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Tears lately? Like, what is going on with this crying?! Are you depressed? Did your meds stop
working? Where did your motivation go?
It’s the season. Seriously.
Right now, at this exact point in the year, everything outside is letting go. The light is shortening. Things are dying back. A cycle is ending, visibly, everywhere you look.
Your body is not separate from that. If you feel heavier in September and October, you are
responding accurately to your environment.
And some of what you're carrying isn't personal at all. There's a specific grief moving through
people right now that has nothing to do with their own lives — grief about the state of things,
about what's unfair, about a world that keeps asking you to absorb more than a person can
absorb. That's not fragility. That's what it feels like to be paying attention.
So no. We don't think the goal is to stop feeling it.
But there's a difference between feeling something and being flattened by it.
If it's changing how you sleep, how you eat, whether you answer your texts, whether you can
get up — that's not honoring the season anymore. That's a system running out of capacity to
hold what it's holding.
In Chinese Medicine, grief lives in the Lungs, and Fall is Lung season.
Not all sadness is depression, and not all depression is the same thing. Grief and sadness can look like a specific kind of depression.
And to be clear: I am pro every tool in the toolbox. If medication helps you, take it. If therapy
helps you, keep going. I'm not here to replace any of it. I'm here to add to it. No judgment, ever.
Just provide more support. For your lungs. For you feeling better.
If this fall has you down, you're tired of explaining it away, come in. Call us at 443-219-1220!
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