Jewish Community Center of Long Beach Island E-Letter


March 18, 2022
15 Adar II 5782

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MEGILLAH READING THIS EVENING 3/16
AT 7:00 pm
IN PERSON &
ON ZOOM


CHILDREN'S FAMILY
SERVICE AT 5:30 pm ZOOM ONLY

Bring a small box of pasta (kosher) to use as a grogger. We will donate them to the St. Francis Food Bank

THURSDAY
PURIM SERVICE
ZOOM ONLY
8:15 AM TIME CHANGE

MA'ARIV
7:00 PM TIME CHANGE


PICTURES ARE WORTH A THOUSAND WORDS
The JCC of LBI Celebrates Purim
Sheila Weisel receives her Shabbat Reminder
Contest prize
Above - JCC's Julia Child

Hamantaschen feast from the kitchen of Kim & Ellie Braun
Noralyn Carroll shows off her delicacies

Ira Morgenthal and grandson Mikey bake together
Lynn Sherman's perfect hamantaschen
Jill (and Cliff) Denker love their hamantaschen
The Millers show off their "zebra" hamantaschen
THANK YOU TO

THE JCC WAX for providing Purim bags for our young families
MARLENE HERMAN for creating the contents of the bags including a puppet stage and Purim games and activities
IRENE AND MICHAEL BABST for delivering the Purim bags

PURIM ANND ST. PADDY'S DAY
If Purim and St. Patrick’s Day, which both fall on March 17 this year, have one thing in common, it’s drinking.
The Talmud teaches Jews to drink on Purim until they can’t tell the difference between the antisemite Haman and the Jewish Mordechai.

To mark the two holidays’ joint appearance on the calendar, Jay Sanderson, the former CEO and president of the Jewish Federation of Los Angeles, concocted a cocktail that combines the flavors of each. He calls it a Haman O’Reilly.

1 1/2 oz Jameson’s Irish whiskey
1/2 oz unaged brandy
1/2 oz fresh lemon juice
3 dashes of apricot bitters
1 bar spoon apricot preserves
Place all ingredients in a cocktail shaker without ice, close the lid, and shake vigorously until blended. Add ice and shake until chilled.
Spoon some apricot jam onto one plate and some poppy seeds on another. Dip the rim of a chilled martini glass in the jam, then in the poppy seeds. Pour in the drink.
Enjoy! (Responsibly).

From https://forward.com/food/483816/when-purim-falls-on-st-patricks-day-drink-a-haman-oreilly/
A MESSAGE FROM
RABBI JAY
With Purim coming tonight night, here is a quick review. The holiday has four main Mitzvot:

1) The reading of the Megillah (Mikra Megillah)
2) The festive Purim meal (Seudat Purim)

3) Sending gifts (Mishloach Manot)

4) Gifts to the poor (Matanot l’Evyonim)

A 5th Mitzvah for Purim is simply to be happy and have fun. Join us in person (Vaccination, booster, and mask required until further notice) or on Zoom. You will be guaranteed to smile.

A 6th Mitzvah this year is to pray for the Ukrainian people as they continue to suffer. Donate one or more of the organizations that we have provided to you in other emails. While you are at it, pray for peace in general.

Below is a brief summary of the story of Purim. As always, if you have questions or comments, please feel free to email me or to call me.

Shabbat Shalom and Chag Purim Sameach – Rabbi Michael S. Jay

The Story of Purim
The plot and themes of "the Whole Megillah."

