Hermaden Institute
Mid-July 2021 Newsletter
Contents

Upcoming Events
Writings from Hermaden:
-- Release the Old, Welcome the New
-- Affirmations as Pivots
Zoom Workshops: Conversations with Hermaden
(three time zones listed -- pick yours!)
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Sunday, July 18th -- TODAY!
5 p.m. Pacific; 7 p.m. Central; 8 p.m. Eastern

Wednesday, August 4th
4 p.m. Pacific; 6 p.m. Central; 7 p.m. Eastern

Sunday, August 15th
5 p.m. Pacific; 7 p.m. Central; 8 p.m. Eastern

The Zoom workshops run about 1 1/4 hours with Hermaden. Attend as many or as few as you like. They are the usual question and answer format with Hermaden. It's fun to see like-minded people gather from different cities. Hope you can join us!

Chicago Area In-Person Workshop:
Conversations with Hermaden

Sunday, August 1st from 6 p.m. to 8 p.m.
800 N. Main St. Glen Ellyn, Illinois
We are gradually starting up in-person workshops. Masks are not required if you're vaccinated. Chairs will be spaced a little further apart than usual. No R.S.V.P. required -- just come! There is a suggested donation of $20, but pay what you can.


Zoom: Spiritual Perspectives on Death, Dying and Grief

So many people are dealing with issues of death, dying, and grief right now. Come with your questions specifically about these topics. The intention is to provide understanding, and help you move forward from where you are to where you want to be. It doesn't matter if you are dealing with a recent loss, one long ago, an anticipated transition, or if you simply want to understand death more. Death is part of our natural expansion. Understanding it from a spiritual perspective can only be beneficial and help to serve us.

Monday, August 9th
5 p.m. Pacific; 7 p.m. Central; 8 p.m. Eastern

General Workshop Information

Times for all workshops are given in Central, Eastern and Pacific times. There are a variety of days/times so you can find one that fits your schedule. The link to access a workshop is below that day/time. Just click when you're ready to join us!

There is a suggested donation of $10 - $20 per workshop. You can pay through PayPal or Zelle (kghall@att.net), or Venmo (@GraehmeHall), or mail a check. If you are experiencing financial challenges and can't contribute, attend for free. Please don't stay away because of cost. If you want to be there, be there! That's much more important.

If a link doesn't work, you will always find the links posted on the Hermaden website Calendar of Events. Questions? Email kghall@hermaden.com or call 630-746-9843. If these workshop times don't fit your schedule, feel free to email your suggestions.

From Hermaden:
Release the Old, Welcome the New
When there is something new you want to welcome to your life, it can be helpful to release the previous experience to make way for the new, improved one.

A key to doing this is to practice gratitude for what was (or is), then welcome the new.

For instance, let’s say you want a new relationship in your life, but you keep dwelling on what went wrong in your last relationship.

It’s important to practice gratitude for that relationship. To bless it. Thank it for being there. Thank it for the clarity it gave you about what you want, and the spiritual expansion it provided. Then let it go.

If you want to sell your current home, but you are focusing on its faults, it will be harder to find someone to appreciate it. Bless the home with love; remember good times you enjoyed in it. Thank it for being there for you. Then release it to be a wonderful new home for someone else. You are simply at a different point in your life now.

Likewise, if you are having trouble finding a new home that represents what you want, it could be that you keep focusing on what you don’t like about your old home. That focus keeps you tied to it energetically. Allow yourself to release the old home and welcome a new one.

Divine timing can play a role. Maybe your perfect new home isn’t quite ready yet. But it will be on the market soon. Maybe your next lover isn’t quite free yet. Or that dream job isn’t in place yet. But it’s on the way.

It’s usually beneficial not to say goodbye to a current job or car until you have the new one lined up. But you can appreciate it and thank it for what it has brought you.

Opening to the new can be affirmed with physical action. For instance, you can stand up, spread your arms wide, and welcome into your life what you are asking for.

You can make space in your home for the new partner – make room in your closet or dresser or bathroom.

As you’re getting ready to find your next home, you can start clearing out things you don’t want to move.

You can clean out your garage so your new car will have a shiny place to be. Or visualize where you will park the new vehicle in your apartment building’s lot.

Appreciate it. It’s helped get you to where you are now. And it has helped you gain clarity and ask for more.

Be grateful for it. Then bless it and let it go.

There are symbolic acts you can take of release. Like writing something down on paper – then shredding it or burning it. Writing on a leaf and then releasing the leaf to the wind, or down a stream. Some people find these acts very meaningful, helping them to get ready for a new chapter.

Just because you have outgrown something, or someone, doesn’t mean it won’t have value to another.

Bless it for all it has brought you. Realize that you deserve to enjoy what you’re asking for. Love it and let it go, just as you love yourself and welcome the new into your life. Have fun with the change, and celebrate starting the next great chapter.
From Hermaden:
Affirmations as Pivots
Many of you are familiar with the tool of affirmations: making a positive statement about something you desire, and wording it in the present tense as if it is already true.

