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JEWISH COMMUNITY
CENTER OF
LONG BEACH ISLAND
E-LETTER
September 12, 2025
19 Elul 5785
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At the Hand of Terror: A 9/11 Memorial Prayer
by Alden Solovy
Creator of all,
Source and shelter,
Grant a perfect rest under your tabernacle of peace
To those who died in the 9/11 attacks on the United States.
Remember the works of their hands
And the message of their hearts.
Grant their families peace and comfort for Your name’s sake
And for the sake of those who perished.
Bring an end to violence and terror,
Speedily, in our days.
May their memories be sanctified with joy and love.
May their souls be bound up in the bond of life,
A living blessing in our midst.
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A MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI
The word “Shema” (“hear”) is not only found in the Shema prayer that we all know and say. Indeed, in one form or another, it shows up some 92 times in the Book of Deuteronomy. It shows up a few times in Parashat Kit Tavo. At 27:9-10 it says:
“Be silent, Israel, and listen! You have now become the people of the Lord your God. Listen to the Lord your God and follow His commands and decrees that I give you today.”
At 28:1 it says:
Now, if you Listen intently to your God יהוה, to observe faithfully all the divine commandments which I enjoin upon you this day, your God יהוה will set you high above all the nations of the earth.
The question is raised, why are we told so often to “Shema”, to “hear”, or “listen”, or “hearken”. It is because the Torah is not happy simply telling us to do something. By telling us to “Shema”, the Torah is requiring us to “understand” what it is we are being asked (or told) to do. We are not simply to “hear”, we are to “listen”, to comprehend, and to appreciate what is being asked of us.
In this way we become a people of action, but we do not do things just because we are told to do them. There is no blind obedience in our tradition. God does not intend for us to simply perform the commandments. We are required to grapple with them in order to fully appreciate them.
We never “Shema” just for the sake of hearing. On Rosh Hashanah, the blessing for the Shofar is:
בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה ה’ אֱלהֵינוּ מֶלֶךְ הָעולָם אֲשֶׁר קִדְּשָׁנוּ בְּמִצְותָיו וְצִוָּנוּ לִשְׁמועַ קול שׁופָר.
“Blessed are You, Lord our God, Sovereign of the universe, Who has sanctified us with God’s commandments and commanded us to HEAR the sound of the shofar.”
It is not simply about “hearing” the Shofar. It is about hearing it and using its sound to move us to action. We are not passively hearing, we are actively listening to a call to arms:
May the Cry of the shofar shatter our complacency.
May the cry of the shofar penetrate our souls.
May the cry of the shofar break the bonds of all that enslaves us.
May the cry of the shofar destroy the idols we have placed at the forefront of our lives.
May the cry of the shofar awaken us to the things we have done wrong.
May the cry of the shofar summon us to a life of responsibility.
May the cry of the shofar elicit the response, “Here I am.”
May the cry of the shofar remind us that we can change.
May the cry of the shofar penetrate our hearts.
May the cry of the shofar bring blessing to us, the people who hear its call.
(Mahzor Lev Shalem)
Hear! Hear!
Shabbat Shalom – Rabbi Michael S. Jay
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If you, or someone you know, cannot make it to services to hear the Shofar during Elul or Rosh Hashanah, please do not hesitate to contact the Synagogue Office so that either Rabbi Jay or Stu W Lehrer can make arrangements to sound the Shofar for you, or them, personally!
Contact the office here
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Candle Lighting Time
(Southern Ocean County)
Shabbat Eve
Friday, September 12, 2025
6:51 PM
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Friday
September 12, 2024
Shabbat Dinner
6:30 PM
Sponsored by
Joyce & Paul Levine
in honor of their 30th Anniversary
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JOIN US
FOR
SHABBAT
SERVICES
7:30 PM
IN PERSON AND
ON ZOOM
Here is
your invitation from
Rabbi Jay to join Services
on Zoom
FRIDAY NIGHT
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Ina & Ira Morgenthal
Service will include
The Morgenthal's
Renewal of Vows
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Saturday
September 13, 2025
9:00 AM
IN PERSON AND
ON ZOOM
Here is
your invitation from
Rabbi Jay to join
Zoom services
SATURDAY MORNING
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TORAH READING
Parashat Ki Tavo
Deuteronomy 26:1-29:8
Ki Tavo (“When You Come”) opens by describing the ceremony of the first fruit offering (bikkurim) and the declaration made upon the completion of tithing. It concludes with a detailed description of blessings that follow obedience to God's laws and curses that come with their desecration.
