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As a pickleball player, I like to encourage the other three players on the court. "Good shot" ... "Great serve" ... "Nice try" ... "Almost got it," etc. When my partner whiffs the ball or hits it into the net or way out of bounds (and sometimes they apologize unnecessarily), I usually say, "Hey, we all do it."
In other words, don't worry about it. You're not alone. We all make mistakes. We're all on the same court with the same goal playing the same game with the same ball.
Because we DO all do it. Out of the dozens and dozens and dozens of people I've ever pickled with in Florida, New Jersey, and Maryland, ALL of them have made mistakes on the court. Me, too - certainly!
None of us are perfect pickleball players. (We know this because that's how the other team scores points!) We blunder and simply move on to the next shot - and go again.
Same with life, snippeteers, none of us can claim perfection. So when you fumble, when you err, when you trip up ... do not berate yourself. Do not feel embarrassed. Do not apologize. We all do it.
In other words, don't worry about it. You're not alone. We all make mistakes. We're all on the same court of life with the same goal of living our best lives. Errors are bound to happen.
We all do it.
We blunder and simply move on to the next shot - and go again.
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