Examples:

I am enjoying great prosperity.
My life is wonderful and fulfilling.
I have the relationship of my dreams and we are so happy together.
My body is healthy, vital, vibrant and energized.

But sometimes, when you are not enjoying something you want, you can create affirmations to help you on the journey toward what you desire. Affirmations can help you pivot from where you are now toward where you want to be.

Affirmations don’t always reflect the final destination you desire on a subject. Sometimes, affirmations can be vibrational stepping stones. For instance, if you are experiencing a lack of something, you might want to move to having enough, then having more than enough, then experiencing abundant flow.

While recognizing the statement of affirmation as something you desire, it is important that the words do not trigger a vibration of lack, or absence, of what you want in the present moment. While the statement may seem aspirational, it is important to feel the vibrational truth of it as you affirm it.

For instance, if you are feeling lack of health, you might want to start with:

I am making progress on my journey toward experiencing great health in my body.
I am feeling better with every passing day.
I am thankful for this amazing body that serves me so well.
I am excited to come back into alignment with well-being.

The affirmations may change as you move further along your path…as you make progress in reaching your new frequency.

Affirmations can also help you to change your beliefs. For instance, if you grew up in a family that taught you a certain belief you no longer want to practice, then you can create an affirmation about what you now choose to believe.

Maybe your family believed that rich people can’t be trusted. Thus, the implication is that it’s not good to be rich. And perhaps you adopted that belief, and today have issues with prosperity.

You can create an affirmation that reflects what you choose to believe today. Ask yourself what you want to believe – what belief you choose to practice now.

Just remember that you want to tip the scale with the amount of attention you give your affirmed belief. For instance, if you practice thoughts of shortage 50 times a day – and only say your affirmation 3 times -- then the frequency of shortage is still dominant. So you want to intentionally practice your new belief.

You want your thoughts to be much more on the frequency of what you want, and significantly less on what you don’t want. The new affirmation represents a new frequency, and is like a mental (and vibrational) muscle you need to develop.

You may want to write the affirmation down multiple places to see it and repeat it. You may want to put it on the mirror and say it to yourself, looking into your eyes.

You may want to record it on your phone. Or make it into a song to sing. Or set your alarm multiple times during the day to remind you to practice your affirmation.

You may want to create an association with the affirmation. For instance, “Every time I see a bird today, I am going to practice my affirmation.” (And then watch the universe bring you a multitude of birds!)

What you experience in your life is a reflection of what you believe and where you direct your attention.

When you’re not where you want to be with an aspect of your life, you have the power to pivot and start focusing on what you desire. You are a powerful creator. Start living more and more of the joyful, satisfying life you came to enjoy.
Note from Graehme
Hello! Wanted to let you know what the plan is for meetings this fall.

We are going to continue meeting on Zoom. But we are also going to gradually start adding in-person meetings again. The first one will be in Glen Ellyn, Illinois on Sunday, August 1st. We will meet in Indianapolis in September/October at the Hermitage. The venue in Grand Rapids is still not open to public meetings, so I am exploring alternative locations while we wait to see when they will re-open. I am asking people to please wear masks if you are not vaccinated. Chairs will be spaced further apart than usual.

Right now, I am intending that we will stay "blended" in the future, combining both in-person meetings with Zoom meetings. While I have missed seeing all of you in person, it's also been wonderful to see people coming together from different locations online -- law of attraction visibly at work! I won't miss winter driving (-- yes, it's coming!). Or asking people to leave the comfort of their homes on icy days. So we (Hermaden and I) will continue to offer both formats.

Despite the new variant (with more to come), the world is re-opening. Of course, are hearts have always been open -- and remain so. We will continue to enjoy our new online community as we integrate in-person meetings.

Our "new normal" is going to be a "new, better!"

With much love and appreciation, always ---

Graehme
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Telephone Consultations

Want to talk with Hermaden privately? Telephone or Zoom appointments with Hermaden are always available. Visit the website for more information under Consultations.

Appointments are usually a half hour or an hour – longer appointments are also available. You can even set up consultations at regular intervals, such as weekly, bi-weekly or monthly. (There is a discount when 4 or more hour-long appointments are prepaid.) Gift certificates are available.

You are encouraged to prepare a list of questions and topics in advance of the appointment, to make the most effective use of the time. You can also focus on spiritual development, business development, or on developing a particular skill, such as your intuition or communicating with non-physical.

Just email Graehme at kghall@hermaden.com or call/text 630-746-9843 to set up an appointment or learn more.
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Book titles include:


Odysseys of Love: Death, Dementia and the Soul: A Journey into Understanding

New Attitude, New Job: Tools to Inspire Self-Esteem, Resilience, Success

Journals:

I Am! A Journal of Celebration (a great gift even for your pessimistic friends!)

A Journal for the Graduate: The Power of You! 50 Keys to a Successful Future

Book for young adults from Auntie Gracie (a.k.a. Auntie Graehme):

The Game of Sex, a book for young adults using the analogy of gaming to better understand the dynamics of sexual relationships, is intended to provide a safe place for young adults without much sexual experience to explore this aspect of relationships -- and themselves.