Here is the Torah Reading
Kiddish will include a
bikkurim (fruit basket) with traditional Israeli fruits
HAFTORAH
Isaiah 60:1-22
In glowing terms the prophet recounts descriptions of what will unfold during the Redemption. Beginning with the resurrection of the dead and the ingathering of the exiles, continuing with the joy and abundance the Jewish people will then experience, as well as the gifts that will be brought to G‑d from all of the nations of the world.
Here is the Haftorah
WEEKDAY SERVICES
Monday - Thursday
Ma'ariv Service
7:30 PM
Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to
join Zoom services:
MA'ARIV
Monday - Friday
Shacharit Service
8:15 AM
Sunday at 9:00 AM
Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to
join Zoom services:
SHACHARIT
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Selichot (Hebrew for "forgiveness") refers to a series of penitential prayers recited by Jews during the High Holy Day season to ask for God's forgiveness for sins committed. The central focus of these prayers is God's attributes of mercy, known as the "Thirteen Attributes," found in the Book of Exodus. While Sephardic tradition recites these prayers throughout the month of Elul, Ashkenazim begin on the Saturday night before Rosh Hashanah. The purpose of the Selichot services is to encourage spiritual accountability, introspection, and a process of return for a meaningful spiritual transformation.
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Saturday evening, September 13, 2025
8:00 - 10:00 PM
Havdallah
Showing of Episode 4 of "Long Story Short"
Selichot/Changing of the Torah Covers
Special Refreshments
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LONG STORY SHORT
This Saturday evening we will be watching the 4th episode of this highly touted Netflix animated series. The episode is entitled "Shira Can't Cook" and we will see, where to crush the competition at a high-stakes school potluck, Shira tries making knishes — her mother's most difficult recipe.
"I’ve made it no secret that “Long Story Short,” the new animated series from Raphael Bob-Waksberg (the creator of “BoJack Horseman”) about the very Jewish Schwooper family, was perhaps the show I was most looking forward to this year.
And having binged the entire first season — in which the story of these five family members unfolds, moving back and forth through the years and the decades, through the height of the 2020s COVID-19 social distancing and peak ’90s grungy youth, to the loud familial din of 1959 Jewish New York, through bar mitzvahs, proms under the shadows of 9/11, JCC galas and last minute Rosh Hashanah shopping — in record time, I can now say with certainty: It is pure unbridled Jewish magic."
Lior Saltzman "Kveller"
PUFF PASTRY KNISHES
By Shannon Sarna
Piffrush the competition at a high-stakes school potluck, Sh tries making knishes — her mother's most difficult recipe.
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Ingredients
4 sheets puff pastry (1 box)
2 yukon gold potatoes
1/2 tsp salt
1/4 tsp pepper
2 tsp olive oil
1/2 lb ground beef
2-3 Tbsp olive oil
1/2 onion, diced
2 garlic cloves, minced
1 tsp cumin
1 tsp paprika
1 tsp salt
1/2 tsp black pepper
1 egg
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Directions
Pre-heat oven to 375 degrees.
Remove puff pastry from freezer and let sit on counter for 20-30 minutes until it has softened a bit and can easily be unfolded.
Peel potatoes. Boil potatoes in salted water for 20 minutes, or until fork tender. Drain water and mash potatoes using a masher, ricer or heavy fork. Add 1/2 tsp salt, 1/4 tsp pepper and 2 tsp olive oil to potatoes and mix.
In a large saute pan, heat olive oil. Saute onions and garlic until translucent. Add cumin, paprika, salt and pepper. Add meat and brown until cooked through.
