JEWISH COMMUNITY

CENTER OF

LONG BEACH ISLAND

E-LETTER



August 8, 2025

14 Av 5785








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OF THE SHABBAT REMINDER

A MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI


A last reflection as we go into our Gala weekend: 


75 years is a long time. For a tradition that is about 3,000 years old, 75 years may seem like nothing. But I am here to tell you that it is most definitely is something.

  

I wish I could go back to the folks who founded the JCC and ask them where they thought the JCC would be in 75 years. 

 

I Wish I could ask them whether they thought we might be in a big gray building adorned by a big Jewish star, with its entrance on the boulevard. 


I wish I could ask them how many families they thought the JCC would have in 75 years. I doubt they would have believed that it would be 325+.

I wish that I could ask them if they thought we would have services twice a day, all year.


I wish I could ask them if they thought we would have classes in Hebrew, and classes on Jewish history, and classes about Israel, and a book club.


I wish I could ask them if they thought we would lean Torah and Prophets every week.


I wish I could ask them if they thought we would celebrate Rosh Chodesh.


I wish I could ask them if they thought we would become a tennis center, and whether they thought we would later become a pickleball center. (I am certain they would ask what pickleball is).


I wish I could ask them if they thought that we would have an incredibly active Women’s Auxiliary. (Actually, I am pretty certain that this is the only question that they would respond by unhesitatingly saying “Yes”.)


I wish I could ask them if they thought that we would have amazing programming, like talks on Israel, and talks on the Holocaust, and comedians, and musicians, Israeli dancing, and Challah baking.


I wish I could ask them if they thought that the JCC would have 10 beach services in the summer season.


I wish I could ask them if they thought that the JCC would have a Shabbat Reminder published every week with articles and information about the week that passed and the week to come.


 I wish I could ask them if they thought that the big gray building would be filled-to-capacity on the High Holy days.


I wish I could ask them if they thought we would have baby-namings, and B’nai Mitzvahs, and Weddings, and dinners in the Sukkah.


I wish I could ask them if they thought the JCC would have a 75th anniversary gala with 160+ attendees and a museum dedicated to what they started.


I wish I could ask them how they knew that the island could/would support a Jewish community.


I wish I could ask them how long they thought the JCC would last.


I wish I could ask them how they knew that, over the years, individuals and families would keep stepping up to devote themselves selflessly to caring for the JCC and making sure that it thrives.


In this week’s Torah portion, Ve’etchanan, Moses tells the Israelites to never let their history or the Torah fade from their minds as long as they live. Perhaps more importantly, he tells them to make that history and Torah known to their children and to their children’s children. This week we are the children and the children’s children of the founders of the JCC. May the history of our beloved Jewish home never fade from our minds.

So much time. So many people who have impacted lives, and so many people whose lives have been impacted. So many prayers, so many songs, so much joy, and so much food. 75 years of Torah. 75 years of Yiddishkeit. 75 years of being present to the needs of the community. 75 years of holiness. 75 years of Faith, Family, and Friends.


Shabbat Shalom in the name of Rabbis past, present, and future – Rabbi Michael S. Jay

Candle Lighting Time

(Southern Ocean County)

Shabbat Eve

Friday, August 8, 2025

7:43 PM

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FOR

SHABBAT

SERVICES


Shabbat Nachamu

Shabbat after Tish’a B’Av (Shabbat of Consolation)


Shabbat Nachamu takes its name from the haftarah from Isaiah in the Book of Isaiah 40:1-26 that speaks of “comforting” the Jewish people for their suffering. It the first of seven haftarahs of consolation leading up to the holiday of Rosh Hashanah, the Jewish New Year


Friday

August 8, 2024

6:00 PM

Services on the Beach

in Loveladies

just south of St. Clare's Church


IN PERSON AND

ON ZOOM


Bring your beach chair!

In case of inclement weather services will be held at the JCC.


NEW

A parallel service at 6:00 PM will be held on Zoom led by Ira Morgenthal

Here is 

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join Services

on Zoom

FRIDAY NIGHT


Saturday

August 9, 2025

9:00 AM

IN PERSON AND

ON ZOOM

Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

SATURDAY MORNING


TORAH READING

Parashat Vaetchanan 

 Deuteronomy 3:23-7:11

Here is the Torah Reading


HAFTORAH

Isaiah 40:1-26

Here is the Haftorah


WEEKDAY SERVICES


Monday - Thursday

Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV


Monday - Friday

Shacharit Service

8:15 AM

Sunday at 9:00 AM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

SHACHARIT

BEACH SERVICES

at 6:00 PM


August 8: Services at Loveladies

August 15: Services at Loveladies

August 22: Services at

Spray Beach

August 29: Services at Spray Beach


AN EVENING OF CELEBRATION


Finally after much planning, the JCC of LBI Gala Celebration is just a few days away. The committee is hard at work completing the last minute details.


