Parish Weekly November 6, 2026


Mission: St. Thomas' Episcopal Church is a welcoming spiritual community dedicated to following the teachings of Christ Jesus. We grow through learning, celebrate joyful worship, and serve our neighbors.


Vision: We open hearts and minds to create community in Christ.

Rector's Notes

Dear St. Thomas' Beloved,


Please join me this Sunday, November 8,

for worship, then stay for our special all-parish forum, "Beyond the Headlines: How Current

Laws & Policies Affect Transgender and Non-

binary People and Those Who Support Them,"

led by Dr. Emma Forbes-Jones. This is an opportunity to learn, to ask questions, to engage

in thoughtful conversation about things you didn't know you needed to know. Please come with an open and curious heart and mind.


Dr. Emma is a well-respected clinical psychologist licensed in New York State. I have had the delight of learning from her for years and the privilege of working alongside her on the Rochester Transgender Coalition. It is an honor to have Dr. Emma with us this Sunday. I hope you can join us. 


Faithfully, 


Amma Leslie+

Mark Your Calendars

  • A Service of Secularization of a Building at St. Stephen's Episcopal Church, Sunday, November 8, 3:00 pm, 350 Chili Avenue, Rochester
  • Veterans Day, Wednesday, November 11, Parish Office Closed
  • Women of St. Thomas' Meeting, Thursday, November 19, 11:30 am, Choir Room (see below)

Vestry News

2027 Nominations Now Open

Have you ever wondered how decisions that help our parish function smoothly are made? If you are interested in learning about our parish operations and want to make

a meaningful impact, consider joining St. Thomas’ Vestry. This dedicated and active group works collaboratively with the wardens and clergy to oversee St. Thomas' vision and mission. Vestry members serve three-year terms, meet monthly, rotate as the “Vestry Person of the Day” at the 10:00 am worship service, respond to parishioner questions, and more.


Who can be nominated for Vestry?

  • Baptized members at least 18 years of age
  • Members who have not served on the Vestry for the most recent term (3 years)
  • Members in good standing, as determined by the Rector, and who attend services regularly; contribute time, talent, and treasure (pledge)
  • Are effective role models (see page 409, Book of Common Prayer)

Please submit nominations by Monday, November 23, 2026. For more information about Vestry duties, visit the website, contact Jane Andrews, Warden, at jane@andrews.me,

or speak with any Vestry member.

Children & Youth Ministries

Ten Bridesmaids

This week in Sunday School,

we will read the Ten Bridesmaids parable found in Matthew 25:1-13.

In this parable, Jesus teaches a lesson about preparedness and patience. All the bridesmaids are

all ready for the bridegroom’s arrival, but some did not expect to wait so long. When we must wait for things to happen in our lives, it can be hard to be patient. It can also be hard to remember that while we are waiting for something, we still have other things to give. We can still share the light God has given us while we wait for God in other ways; and when we are patient with each other, we reflect God’s light. This lesson will focus on how we can be light for each other. Please direct any questions to Rev. Lydia at lydia@stthomasrochester.org.

Youth Group

The Youth Group will meet on the first and third Sunday of each month. All are welcome. Please direct any questions or concerns to Rev. Lydia at lydia@stthomasrochester.org or Paula Gitlin at paula@stthomasrochester.org.

Stewardship

2027 Pledge Campaign Update

Contribute your gifts and resources to sustain and grow our parish and community partnerships. To date, St. Thomas' has collected $270,306 in pledges, almost three-quarters of the way to our goal of $390,000.


If your pledge card hasn't arrived in the mail, you can now pledge and pay online

by using the links below. We appreciate your continued support!


During the first week of November 2026, parishioners will receive their 2027 pledge statements in the mail. The 2026 annual comprehensive giving statements will follow

in an additional mailing scheduled for mid-January 2027. Direct questions and concerns

to Jaime Berthold, Finance and Office Manager, at finance@stthomasrochester.org

or 585.442.3544, extension 102.

Liturgical Ministry


2027 Altar Flowers Sign-Up Now Open

Whether you have a special occasion or celebration, or you wish to honor a loved one, consider sponsoring flowers for one of next year's weekly worship services.