Drain excess oil and liquid from meat.
Lightly roll out puff pastry with rolling pin. Cut each puff pastry sheet into 6 squares.
On each square add approximately 1-2 tsp of potato and 1-2 tsp of meat mixture. Fold each corner of the puff pastry square up until they touch. Pinch and twist tips down to form the knish.
Brush with lightly beaten egg. Bake until golden brown, around 25-30 minutes.
Serve with spicy brown mustard.
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ROSH HASHANAH
Erev Rosh Hashanah
Monday, September 22
YOM KIPPUR
Kol Nidre
Wednesday, October 1
We look forward to a special Yom Tov at the JCC of LBI including a traditional Break the Fast following the final shofar blowing.
Here is the link to the registration form if you want to print, fill out and return it by mail.
HIGH HOLIDAY LETTER AND ORDER FORM
Here is the link to make your Holy Day reservations on our website.
CLICK HERE TO REGISTER AND PAY ON LINE
Shana Tova - May it be a good year!
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PREPARING THE SYNAGOGUE FOR THE HOLIDAYS
On Sunday, September 21st we will have in-person morning services beginning at 9 AM. When services conclude, we will be preparing the Synagogue for High Holy Day services by replacing the Siddurim and the Chumashim with the Machzorim. We will additionally be setting the chairs in the Social Hall.
We can use your help!
Don’t worry about heavy lifting because there will be other vital tasks to be done that do not require strenuous work. Please join us! We appreciate your helping out with this tremendous Mitzvah!
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SUNDAY, September 14
Pickleball
10 AM - 1 PM
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TUESDAY, September 16
Pickleball
10 AM - 1 PM
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WEDNESDAY, September 17
Canasta & Mah Jongg
12:30 - 4 PM
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THURSDAY, September 18
Torah Study
11 AM
Pickleball
10 AM - 1 PM
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FRIDAY, September 19
Studying the Prophets
following morning minyan
WAX Brunch
11:00 AM
LBI Table
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Friday, September 12
6:30 PM
Shabbat Dinner
Friday, September 19
11:00 AM
WAX Brunch
LBI Table
Thursday, September 25
8:30 PM
Druze Israeli Minority
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Sunday, October 5
John Kendrick's Broadway Series
Oklahoma
8:30 PM
Friday, October 17
WAX Brunch
11:00 AM
Sunday, October 19
The Jewish Museum, NY – “Afterlives: Recovering the Lost Stories of Looted Art”
1:00 PM
Wednesday, October 22
Boscov's Friends Helping Friends
Monday, October 27
Adult Education: Davening 101
7:45 PM
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MAH JONGG & CANASTA
WEDNESDAYS
12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM
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PICKLEBALL
Sundays and Thursdays
10 - 1
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FIRST ANNUAL PICKLEBALL OPEN TOURNAMENT
Sunday morning's competition began with a prayer by Rabbi Jay. It was a day filled with sound of the ball hitting the racket and cheers for a good return. The competitive spirit was felt throughout the social hall along with the feeling of sportsmanship and friendship. Following an award ceremony, the group - players, spectators and helpers- sat down together for lunch. Thank you to our helpers: Suzy Geier, Teri Robinovitz, David Robinovitz , Ruth Turner, Howard Koransky, Rich Alberghini and Anthony Alberghini and our tournament director Jon Geier.
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JCC OF LBI PICKELBALL ALL STARS 2025
Bev Miller, Mike Miller, Joanne Babbitt, Howard Babbitt, Robin Genna, Gerry Genna, Karmella Moneta, Celia Salzman, Carol Koransky, Lisa Abramson, Linda Chakrin, Jon Geier, Bernie Phil Hershenberg, Stu Mandel, Ron Buskirk, Avi Sadon.
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TOURNAMENT MEDAL WINNERS
Bev Miller (Center) GOLD
Lisa Abramson (Left) SILVER
Howard Babbitt (Right) BRONZE
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A PRAYER TO THE PICKLEBALL GODS
by Bernard Hershenberg
May your fee move swiftly and your balance not desert you.