The weather looks like it is going to cooperate this Sunday evening so that our cocktail hour can be held outside. A presentation will follow, highlighting the history of our congregation. Dinner and dancing will complete the evening.


We have a full house of 156 guests including some of our past presidents and clergy as well as the clergy from our neighbors here on LBI.

A special exhibit of photos and articles will be on display in the library. It is the result of many hours sorting through a vast amount of material. We will keep it up following the Gala for folks to view during office hours.


Next week look for pictures and a report of the festivities.


Remember our final anniversary event is coming up.


A COMEDY SHOW AT THE SURFLIGHT

To Benefit the JCC of LBI

August 31, 2025

8:00 PM


Contact the Surflight Box Office to order your tickets. 609-492-9477



From our friends at St. Francis Parish


Spotlight

Sunday, August 10, 2025

 

Congratulations to our LBI Jewish Brothers and Sisters


On behalf of St. Francis Parish and Center, we, the Catholic community of Long Beach Island, offer our heartfelt love and congratulations to our Jewish brothers and sisters of the Jewish Community Center of Long Beach Island as you celebrate your 75th Anniversary!

We give thanks to G-d who, with a marvelous imagination has created a beautiful and wonderful world out of nothing but of many parts. As we watch the beauty of a sunrise or a sunset G-d’s majesty is so easily seen. Surpassing that majesty is the varying cultures, traditions, languages, and peoples that inhabit this incredible world we all call home.


We as the Catholic Community on Long Beach Island continue to work and pray for the peaceable Kingdom that recalls the time when “G-d looked at everything he had made and found it very good.

Evening came, and morning followed.” Genesis 1:31


As we begin again with each new day, may our joint admiration, love, and respect allow us to fulfill G-d’s promise and return to Eden. Echoing the blessing that St. Francis so often prayed from the Book of Numbers.


May the Lord bless you and keep you;

the Lord make his face shine on you and be gracious to you;

the Lord turn his face toward you and give you peace.”


"The Bridge" Weekly Bulletin

SUNDAY, August 10

NO Pickleball

10 AM - 1 PM

GALA

5:30 PM

******

TUESDAY, August 12

Pickleball

3 - 6 PM

******

WEDNESDAY, August 13

Canasta & Mah Jongg

12:30 - 4 PM

WAX Book Discussion

4:00 PM

*****


THURSDAY, August 14

Torah Study

11 AM

Pickleball

10 AM - 1 PM


Sunday, August 10

75th Anniversary Gala


Wednesday, August 13

WAX Book Club

4 PM


Sunday, August 17

Annual Congregation Meeting

10 AM


Tuesday, August 19

WAX Brunch

11 AM -1 PM

Jersey Girls Kitchen & Market


Thursday, August 21

Tours of Harvey Cedars

Bible Center

10 AM and 11 AM


Sunday, August 31

Comedy Nite at the Surflight

8:00 PM

 

MAH JONGG & CANASTA

WEDNESDAYS

12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM


PICKLEBALL

Sundays and Thursdays

10 - 1

Tuesdays

3-4 PM Beginners

4 - 6 PM Experienced Players


WAX BOOK DISCUSSION GROUP

THIRD WEDNESDAY OF EACH MONTH

Wednesday, August 13th at 4:00 pm

Discussion Leader: TBA

*IN PERSON AT THE JCC LIBRARY AND ON ZOOM

Red Dog Farm

By Nathaniel Ian Miller


Growing up on his family’s cattle farm in western Iceland, young Orri has gained an appreciation for the beauty found in everyday things: the cavorting of a newborn calf, the return of birdsong after a long winter, the steadfast love of a good (or tolerably good) farm dog. But the outer world still beckons, so Orri leaves his nononsense Lithuanian Jewish mother and his taciturn father, Pabbi, to attend university in Reykjavík. Pabbi is no stranger to cycles of life and death, growth and destruction. He is pursued by the memory of a volcanic eruption and its aftermath, and so many years of hard-scrabble farming have left their mark. Jaded, and no longer able to find joy in his way of life, Pabbi falls into a depression soon after Orri goes away to school. Orri, feeling adrift and aimless at the end of his first semester, comes home.


For the first time, Pabbi allows Orri to help him run the farm. Despite their conflicting attitudes, Orri and Pabbi must learn to work together. Meanwhile, Orri meets a kindred spirit on the internet: Mihan, a part-time student. Over time—and countless texts and phone calls—their connection deepens. By year’s end, Orri must decide whether he wants to—or should—return to university, and what a future with Mihan would hold, if she’ll have him.

SURFLIGHT COMEDY SHOW

To Benefit the JCC of LBI

August 31, 2025

8:00 PM


Contact the Surflight Box Office to order your tickets. 609-492-9477


When you order your tickets, you can request to sit near the JCC section. The JCC will receive a portion of the revenue from ALL seats sold in the theater. 

