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These mothers experienced Israel not simply as tourists, but as people coming to contribute, connect and grow. They volunteered, met Israelis, heard their stories, explored the history and spiritual meaning of the land, learned Torah together, and shared honest conversations about Jewish identity and parenting. Along the way, they were inspired by incredible speakers and experiences, including Anat Ishai, known as The Challah Mom and an NCSY alumna; Dikla Mizrachi, mother of Ben Mizrachi z”l, an NCSY Vancouver alum and one of Israel’s heroes who was killed at NOVA on October 7; and Rami Davidian, who saved more than 750 lives at NOVA. For one beautiful Shabbat, their journey came together with their children’s. It was far more than a trip. It was an opportunity for two generations to experience Jewish growth together.
We often invest tremendous energy in providing transformative experiences for young people, and rightly so. A teenager may return from Israel inspired, moved, and eager to make changes, but inspiration does not always come with instructions. Sometimes a teenager returns home having changed, only to discover that their home has remained exactly the same. That is why parent programming is so essential.
The Torah expresses this idea in the first paragraph of the Shema: “V’hayu hadvarim ha’eileh asher Anochi m’tzavcha hayom al l’vavecha. V’shinantam l’vanecha.” “These words that I command you today shall be upon your heart, and you shall teach them to your children.” The order is significant. Before the Torah tells us to teach our children, it tells us that its words must first be placed upon our own hearts. Jewish education is strongest when parents are not merely telling their children what Judaism should mean, but are continuing to discover what it means for themselves.
That is what made TJJ for Moms so powerful. The mothers and children did not experience Israel in precisely the same way, but they returned home with a shared vocabulary. When a child speaks about a meaningful moment in Israel, the mother can now understand more than the words. She has felt its complexity, beauty, pain, and holiness herself. And when the initial excitement begins to fade, as excitement naturally does, the parent can help transform inspiration into action. A child can return home with a spark, but when a parent understands that spark, protects it and adds fuel to it, the spark can become a lasting flame.
With gratitude,
Rabbi Glenn Black
CEO, NCSY Canada
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