Altar flower sponsors can choose to have our Watchcare ministry deliver them to a home-bound parishioner or someone who needs floral cheer, or can take them home after the service. Signing up is easy and fast! Call the Parish Office at 585.442.3544 or use the link below. For more details, contact Vicky Rupley at vrupley@gmail.com or 585.233.2546.

Note: 2026 Altar Flower donations are full, and the 2026 sign-up page link is no longer active.

Fellowship Ministry


Women of St. Thomas’ November Meeting

At the next Women of St. Thomas’ meeting

on Thursday, November 19, organist and

choir director Rhonda Wright will play our favorite hymns on the piano. The program

will begin at 11:30 am in the Choir Room

(down the hall from the Lounge), followed

by lunch. Attendees are encouraged to bring their own sandwich, salad, or soup. Beverages, chips, and dessert will be provided. We hope you will join us. Contact Linda Coleman at 585.313.3164 for more information.

Property Commission

Community Engagement

Attitude of Gratitude



A huge thank you to the St. Thomas' Choir for a beautiful offering of movements from Mozart's Missa solemnis (K. 337)! It was moving and a perfect addition to our All Saints' Day celebration! A special thank you to Rhonda Wright for her leadership and ministry among us. 

If you have thanksgivings to share, please email Amy Holowczenko, Communications

& Reception, at communications@stthomasrochester.org. 

In Case You Missed It





Wegmans East Avenue Grocery Run

The Youth Group will be participating in this year’s Wegmans East Avenue Grocery Run on Saturday, November 7. Please consider joining the team or supporting them by donating using the QR codes on the flyer. All donations will benefit St. Mark’s and St. John’s Episcopal Church and House of Mercy feeding ministries.

Get Ready

for Sunday

Read the Revised Common Lectionary

for the Twenty-Fourth Sunday After Pentecost

Parish Weekly Deadline

The deadline for submitting articles for

the Parish Weekly is Tuesday at 9:00 am. Unless noted, the newsletter is published

on Fridays at 10:00 am. Please send
articles directly
to Amy Holowczenko at communications@stthomasrochester.org.

 

At Home Resources

Sunday Live Stream Service at 10:00 am is available on St. Thomas' YouTube channel—St. Thomas Episcopal Church of Rochester, NY. The live stream can

be viewed any time after 10:00 am throughout the week. 

Emergency Contacts

Brighton Food Cupboard

(585) 271-5355


Centers for Disease Control

cdc.gov


Episcopal Relief

& Development

(faith-based response

to epidemics)

bit.ly/2VMcNuu


Interpersonal

Violence Hotline

(for physical and mental related to interpersonal violence and trauma)

(585) 275-HEAL

Monroe County Department of Health

monroecounty.gov/health-coronavirus


National Child

Abuse Hotline

(800) 342-3720


National Suicide Prevention

988


New York State Mental

Health Provider Hotline

(844) 863-9314

NYS Office of

Addiction Services https://oasas.ny.gov/ 


Rochester AA Support

(585) 232-6720


Willow Domestic
Violence Center

(585) 222-SAFE


The Trevor Project

(for LGBTQ youth, 13-14)

1 (866) 488-7386

The Pandemic of Racism

St. Thomas’ Episcopal Church of Rochester, New York, is proud

to stand with the Greater Rochester Black Agenda Group and its declaration that “Racism is a Public Health Crisis." As a community

of faith and followers of Jesus Christ, we believe that every person

is continually made in the image of God beautifully and wonderfully.

We are committed to doing the hard work of love. We are dedicated

to the practice of growing and learning how to know and love our neighbors as we seek to create community. We hold the hope that

love does win through forgiveness, kindness, and transformation.

We desire to be a people who work for the equity of all. We work to acknowledge our complicity

and part in racism, and we are committed to working together to tackle injustice in our lives, in our church, in our community, and in the world.

Useful Links

Pay Your 2026 Pledges

2026 Online Pledge Card

2027 Altar Flower Request

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