care for others and the earth. Eden will be heaven-on-earth and all will be near perfect. In God’s anger, God determines that humanity does not deserve the idyllic world that God had planned. Divinity would be suppressed and humans, and everything else on earth, would suffer. 


It sounds pretty bleak, but I think that God was looking for a way to strengthen the divine within each of us. Through hard work, humans would create a strong foundation for their divine selves. But work alone would enable humans to grow their divine selves.



Enter the Torah. 


I think that when God met Abraham and decided to make a great nation of him and his descendants, God had a new plan. If humanity had lost its divine piece when Adam and Eve were kicked out of Eden, then, through Torah, the Jewish people would, once again, strengthen and highlight the divine self. The divinity within humans had been pushed back. The purpose of the Torah is to help push the divine forward.


My dear readers, one mission of the Jewish people is to search for the divine within each of us and to push it forward. If enough of us are successful in performing this task, we might be able to make the world more like the Garden of Eden. One way to do this? Study Torah with us on Thursday’s at 11:00 am. Here is the link:

LINK

Meeting ID: 882 5055 3113

Passcode: 759004


Study with us, push your divine self forward with us, and work together toward making a better world. In the words of my grandmother: “It couldn’t hurt.”


Shabbat Shalom – Rabbi Michael S. Jay


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Shabbat Eve

Friday, October 17, 2025

5:56 PM

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October 17, 2024

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Saturday

October 18, 2025

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SATURDAY MORNING

TORAH READING

Parashat Bereshit 

Genesis 1:1-6:8

Bereishit (“In the Beginning”), the first parashah in the annual Torah reading cycle, begins with God’s creation of the world. The first people, Adam and Eve, eat from the Tree of Knowledge and are banished from the Garden of Eden. Their elder son, Cain, kills their younger son, Abel, and Cain is destined to a life of wandering.

HERE IS THE PORTION 


HAFTORAH

Isaiah 42:5-43:10

The haftorah of this week's reading opens with a statement by "the Almighty G‑d, who created the heavens and stretched them out, who laid out the earth and made grow from it." This echoes the Torah portion's recounting of the creation of the world in six days.

Here is the Haftorah



WEEKDAY SERVICES

Monday - Thursday

Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV


Monday - Friday

Shacharit Service

8:15 AM

Sunday at 9:00 AM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

SHACHARIT


It seems to always rains during Sukkot. This year the Island weathered a storm during the holiday. We had to take down the Succah and move services for Shmini Atzeret and Simchat Torah to Zoom only. Of all years to not dance with Torahs and celebrate the return home of the hostages. Yasher Koah to Rabbi Jay for conducting a service with inspiring videos and songs for Simchat Torah.


But, we missed celebrating the holiday as a community in person. We will be having a "Simchat Torah Sheni (II)" at services next Shabbat, October 24. Join us as we dance with our Torahs with joy and gratitude.

      WHY I LOVE TO DAVEN HALLEL

Dedication to my Mishpachah b’Ahavah

from Stu Lehrer

 

The great American writer Thomas Wolfe once wrote the astounding line “….you can’t go back home….” – Yet when I am paraded with the awesome honor and privilege to lead the Hallel prayer, I feel I can not only go back home but to former Shuls that left an indelible mark with their ruach and davening.

 

The opening sections have melodies that are generally familiar to all and yet they take me back to my childhood synagogue which in essence was our second home: Beth Joseph Center of Rochester NY. In the middle of Hallel is a stanza that begins with “Kol Ree’nah” which we in Junior Congregation would literally shout in its refrain with quite loud ruach!

 

Then over the years Eve and I learned other tunes to the familiar verses not just from the other Shuls we belonged to across the nation, but far more special from our nieces and nephews as what they learned at their Yeshivote. This also included the accepted and proper way to ‘shake the lulav’ in the two parts of the Hallel which then Hallel became an inspiring and moving service

 

Finally, and most poignantly, there is the solemn and extraordinary verse that is Min ha’metzar, kah’rah’tee yah, ah’nah.nee vah’mer’chav yah – translated: In distress I called to HaShem, who answered by setting me free. This was my Mother’s, z”l, favorite posuk and liturgical song.  Because of this, it was quite meaningful to all of us. At our Pesach Seder, when we got to this point in the service: as most of our family have been in choirs and musicals: we actually sang Min Ha’Metzar slowly in sweet multi-harmony. Thus, when I have the honor to daven Hallel and I get to this profound moment in Hallel, I truly “go back home” and hear us. But especially, I hear my Mom.


