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“Just Thinking"


I read a short “this day in history” piece yesterday that got me thinking about an impactful time in my life that I didn’t fully understand at the time, and how it looks so different with a few decades of perspective. It struck me even more because on Tuesday the 11th we observed Veterans Day, a reminder of all of the brave men and women that have served our country so bravely.


On November 13, 1982, the Vietnam Veterans Memorial was dedicated in Washington, D.C. Thousands of veterans marched to the site that day, gathering before the now-iconic V-shaped black granite wall. Etched into the polished stone are the names of 57,939 Americans who lost their lives in the Vietnam War, the names are not listed by rank or status, but in the order in which they fell. It’s a simple design, yet one of the most powerful memorials our country has ever created.


Growing up in San Francisco during the Vietnam era, I remember being surrounded by mixed messages about the war in Southeast Asia. At that time, I was young and didn’t grasp the politics behind it all, my memories were fragments: quick flashes of soldiers on the nightly news and the crowds of long-haired kids marching through the streets of the Haight -Ashbury; protesting at SF State and UC Berkeley. News of young men burning their draft cards preparing to flee to Canada and young women burning the bras (nothing to do with Vietnam, but it made an impression on my young mind) it was a strange and confusing time.


Now, all these years later, I can look back on that era with an understanding of what it truly meant. So many young Americans with their families standing behind them, sacrificed more than I can ever comprehend. When their country called, they answered, regardless of the politics, the protests, or the public opinion.


Yet when these young men and women returned home, they were not met with the respect or gratitude that they deserved. And the Gold Star families, who lost so much, often received far less acknowledgment than they had earned.


This is why the Vietnam Veterans Memorial matters so much. It stands as a long-overdue tribute to our fallen heroes, a place where their names, their service, and their sacrifice are honored with the dignity that they deserved and should have received from the start.


Somebody asked me the other day why we celebrate Veterans Day on a Tuesday, schools, banks and the Post Office are closed for one day in the middle of the week. I didn’t know, so I looked it up and was surprised to learn that it wasn’t celebrated on a Tuesday, but rather on November 11th. As it turns out at 11:00 on the 11th of November 1918 the Allied Nations and Germany signed an armistice (a temporary cease fire) which would eventually lead to the end of World War 1. In 1919, President Wilson proclaimed November 11th as Armistice Day, a day dedicated to peace and to honoring the veterans of World War I.


Armistice Day stood until 1954, after pressure from veterans’ groups across the country, Congress passed, and President Eisenhower signed a bill officially changing the name from Armistice Day to Veterans Day. The purpose shifted from celebrating the end of WWI to honoring all American veterans.


Unlike Memorial Day, which floats on a Monday, Veterans Day keeps its original date because the timing itself is part of the meaning. The 11/11 symbolism is tied directly to the end of WWI.


Have a great Weekend.


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The Typical Home Seller Is Now 64—And They’re Staying Put Longer Than Ever

The average home seller in 2025 is not a young family trading up for more space. 

According to NAR’s 2025 Profile of Home Buyers and Sellers, the typical seller is now 64 years old and has owned their home for a median of 11 years, both the highest figures on record. In 2005, the average seller was just 47.


Data from NAR’s report shows the same trend in home buyers: the typical first-time buyer age is up to a record 40 years, while the age of home buyers as a whole reached a record 59. The typical repeat buyer is now 62, also an all-time high. 


This shift matters. When sellers are older and holding onto their homes longer, inventory stays tight, buyer competition rises, and agents have to adjust their approach. 


Today’s sellers aren’t rushing to cash out. They’re making moves driven by family, lifestyle, and life stage rather than financial opportunity. 


The Aging Seller: From 47 to 64 in Just Two Decades


Homeownership has aged dramatically over the past 20 years, and it’s changing who controls the market. 


The share of married couples selling their homes dipped slightly, while single female sellers increased. Most sellers no longer have children living at home, and they tend to be financially stable and demographically consistent.


Here’s what the data shows:

  • Typical seller age: 64 years, up from 63 last year and 47 in 2005
  • 68% were married couples (down from 69%)
  • 20% were single females (up from last year)
  • 81% had no children under 18 at home, up from 77% last year
  • 90% identified as White/Caucasian, 5% Hispanic/Latino, 3% Black/African American, 2% Asian/Pacific Islander
  • 98% of households spoke English as their primary language
  • Median household income: $112,400 (down slightly from $112,500 in 2023)


The data for 2025 points to a more mature, equity-rich seller pool with established expectations. These clients are confident, often financially comfortable, and motivated by lifestyle rather than urgency.


Staying Put Longer Than Ever


The median tenure for sellers hit an all-time high of 11 years, up from 10 years last year and nearly double the six-year median from 2000 to 2008. That means fewer homes hitting the market each year and tighter inventory across most price points.


Key data points:

  • Median tenure: 11 years (record high)
  • Last year’s median: 10 years
  • 2000–2008 average tenure: 6 years
  • 96% of sellers were able to sell when they wanted to
  • 6% delayed selling within the last five y

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Friday, November 21st: Pink Friday Downtown

From 5-9pm there will be so much to do downtown! Activities include an Outdoor Evening Holiday Market, Sip N Shop, Candy Cane Lane on Main Street, live entertainment, Toys for Tots, and the annual Christmas tree lighting in Downtown. This is a great community gathering to kick off the warmth and joy of the holiday season, and a perfect chance to get a jump on your gift-giving plans both at the Market and the downtown businesses, before the rush and events of December!

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