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May 1, 2026

Mòrar's Musings

May 1, 2026

In these last weeks of our time together, I am sharing some resources that have been helpful to me and the churches I’ve served that I pray may be helpful in this next stage of your journey.


Today I’d like to encourage you to embrace failure!


Valuing failure is a way of moving forward even while being tentative and cautious about what change will really mean in people’s lives. Encourage others and yourself to experiment, knowing that failure is an acceptable and necessary option in the process of positive change.


As a church, you are experienced and your leaders are proficient in taking actions based on the best thinking at the time. In the pandemic, leaders decided what to do on Monday, changed the plan on Wednesday and may have changed it again on Saturday night. "Pivot" became a familiar word. Even though it was a time full of fear, the church found ways of worshipping and providing pastoral care. Fear didn’t stop you.


During that time, you created a culture where it was safe to fail. I attended a Black church in Chicago where people were verbal in their responses to the sermon: “Amen!” “Right on!” These were heard frequently. But so was, “Back it up and try it again, Jim!” when the preacher’s point didn’t get across.


You took an action based on the best thinking at the time and it did not lead to the desired outcome. So learn and try again. Failure is an event, not who you are.

 

In the face of failure, ask yourself:

  • What did you do or fail to do that didn’t work?
  • What could you do differently?


Failure is not a life sentence; it’s not final or permanent.



Failing is part of the experiment. Learn to recognize early what isn’t working. "Fail forward faster" to increase the impact of your work. 


Do you know how people are swept away by avalanches? 

The longer people commit to a bad decision, the harder it is to turn back. 


Don’t be afraid to stop doing something and try something else. Will doing more of what doesn’t work ever work?


Blessings,

Mòrar

Upcoming Week



Sunday, May 3

10:00 a.m. - Online and in-person worship led by Worship Committee (no Communion)

Monday, May 4

 

Tuesday, May 5


Wednesday, May 6


Thursday, May 7

4:00 p.m. - Chancel Choir Practice


Friday, May 8


Saturday, May 9

Upcoming Events & Announcements

Bunch for Lunch

On Sunday, May 31, you are invited to join in a time of fellowship following service.


We will meet at 11:45 a.m. at the Sunbeam Grill restaurant (2501 Hampshire Gate, Unit 3A, Oakville – South side of Dundas just west of Winston Churchill Blvd.) Separate cheques.


Please let us know you are coming so we can advise the restaurant of numbers. You can sign up on the signup sheet posted on the bulletin board at the back of the church. Alternatively, let Tina in the office know, so she can add you to the list.


Submitted by Larry van Goozen

Lgoozen@gmail.com

Ian MacRae Bursary

Once again, the Ian MacRae selection committee is accepting applications for the Ian MacRae Bursary. This bursary is offered annually to deserving young people applying for college or university for the first time. Preference is given to those who live in the Erin Mills United Church catchment area (L5L 4X9), although those with a former connection to Erin Mills United church may be considered.


The amount awarded annually is dependant on the interest earned on the gift made by Ian’s employer and his family. Normally, we can grant award(s) of not less than $300 to each successful applicant.


Applications are available on the Visitors’ table at the back of the church. Please take one if you know anyone who would meet the criteria. Applications will also be available either online or when the office is open.


The deadline for submission is 4:00 p.m., Friday, May 29, 2026.


Submitted by: Debby Sturgeon

sturgs4@rogers.com

EMUC Spring Fling Update

We are a little over three weeks away from our Spring Fling Market on Saturday, May 23 and plans are going well, with close to 20 vendors who have rented a table.


Please think about how you wish to support this event. We are looking for bakers, books, plants and, as always, volunteers on the 23rd and before to deliver flyers. Stay tuned for more detailed information on how you can help.


Submitted by Your Spring Fling Planning Team:

Marilyn French, Lorraine Moore and Cathy Kiteley

Deacon's Cupboard Donation Suggestions

Thank you for the tremendous response to our request for food items. Your support has helped us stock our shelves each week. In May, we are asking EMUC to donate canned fruit. Of course, we will also accept other food items. Your support enables us to share God’s bounty. 


Submitted by the EMUC Deacon's Cupboard Team

From the Affirming Committee:

West End Affirm is a group of 7 affirming United Church congregations, located in the west end of Toronto and east end of Mississauga, committed to working together to plan and host events that challenge, create dialogue and educate our church congregations. The churches include Applewood, Humbercrest, Humber Valley, Islington, Kingsway Lambton, Royal York Road and Runnymede.


In May this group is hosting a Film Festival which includes the following movie:

 

                                    Small Town Pride

 

The events are free but we ask that you register through the following link:

 

https://www.eventbrite.ca/o/west-end-affirm-120637657448

 

You will find a poster with more information as to dates and locations on the bulletin board.

Save the Date! Mark Your Calendar!

  • Sun., May 10 - Congregational meeting following the service
  • Sat., May 23, 10:00 a.m. - 2:00 p.m. - EMUC's Spring Fling

Community Events

  • Sat., May 9, 9:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Lawn Sale at Christ First UC
  • Sat., May 9, 8:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m. Garage Sale at St. Stephen's on-the-Hill; see flyer below
  • Sat., May 9, 9:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m. Garage Sale at Erindale UC; click here for information
  • Fri., May 15 & Sun., May 17 - Brampton Honey Badgers basketball home openers; click here for information & discount tickets offer
  • Sat., May 16, 5:00 - 11:00 p.m. - Caribbean Night at St. Thomas à Becket; see poster below

Scent-Free Environment

Erin Mills United Church is a scent-free space. Some people have allergies or chemical sensitivities. To ensure that everyone can worship comfortably, we ask that you help us maintain a scent-free environment. Please avoid wearing scented products when attending service or events. Thank you!

                                                                                                

Tina's Office Hours are as follows:

Monday to Friday, 9:30 a.m. to 4:00 p.m. Tina will be working from home on Mondays (all day). She takes a half hour lunch break sometime between 12:30 and 1:30 p.m.


Rev. Mòrar plans to be in the office on Tuesdays with exceptions as needed. Please arrange in advance to meet with her by emailing office@emuc.ca and indicating "Message for the Minister" in the subject line.


For guaranteed access to the church, call or email, to arrange a time in advance. Email (office@emuc.ca) or call (905-820-9466 x23).


For Pastoral Care Emergencies call 905-820-9466 x23 or email pastoralcare@emuc.ca

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