SUNDAY, October 19

Pickleball

10 AM - 1 PM

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TUESDAY, October 21

Pickleball

10 AM - 1 PM

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WEDNESDAY, October 22

Canasta & Mah Jongg

12:30 - 4 PM

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THURSDAY, October 23

Torah Study

11 AM

Pickleball

10 AM - 1 PM

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FRIDAY, October 24

Studying the Prophets

following morning minyan

Wednesday, October 22

Boscov's Friends Helping Friends


Sunday, October 26

John Kendrick's Broadway Series

South Pacific

8:30 PM


Monday, October 27

Drawing with Joyce Smith

10:30 AM

Adult Education: Davening 101

7:45 PM


Friday, October 31

Shabbat Dinner

6:30 PM


November 3/November 10

Adult Education: Davening 101

7:45 PM


Sunday, November 9

Everything You Want to Know About the Surflight Theatre

with Steve Steiner

11:00 AM


Monday, November 10

Drawing with Joyce Smith

10:30 AM


Thursday, November 13

Ethical Wills

with Rabbi Jay

7:45 PM


WAX Brunch

Friday, November 14

LBI Table

11:00 PM


Wedmesday, November 19

WAX Book Review

4:00 PM


MAH JONGG & CANASTA 

WEDNESDAYS

12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM 


PICKLEBALL

Sundays and Thursdays

10 - 1


THIS WEEK



The PJP program planned for this Sunday, October 19 "has been cancelled. The Jewish Museum, NY – “Afterlives: Recovering the Lost Stories of Looted Art” will be rescheduled for 2026.


If you missed the excellent program on the show "Oklahoma" which is part of the John Kendrick Broadway Series, here is the link and password:

CLICK HERE IS THE LINK Password #a0hJajF


RAFFLE WINNERS

1st Prize - Ellen Bernstein $4,557.00

2nd Prize - Herb Botwinick $2,278.50

3rd Prize - Carol Koransky $759.50


MAZEL TOV!!!!




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WAX BOOK DISCUSSION

The third Wednesday of each Month

Wednesday, November 19th at 4:00 pm

Discussion Leader: TBA

ON ZOOM


Beyond the Rivers of Babylon: My Journey of Optimism and Resilience

in a Turbulent Century

By Joseph Samuels and Julie Fax


Growing up on his family’s cattle farm in western Iceland, young Orri has gained an appreciation for the beauty Rowing upon the Tigris River to enjoy a summer campfire on the tiny islands that emerged every summer, teenaged Joseph Samuels never could have imagined that these waters would soon become his only hope for freedom. At the age of 19, he was forced to leave his family behind as he smuggled out of Iraq in the secret hold of a Basra riverboat to escape the violent and repressive anti-Semitism that, over the next few years, would spell the end of the twomillennium old Iraqi Jewish community. Beyond the Rivers of Babylon follows Joe’s remarkable journey, from his colorful childhood in the Old Jewish Quarter of Baghdad, to his life-altering service in the Israeli Navy, to starting a family and building a real estate empire in Montreal and Los Angeles. Blessed with a landscape of a home that is no more, and in the process imparts the lessons of a life lived to its fullest. remarkably vivid memory and a keen ability to look inward, Joe paints a sensoryJoe paints a sensory landscape of a home that is no more, and in the process imparts the lessons of a life lived to the fullest.






The JCC section at Crescent Memorial Park is available for sales. Please contact Bonni Rubin-Sugarman at 609-417-7148.


We are very excited to add to the WAX Gift Shop items from local merchants and artisans. Stop in to look and buy one (or more) of these beautiful pieces for your home, as a gift or just for yourself.


The gift shop is open during office hours M-F 10 - 2.