 
The Purim story is the Book of Esther; which is a part of the Ketuvim or Writings (also called the Hagiographa), the third section of Tanakh [the Hebrew Bible]. An outline of the Purim story follows:
•  King Ahasuerus dethrones Queen Vashti.
•  Esther is crowned queen after winning a beauty contest.
•  Mordecai uncovers a plot to kill the king and reports it.
•  [King Ahasuerus promotes Haman, making him more powerful than all the other officials.]
•  Mordecai refuses to bow before Haman [a close confidant of the king].
Haman seeks to destroy the Jews after his run-in with Mordecai.
•  Mordecai appeals to Esther to save her people. Esther approaches King Ahasuerus and invites him and Haman to a banquet.
•  Mordecai is honored for having saved the king's life. Esther entertains the king and Haman, and invites them to a second banquet.
•  Esther pleads for her people at the second banquet. She accuses Haman.
•  The king grants Esther's request and condemns Haman to die on the gallows that he built for the Jews.
•  The Jews defend themselves throughout Persia [against those following out the decree to destroy the Jews].
•  The holiday of Purim is established and Mordecai advances to a position of importance.
Esther 3:8 is a classic statement of anti-Semitism, perhaps the first such written anywhere. It reads: "Haman then said to King Ahasuerus, 'There is a certain people, scattered and dispersed among the other peoples in all the provinces of your realm, whose laws are different from those of any other people and who do not obey the king's laws; and it is not in Your Majesty's interest to tolerate them.'"
Haman tells the king that, because the Jews are different, they must be suspect. He then lies to compound the felony, for indeed the Jews did follow the laws of the land. Unfortunately, this type of reasoning has, again and again throughout Jewish history; been the unwarranted rationale for the persecution of Jews.
The word God is not mentioned in the entire Book of Esther. This omission exists in spite of the fact that throughout the Bible, God's intervention is ever present. Mordecai does, however, make an indirect reference to God when he speaks with Esther about intervening with the king: "…if you keep silent in this crisis, relief and deliverance will come to the Jews from another quarter, while you and your father's house will perish. And who knows, perhaps you have attained to royal position for just such a crisis" (Esther 4:13-14).
In other words, not only does Mordecai suggest that God might indeed play an active role in resolving the crisis, but further suggests that Esther's becoming queen may have been the work of God, Who was preparing for the day when the Jewish people would face crisis. Another explanation for the absence of the name of God is that since the book was written in scroll form and sent to Jews throughout Persia, the name of God was omitted in case the scroll was desecrated in any way.
Whether the events related in the book are factual or not, the Book of Esther is more truthful than many so-called historical works. Unfortunately, the story has been repeated throughout Jewish history on many occasions, but without the benefit of a hero or heroine. The Book of Esther thus serves as an allegory describing the life and lot of the Jewish people in an alien and hostile world.
ENJOY THIS PURIM VIDEO BY THE MACCABEATS.
SHABBAT SHALOM
Candle Lighting time
Friday Evening,
March 18, 2022
6:48 PM
So. Ocean County

JOIN US FOR
SERVICES


Friday Evening
March 18, 2022
6:00 PM

Here is 
your invitation from 
Rabbi Jay to join
Zoom services

Saturday Morning
March 19, 2022
Services
9:00 AM
ZOOM
AND
IN PERSON

Here is
your invitation from 
Rabbi Jay to join
Zoom services
Torah Reading:
Parashat Tzav
Leviticus 6:1-8:36 
Here is the Reading

In Tzav (“Command”), God tells Moses about the sacrifices offered in the Mishkan (Tabernacle), including a meal offering brought by the high priest, guilt offerings, and offerings of thanks. Moses initiates Aaron and Aaron’s sons for priestly service in the Mishkan. 

Haftorah
Jeremiah 7:21-8:3, 9:22-23
Here is the Haftorah

Saturday Evening

5:30 PM
Torah Study
6:30 PM
Havdallah

Here is 
your invitation from 
Rabbi Jay to
join Zoom services

 Sunday - Thursday
Ma'ariv Service
7:30 PM

3/17
SERIVCES AT 7:00 PM

Here is 
your invitation from 
Rabbi Jay to
join Zoom services:

Monday- Friday
Shacharit Service
8:15 AM
Sunday at 9:00 AM
3/17 PURIM SERVICE


Here is 
your invitation from 
Rabbi Jay to
join Zoom services:
UKRAINE UPDATE
There are 200,000 Jews living in Ukraine today – over 40,000 are elderly and living on limited means. Many more are at risk today. Our partners are working around the clock to ensure uninterrupted humanitarian aid including food, medicine, winter relief, and emergency assistance for the most vulnerable.  Your contribution will go to work right away helping those affected by this crisis.  
 
Thank you for letting them know they are not alone and making a difference!