HONEY FROM THE HEART





The JCC section at Crescent Memorial Park is available for sales. Please contact Bonni Rubin-Sugarman at 609-417-7148.

Beautiful new jewelry item


We are very excited to add to the WAX Gift Shop items from local merchants and artisans. Stop in to look and buy one (or more) of these beautiful pieces for your home, as a gift or just for yourself. The gift shop is open during office hours M-F 10 - 2.

PAVERS

CALL PAUL LEVINE WITH ANY QUESTIONS

484-802-0586

SEE ORDER FORM BELOW

CONGREGATION NEWS


The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:


Louis Alexander

Deborah H. Barsh

Leon Isanuk*

Barbara Carey

Dr. Jerome Cohen

Sophie Cohen

Sophie Litt

Benjamin Parker

Burt Schwait

Molly Young*

Angela Dicicco

Betty Jonas

Rosalind Mularz

Gertrude Serepca*

Yetta Elman

Martin Ferber*

Cecile E. Kessler

Arnold Rifkin

Barton Bloom

Louis Katz

Robert Warren*

Jack Blecher

Myer Elgart*

Joseph Friedland

Sophie Neustadt*

Helen Walkes

Leslie Kaufman*

 

We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral.



 
Cake

Ellen Taupin

August 9

Susan Koslowsky

August 10

Roberta Abramowitz

August 13

Carl Chaikin

August 13

Adam Fishman

August 13

David Robinovitz

August 13

Lynn Sherman

August 13

Sheila Small

August 14

Marc & Ruthellen Rubin

August 11

52nd Anniversary

Steven & Wendy Lager

August 12

35th Anniversary

Marc & Audrey Wisotsky

August 12

41st Anniversary

Stewart & Susan Fisher

August 13

36th Anniversary

Robert & Lauren Snyder

August 14

48th Anniversary


SHARE YOUR NEWS

AND PICTURES


CONTACT: 

rvalen1963@aol.com

CARING COMMITTEE

  This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.

Please contact Chairperson,

Debby Schweighardt

if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.

973-634-5349


RENEE WARD


EDD DREYFUS

YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.


Go to jccoflbi.org - Giving/Pay

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES


PAVERS

Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building

8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"


SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:

PAVER FORM

Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.

Purchase a personalized paving stone

in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.


Please contact Diane Hoffman

with your order or with any questions:

dihoff1@aol.com



PRAYER BOOKS

There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.

See Order form here: Prayer Book



TRIBUTES

SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF

See order form here: TRIBUTES



TREE OF LIFE

Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE

Bronze Leaf $90

Silver Leaf $126

Gold :Leaf $180



ENDOWMENT FUND


Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.


Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.


A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.

 

Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 



YAHRZEIT PLAQUES

Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 

Here is the order form: 

YAHRZEIT



KOL HAKAVOD


Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD


2025 MEMBERSHIP FORMS


Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.

Here is form for renewal:

RENEW NOW


And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:

JOIN NOW


BE A PART OF THE WOMEN'S AUXILLARY

2025 DUES FORM HERE


JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
 

JCC LEADERSHIP



OFFICERS

President- Phil Rosenzweig

1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman

2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman

3RD Vice President- Jon Geier

Treasurer- Stu Cofsky

Secretary- Cliff Denker

Immediate Past President -Michael Babst


BOARD MEMBERS

Howard Babbitt 

Diane Buskirk

Lorna Klein

Paul Levine

Ken Podos

Sondi Pripstein

Terri Robinovitz

Bonni Rubin-Sugarman

Rose Valentine

Ken Yudman


WOMEN'S AUXILIARY

President - Diane Buskirk

Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll

Co-Vice President - Jill Denker

Treasurer - Suzy Geier

Secretary - Joanne Babbitt

Immediate Past President - Irene Babst

Representative to the Board - Sondi Pripstein


Rabbi Michael S. Jay, Spiritual Leader


JCC INFORMATION


THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT

2411 Long Beach Boulevard

(24th Street)

Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550

email: jccoflbi@gmail.com

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  

  

THE OFFICE IS OPEN

MONDAY - FRIDAY

FROM 10 - 2




 Staff:

 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager

  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member

 Diane Parzych, Staff Member

Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager



LATEST

BULLETIN:

BULLETIN


PRAYER BOOK:

Prayer Book

 

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE


PAVERS:

PAVER FORM 


TREE OF LIFE

TREE

  

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES


KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD


TRIBUTES:

TRIBUTES 



CONTACT INFORMATION:

  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

mjayrab@gmail.com


Phil Rosenzweig, President

prosenzweig@sanddlawyers.com 


 

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 

rvalen1963@aol.com 

Graphics by

Mary Beth Kreiger

Contributing Articles by

Stu Lehrer