CALL PAUL LEVINE WITH ANY QUESTIONS

484-802-0586

SEE ORDER FORM BELOW

CONGREGATION NEWS


The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:


Olly Alexander*

Andrew Gates

Sheldon Shapiro

Samuel Finkel

Irving Kern

Yetta Miller

Clara P. Kahn

Harold Leon Levy*

Robert Williams

Florence Brounstein

Thelma Butler

Goldie Gorelick*

Millicent Iris

Goldie Perlman*

Morris Saden

Ronald Dalin

Ellen Rosen Field

Ralph Konwiser

Joseph Rosenthal

Joseph Gross

Eric M. Kahn

Fanny Margent

Joseph Isador Sladkus



We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral.


 

CARING COMMITTEE

  This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.

Please contact Chairperson,

Debby Schweighardt

if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.

973-634-5349


Joan Stern

October 18

Steven Swissman

October 18

Dana Newborn

October 20

Diane Tucker

October 21

Samuel Halperin

October 22

Carol Hartman

October 22

Alan Turtz

October 22

Ann Beckerman

October 23

Patricia Aresty

October 24

Jonathan Fingerhut

October 24

Leonard Small

October 24


Arthur & Ninette Steinberg

October 19

45th Anniversary

Stephen & Barbara Pyles

October 20

35th Anniversary

Steven & Eileen Powitz

October 22

59th Anniversary

 

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PHYLLIS SISENWINE

healing after knee surgery

MAZEL TOV TO


ANN NEWMAN


on the birth of her granddaugher

Jacqueline (Jackie) Shay Van Oostendorp

YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.


Go to jccoflbi.org - Giving/Pay

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES


PAVERS

Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building

8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"


SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:

PAVER FORM

Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.

Purchase a personalized paving stone

in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.


Please contact Diane Hoffman

with your order or with any questions:

dihoff1@aol.com



PRAYER BOOKS

There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.

See Order form here: Prayer Book



TRIBUTES

SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF

See order form here: TRIBUTES



TREE OF LIFE

Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE

Bronze Leaf $90

Silver Leaf $126

Gold :Leaf $180



ENDOWMENT FUND


Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.


Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.


A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.

 

Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 



YAHRZEIT PLAQUES

Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 

Here is the order form: 

YAHRZEIT



KOL HAKAVOD


Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD


2025 MEMBERSHIP FORMS


Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.

Here is form for renewal:

RENEW NOW


And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:

JOIN NOW


BE A PART OF THE WOMEN'S AUXILLARY

2025 DUES FORM HERE


JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
 

JCC LEADERSHIP



OFFICERS

President- Phil Rosenzweig

1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman

2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman

3RD Vice President- Jon Geier

Treasurer- Stu Cofsky

Secretary- Cliff Denker

Immediate Past President -Michael Babst


BOARD MEMBERS

Howard Babbitt 

Diane Buskirk

Lorna Klein

Ken Podos

Sondi Pripstein

Terri Robinovitz

David Shatz

Bonni Rubin-Sugarman

Rose Valentine

Ken Yudman


WOMEN'S AUXILIARY

President - Diane Buskirk

Treasurer - Suzy Geier

Secretary - Joanne Babbitt

Lorna Klein

Joyce Levine

Representative to the Board - Sondi Pripstein

Immediate Past President - Irene Babst



Rabbi Michael S. Jay, Spiritual Leader


JCC INFORMATION


THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT

2411 Long Beach Boulevard

(24th Street)

Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550

email: jccoflbi@gmail.com

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  

  

THE OFFICE IS OPEN

MONDAY - FRIDAY

FROM 10 - 2




 Staff:

 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager

  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member

 Diane Parzych, Staff Member

Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager




BULLETIN:

LATEST BULLETIN



PRAYER BOOK:

Prayer Book

 

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE


PAVERS:

PAVER FORM 


TREE OF LIFE

TREE

  

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES


KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD


TRIBUTES:

TRIBUTES 



CONTACT INFORMATION:

  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

mjayrab@gmail.com


Phil Rosenzweig, President

prosenzweig@sanddlawyers.com 


 

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 

rvalen1963@aol.com 

Graphics by

Mary Beth Kreiger

Contributing Articles by

Stu Lehrer