May your eyes see the ball before it passes your paddle and may you swing accurately before it moves beyond your reach.
May your anxiety motivate you and not threaten you with fears of public humiliation.
May you strive to be good and not motivated to be the best.
May your self-criticism remain in check, and may you speedily bounce back from the mistakes you will assuredly make.
May you bask in the vibes of friendship and social connection and may this be your best memory of this day.
And to this prayer, Let us all say Amen
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Looking for members to join the New Years Eve Committee to help plan this year's party.
Contact Diane Buskirk is you can help. dianebuskirk@yahoo.com
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We have an exciting upcoming event on October 22, 2025, and I need your help and support.
Boscov’s Department Stores are sponsoring “Friends Helping Friends”, a 1 day only in store and on-line shopping event. For a $5 (or more, if you like) donation to Women’s Auxiliary, you will receive a 25% off Shopping Discount Pass! All proceeds from your donation go to the Women’s Auxiliary! This is a win-win for everyone! You get to do your shopping at a discounted price (Chanukah is right around the corner), and Women’s Auxiliary raises funds to help the JCC!
Boscov’s stores are located in Toms River, Egg Harbor Township, Monmouth, Moorestown, and Woodbridge in New Jersey, as well as Neshaminy and Plymouth Meeting in Pennsylvania.
I have a supply of the Shopping Passes, so please reach out and support our event!
Thank you,
Joanne Babbitt
215-962-3688 (cell; call or text)
609-312-7439 (home)
Jb_toot@att.net
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The Druze Israeli community is considered one of the loyalist minorities in Israel. The strong and unique relationship between the Jews and Druze started before the establishment of the State of Israel, relying on mutual values and goals, and today, it is considered a successful model of the integration of a minority in Israel. Join us to learn about this unique community, its contribution to the state of Israel, its identity, challenges, and future vision.
Gadeer Kamal Mreeh, Israeli Druze politician and journalist, will lead the seminar.
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Jewish Museum Series
This is the first of the Zoom programs brought to our members through our participation in PJP (Partners in Jewish Programming). Look for more information about future Museum programs including "American Jewish Soldiers and the Liberation of the Concentration Camps” and Museum of the Southern Jewish Experience – “Stories from the Museum of the Southern Jewish Experience”
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Sunday, October 19 @ 1:00 PM
The Jewish Museum, NY – “Afterlives: Recovering the Lost Stories of Looted Art”
During World War II, untold numbers of artworks and pieces of cultural property were stolen by Nazi forces. After the war, an estimated one million artworks and 2.5 million books were recovered. Many more were destroyed. This exhibition chronicles the layered stories of the objects that survived, exploring the circumstances of their theft, their post-war rescue, and their afterlives in museums and private collections.
Afterlives includes objects looted from Jewish collections during the war, including works by such renowned artists as Pierre Bonnard, Paul Cézanne, Marc Chagall, Gustave Courbet, Paul Klee, Franz Marc, Henri Matisse, Pablo Picasso, and Camille Pissarro. The Jewish Museum has also commissioned four contemporary artists to create new works that address the resonance of the exhibition’s themes: Maria Eichhorn, Hadar Gad, Dor Guez, and Lisa Oppenheim. Treasured pieces of Judaica, including rare examples of Jewish ceremonial objects from destroyed synagogues, will also be on view, as well as rarely seen archival photographs and documents that connect the objects to history.
75 years after the Second World War, Afterlives explores how surviving artworks and other precious objects were changed by those events, and how they have moved through time, bearing witness to profound historical ruptures while also acting as enduring carriers of individual expression, knowledge, and creativity. The exhibition follows the paths taken by works of art across national borders, through military depots, and in and out of networks of collectors, looters, ideologues, and restitution organizations.
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Coming in January 2026, we will also be bringing to our members a PJP series entitled " Jewish Art with Evgenia Kempinski"
Evgenia Kempinski is a professional Jewish tour guide, born and raised in St. Petersburg, Russia. With over fifteen years of experience guiding Jewish heritage tours in her hometown, she has developed a deep passion for uncovering and sharing the stories of the Jewish Diaspora. With her family she spent six enriching years living in Israel and now resides in Barcelona, continuing her mission to connect people with Jewish history and culture around the world. She is the founder of the Online Jewish Travel Club, a vibrant community that brings together Jews from different countries through a shared love of travel, art, and Jewish heritage.