"Kol Nashim": A Woman’s Look at Torah and Tefillah
An Exciting WAX Series

Led by dynamic Jewish educators, together we will study Torah and Tefillah from a woman’s point of view. Our faculty includes: Cantor Sara Geller, Dr. Deborah Miller, Dana Newborn, Sheri Jay and Marlene Herman



FRIDAY APRIL 1st at 10:00 AM on ZOOM

Celebrating Rosh Chodesh with Music, Crafts and Blessings
with Marlene Herman
WAX Event 4/3/22
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Please join the WAX of the JCC of LBI as Joanne Babbitt teaches us how
to bake her unforgettable Mandelbrot/Kamish Bread. 
Joanne baked these for us prior to Covid and people raved about them. So with the holiday approaching, please gather the ingredients below and join us on Sunday, April 3rd at 1:00 PM as Joanne teaches us how to bake her unforgettable Kamish Bread

THIS WEEK'S ACTIVITIES


MONDAY 3/21
10:00 AM
Hartman Institute Seminar
"Foundations for a Thoughtful Judaism"
with Rabbi Jay

WEDNESDAY 3/23
following Ma'ariv
7:45 PM
Studying the weekly portions
with Rabbi Jay based on the book
"Judaism’s Life-Changing Ideas"
by Rabbi Jonathan Sacks

THURSDAY 3/24
11:00 AM Torah Study with the Rabbi
2:00 PM Beginning Hebrew with Ira
7:45 following Ma'ariv following Ma'ariv
Discussion of "Never Alone" by Natan Sharansky
led by Ted Leventhal


HERE ARE THE LINKS :

SCHEDULE OF EVENTS

Thursday, 3/24
BOOK DISCUSSION
"Never Alone" by Natan Sharansky
led by Ted Leventhal
7:45 PM

Wednesday 3/30 following Ma'ariv
7:45 PM
Studying the weekly portions
with Rabbi Jay based on the book
"Judaism’s Life-Changing Ideas"
by Rabbi Jonathan Sacks

THURSDAY 3/10
11:00 AM Torah Study with the Rabbi

WAX BOOK REVIEW
4:00 PM


Thursday, 3/31
INTERVIEW WITH THE AUTHOR
Jonathan Stone
"Prison Minyan"
7:45 PM

SCHEDULE OF EVENTS

Friday, 4/1
KOL NASHIM
Celebratig Rosh Chodesh
with
Marlene Herman
10:00 AM

Friday 4/1
SHABBAT DINNER
6:00 PM

Sunday 4/3
MAKE MANDEL BREAD
with Joanne Babbitt
1:00 PM

Saturday 4/16
COMMUNITY SEDER
6:00 PM
JCC WOMENS AUXILIARY: BOOK GROUP DISCUSSION
 WEDNESDAYS AT 4:00 PM

MARCH BOOK SELECTION

Wednesday, March 30th at 4:00 pm NOTE NEW DATE
Discussion Leader: Rose Valentine
"The Forest of Vanishing Stars" by Kristin Harmel

An evocative coming-of-age World War II story about a young woman who uses her knowledge of the wilderness to help Jewish refugees escape the Nazis—until a secret from her past threatens everything.


Future books

Wednesday, May 11th at 4:00 pm NOTE NEW DATE
Discussion Leader: Nora Hochman
"Hotel Moscow" by Talia Carner

Wednesday, June 15 at 4:00 PM
Cilka's Journey by Heather Morris
Discussion Leader TBA
MARCH BOOK DISCUSSIONS
"Never Alone"'Prison, Politics, and My People
A Book by Gil Troy and Natan Sharansky

Thursday, March 24, 2022
7:45 PM
Discussion led by
Ted Leventhal

'Susan & Friends 2022: The Men Speak Out”

Thursday, March 31, 2022
7:45 PM
Author: Jonathan Stone
Title: The Prison Minyan
Discussion led by
Rabbi Michael Jay


UPCOMING ZOOM PROGRAMS
with PARTNERS IN JEWISH PROGRAMMING
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CLICK ON EACH EVENT FOR
DETAILED FLYER







Click on the above program for more information and for reservations

Links will be sent out prior to each program
and are free to members of the JCC of LBI
Non-members $18.00

Many thanks to the JCC programming committee for
bringing such wonderful
programs to our community
David Shatz
Jill Denker
Paul Levine
Diane Hoffman
Irene Babst (flyers and sign-up)

CHAVERAH VISIT TO THE GROUNDS FOR SCULPTURE
HAMILTON, NJ
Chaverah
Date: Sunday, May 15, 2022
Rain Date: Sunday May 22, 2022
Mode of transportation: Car pool
Ticket Prices: $15.00 Senior rate
                        $18.00 Group rate
$10.00 Students
Tickets will be ordered 2 weeks prior to the event
Arrival time: 11:00 AM
Lunch: Rat’s Café 1:00 PM - Order from menu

This is the tentative plan, thought this would be a wonderful opportunity to be outside and enjoy the weather with our friends who we have all missed so much over the past 2 years.

So, who’s on board, again, this plan is tentative but we need to begin.
Please Click on this link, if you are interested in attending.
Questions: Irene Babst 856 904-5145 or JCCofLBIChaverah@gmail.com
Also in stock - Mezuzah Scrolls
The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening

Joseph Dicicco Jr.
Margot Lippmann
Arthur E. Weinstein
Rhoda Herman*
Harry Sisenwine
Barbara Abramson
Maidie Kaplon
Abraham Pervin*
Paul Watling
 
*Memorial plaque will be lit this week.

In this Zoom era, we have been able to have a daily minyan at 8:15 AM and at 7:30 PM and on Shabbat. We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral, going up to the grave of the departed, Yizkor remembrance day and other occasions on which the memory of the dead is recalled. You are also welcome to share with the minyan some special memories of your loved one.

SPEEDY RECOVER
TO
Suzie Geier
Rona Stein
Phil Rosenzweig

Cake
Richard Davis
March 19
Stephanie Levey
March 19
Steward Fisher
March 20
Mark Rosenthal
March 20
Renee Ward
March 20
Linda Chakrin
March 22
Philip Stern
March 22
Diane Hoffman
March 23
David Forsted
March 24
Karen Fink
March 25
Jon Geier
March 25
 
Brian & Sara Jane Harris
March 19
27th Anniversary
Bob & Paula Lieber
March 24
38th Anniversary

SHARE YOUR NEWS
AND PICTURES
CONTACT: 

Caring
CARING COMMITTEE
  This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.
Please contact Chairperson,
Debby Schweighardt
if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member
that needs our help.
973-634-5349 


GIVING OPPORTUNITIES

PAVERS
Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building
8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"

SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:
Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.
Purchase a personalized paving stone
in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.

Please contact Diane Hoffman
with your order or with any questions:


PRAYER BOOKS
There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.
See Order form here: Prayer Book


TRIBUTES
SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF
See order form here: TRIBUTES


TREE OF LIFE
Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE
Bronze Leaf $90
Silver Leaf $126
Gold :Leaf $180


ENDOWMENT FUND

Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.

Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.

A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.
 
Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 


YAHRZEIT PLAQUES
Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 
Here is the order form: 


KOL HAKAVOD

Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD

2022 MEMBERSHIP FORMS

Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.
Here is form for renewal:

And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:

To pay on line
Click on PAY ON LINE
Fill in your information and then
go to Donation Details - then
Other and type in 2022 Membership

JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
JCC INFORMATION

THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT
2411 Long Beach Boulevard (24th Street)
Spray Beach, NJ 08008
Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550
web site: www.jccoflbi.org  
  
THE OFFICE IS OPEN
TUESDAY AND THURSDAY
FROM 10 - 2
CONTINUE TO USE THE PHONE OR EMAIL WITH REQUESTS.
OUR OFFICE STAFF WILL BE CHECKING IN REGULARLY.


 Staff:
 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager
  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member
Kitchen Manager: Susan Berube


LATEST
BULLETIN:

PRAYER BOOK:
 
WEB SITE:

PAVERS:

TREE OF LIFE
  
YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

TRIBUTES:


CONTACT INFORMATION:
  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

Michael Babst, President

 
E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 
rvalen1963@aol.com 
Graphics by
Irene Babst