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The JCC section at Crescent Memorial Park is available for sales. Please contact Bonni Rubin-Sugarman at 609-417-7148.
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We are very excited to add to the WAX Gift Shop items from local merchants and artisans. Stop in to look and buy one (or more) of these beautiful pieces for your home, as a gift or just for yourself. The gift shop is open during office hours M-F 10 - 2.
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CALL PAUL LEVINE WITH ANY QUESTIONS
484-802-0586
SEE ORDER FORM BELOW
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The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:
Goldie Levine
Morris Shapiro
Lillian Cofsky
Eva Diesenhaus
Willy Hupert
Harrie Kronenberg
Hannah Esh Lowe
Beverly Edythe Schoen
William Seidler
Jerome Shapiro
David Corson
Pauline Ellis Cramer
Beatrice Ferber*
Eli Golden*
Charles Hudes
Martin Levine
Paula Polishook
Betty Pomerantz
Jeffrey Chairnoff
Jack Estes
Charles Kaplan
Alan Kronenberg
Belle Meisler
Saul Babbitt
Julia Herman*
Jimmy Kagel
Jack Lang
Sadie Bodanji
Martha Horowitz
Anne Kanowith
Sydell Levy
John E. Frankfurt*
Sarah Kirsh
Rose Lehrer
Lester Miller
We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral.
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Janet Barrish
September 13
Ellen Konwiser
September 13
Carol Katz Sicheri
September 13
Marcia Babbitt Gonsalves
September 16
Ann Newman
September 18
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Susan & Carl Chaikin
55th Anniversary
Faye & Lewis Deutsch
61st Anniversary
Joyce & Paul Levine
30th Anniversary
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SHARE YOUR NEWS
AND PICTURES
CONTACT:
rvalen1963@aol.com
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CARING COMMITTEE
This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.
Please contact Chairperson,
Debby Schweighardt
if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.
973-634-5349
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YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.
Go to jccoflbi.org - Giving/Pay
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GIVING OPPORTUNITIES
PAVERS
Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building
8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"
SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:
PAVER FORM
Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.
Purchase a personalized paving stone
in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.
Please contact Diane Hoffman
with your order or with any questions:
dihoff1@aol.com
PRAYER BOOKS
There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.
See Order form here: Prayer Book
TRIBUTES
SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF
See order form here: TRIBUTES
TREE OF LIFE
Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE
Bronze Leaf $90
Silver Leaf $126
Gold :Leaf $180
ENDOWMENT FUND
Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.
Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.
A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.
Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly.
YAHRZEIT PLAQUES
Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary.
Here is the order form:
YAHRZEIT
KOL HAKAVOD
Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD
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2025 MEMBERSHIP FORMS
Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.
Here is form for renewal:
RENEW NOW
And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:
JOIN NOW
BE A PART OF THE WOMEN'S AUXILLARY
2025 DUES FORM HERE
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JCC FUNDS
Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.
ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.
GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.
KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.
RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.
ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
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JCC LEADERSHIP
OFFICERS
President- Phil Rosenzweig
1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman
2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman
3RD Vice President- Jon Geier
Treasurer- Stu Cofsky
Secretary- Cliff Denker
Immediate Past President -Michael Babst
BOARD MEMBERS
Howard Babbitt
Diane Buskirk
Lorna Klein
Ken Podos
Sondi Pripstein
Terri Robinovitz
David Shatz
Bonni Rubin-Sugarman
Rose Valentine
Ken Yudman
WOMEN'S AUXILIARY
President - Diane Buskirk
Treasurer - Suzy Geier
Secretary - Joanne Babbitt
Lorna Klein
Joyce Levine
Representative to the Board - Sondi Pripstein
Immediate Past President - Irene Babst
Rabbi Michael S. Jay, Spiritual Leader
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